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Women are more shallow regarding looks

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire
oh dear nookienotes not short in the looks department herself.

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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes
What I find sad is how people make so many assumptions about people's personalities and character based on looks alone.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes
What I find sad is how people make so many assumptions about people's personalities and character based on looks alone.

Appearances count. Job interviews, got to dress the part, look the part, depending on what you are going for. Just reality of life.

Good looks can also backfire if you meet people who resent good looking people, then immediate hostility can occur too. But I guess with everything, there are always pluses and minuses.

Personally, I think the best place to be in, somewhere, where you look ordinary and don't really stand out as extraordinary beauty, but still generally pleasant to look at. When you're in that zone, there are less problems and you will be more approachable by most people.

I am just thinking of people with elephantitis, really deformed on the face. To say it will easy for them to socialize in public and find friends, is really not a reality in this world. They will have to brave alot to find the ones who can accept them.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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Women are more shallow regarding looks

Generally, I find this to be untrue because, just looking around, I often see really good looking women with lesser looking guys.

I don't know if you can ever win a man's heart if he thinks you are ugly. But I think you can win a woman's heart even if she thinks you are ugly.

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I think that people are often intimidated by perfection/beauty and so rationalize, justify or project their discomfort onto the individual who intimidates them.

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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

This is my second post on here.

My friend, who I go to college with, introduced me to the world of BDSM. He is several years older than me, he is 24.
He is from southern Italy and a very nice looking man.
Plus, he has charisma. I call it bullshit but women love him. They listen to him talk about himself.
He was living with a beautiful woman. 2:00am he would crawl out the window and go to another girl's apt and have sex with her. He would then come back to his place. He eventually got caught but his live in girlfriend forgave him. He eventually broke up with her.

I am so jealous of him! Wherever he goes women turn their heads and look. They will drop everything just to talk with him. When he talks to women it bores the hell out of me but women like it.

What do you think life is like being handsome like that? Getting the attention of women? Having a beautiful girlfriend?
Life must be wonderful?

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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes
Yeah, I was thinking more the assumption that people who are abnormally good-looking are poor lovers... Such a sad assumption. Seems to me that they have just as much chance to want to care about their partners' sexual satisfaction as anyone else.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes
Yeah, I was thinking more the assumption that people who are abnormally good-looking are poor lovers... Such a sad assumption. Seems to me that they have just as much chance to want to care about their partners' sexual satisfaction as anyone else.

It's my personal experience in casual sex world. The really textbook good looking ones doesn't even care to make you cum. They work really well with women who doesn't really like sex anyway and it suits them. They love having the eye candy on their arm.

I live in a world, where majority of my married girlfriends hate sex with their husbands even though they love their husband deeply. They just don't enjoy the sex, and they aren't looking for sex anyway, they are happy to simply not have sex ever. No wonder people always say marriage is more than sex.

Perhaps if these good looking people fell inlove, maybe he will care about his life partner's pleasure.

I've always had better sexual pleasure with men with lesser looks. They seem to put in alot more effort and care about your pleasure.

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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

@Wayward5oul

I can see that you're one of the few people who constantly abuse the TOS. The OP asked what it's like to be handsome and he is receiving replies. He is not asking, "Would women please criticize handsome men?" As usual, you ignore what the OP is asking, not just on this post, but on others, and giving unwanted replies.

The "price to pay" to post in the forums is you, and your colleagues who abuse the TOS. The benefits are the honest replies and emails we receive.

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ORIGINAL: MikeRaven

OP, are you asking if handsome men have it easier getting into relationships?
Are you asking if handsome men have it easier attracting beautiful women?
Or are you asking if handsome men have it easier in life?

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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom
The OP asked what it's like to be handsome and he is receiving replies. He is not asking, "Would women please criticize handsome men?"

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ORIGINAL: Dvr22999874

I am lucky in that way Cinnamongirl..........I'm as ugly as a bag of spanners and have a mongrel London/Australian accent you could cut with a knife, so even when I say the right thing, it probably sounds wrong *smile*. I have a question though.........what's a suit ???