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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 2:02:19 AM

Cinnamongirl67

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Rule number 1 never try to figure women out.
Rule number 2 never try to figure women out.
Rule number 3 men should never wear speedos, I do mean NEVER.

Ha!

I knew a woman who went from flat to fluffy. She went from modest to her ta's ta's basically hanging out her blouse. The size difference was like BOOM! I was like ahhhh wow big change huh? Pointing to the breast area. She was livid, I mean mad as hell I noticed. It left me scratching my head. I guess no one was suppose to notice the brand new watermelons on the chest.
Rule number 4 never try to figure women out. ( and I'm a woman!)

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 2:05:06 AM

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The size difference was like BOOM! I was like ahhhh wow big change huh? Pointing to the breast area. She was livid, I mean mad as hell I noticed. It left me scratching my head. I guess no one was suppose to notice the brand new watermelons on the chest.

This one is easily explainable. She has major insecurity about her chest size. After going enlargement, it did not make her insecurity about her chest go away. So she's always going to be sensitive about it.

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 2:20:13 AM

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As for the religious in here, you spread sexualizing women and reducing them to a sinful facet of society. Shame on your hypocrisy

Do all religious people do that, or just the ones in here?

Hint: This is an intelligence test.

Considering some here argue that America is a Christian country, I think it's pretty clear my target audience

Oh something is clear, but it isn't what you think.

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 2:21:00 AM

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Guess what, guys jog shirtless in America. But when your job that is not inherently sexual in nature is at stake over your willingness (or lack thereof) to be sexualized, there is a problem

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 2:24:36 AM

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Guess what, guys jog shirtless in America.

They do? Crumpets lives in America and he doesn't see any shirtless men, only sports bra wearing women. His making a point that men in the US covers up, while women show more skin.

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 2:38:19 AM

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That's because crumpets' sex-radar is completely blind to men and super-sensitive to scantily-clad women.

He is soooooo socially inept that this is the 2nd or 3rd thread he's had on this very subject.
He's had all the answers.
Everyone has explained to him in microscopic detail, for pages and pages, all the where's and why's but he just can't grasp very simple social concepts.

To put it bluntly, he is utterly and totally socially inept and cannot read social cues or understand basic social behaviour.
What's worse is his OCD in bringing up the self-same subjects because he just doesn't understand them at all.
Might as well try to teach quantum physics and chaos theory to a new-born chimpanzee - you'll probably have more success than getting crumpets to understand this really basic stuff.
For someone of his age, you'd think they might grasp something of the subject, but he is clueless.

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 2:38:41 AM

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As for the religious in here, you spread sexualizing women and reducing them to a sinful facet of society. Shame on your hypocrisy

Do all religious people do that, or just the ones in here?

Hint: This is an intelligence test.

K.

heck can we make explaining exactly how the religious in here "spread sexualizing women and [reduce] them to a sinful facet of society" a part of the mix too?

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 2:54:59 AM

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As for the religious in here, you spread sexualizing women and reducing them to a sinful facet of society. Shame on your hypocrisy

Do all religious people do that, or just the ones in here?

Hint: This is an intelligence test.

K.

heck can we make explaining exactly how the religious in here "spread sexualizing women and [reduce] them to a sinful facet of society" a part of the mix too?

I always go to hooters for the awesome... conversation. Not the breasts, definitely not the breasts. And I'm sure no one there trivializes them to sexual objects. I wouldn't call people out but these same people not caring about sexualizing women are also talking about the "atheist crusade"

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 3:17:58 AM

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That's because crumpets' sex-radar is completely blind to men and super-sensitive to scantily-clad women.

He is soooooo socially inept that this is the 2nd or 3rd thread he's had on this very subject.
He's had all the answers.
Everyone has explained to him in microscopic detail, for pages and pages, all the where's and why's but he just can't grasp very simple social concepts.

To put it bluntly, he is utterly and totally socially inept and cannot read social cues or understand basic social behaviour.
What's worse is his OCD in bringing up the self-same subjects because he just doesn't understand them at all.
Might as well try to teach quantum physics and chaos theory to a new-born chimpanzee - you'll probably have more success than getting crumpets to understand this really basic stuff.
For someone of his age, you'd think they might grasp something of the subject, but he is clueless.

Agreed. It's also completely disingenous how he phrases his "questions". Or clueless. In no example that has been made were any of these women saying one thing and doing another.

Unless a woman has a pea sized brain, she is totally aware of what she wearing and the desired affect. It's also ridiculous to compare highly trained Olympic athletes with cheerleaders and Hooters servers. The female athletes wear what is most helpful in achieving a goal (speed, etc.) and Cheerleaders and be
Hooters do it to entertain men and get bigger tips.

Everyone concerned is clear on these points, except the OP.

There is no hypocrisy in any of these examples.

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 4:12:20 AM

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Guess what, guys jog shirtless in America.

They do? Crumpets lives in America and he doesn't see any shirtless men, only sports bra wearing women. His making a point that men in the US covers up, while women show more skin.

It's true! I live close to a route where the track team runs. They run for miles. It's nothing for almost all of them to not have their shirt on. It gets very hot here. No one thinks anything of it, at least I don't.

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 4:30:47 AM

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That's because crumpets' sex-radar is completely blind to men and super-sensitive to scantily-clad women.

He is soooooo socially inept that this is the 2nd or 3rd thread he's had on this very subject.
He's had all the answers.
Everyone has explained to him in microscopic detail, for pages and pages, all the where's and why's but he just can't grasp very simple social concepts.

To put it bluntly, he is utterly and totally socially inept and cannot read social cues or understand basic social behaviour.
What's worse is his OCD in bringing up the self-same subjects because he just doesn't understand them at all.
Might as well try to teach quantum physics and chaos theory to a new-born chimpanzee - you'll probably have more success than getting crumpets to understand this really basic stuff.
For someone of his age, you'd think they might grasp something of the subject, but he is clueless.

Agreed. It's also completely disingenous how he phrases his "questions". Or clueless. In no example that has been made were any of these women saying one thing and doing another.

Unless a woman has a pea sized brain, she is totally aware of what she wearing and the desired affect. It's also ridiculous to compare highly trained Olympic athletes with cheerleaders and Hooters servers. The female athletes wear what is most helpful in achieving a goal (speed, etc.) and Cheerleaders and be
Hooters do it to entertain men and get bigger tips.

Everyone concerned is clear on these points, except the OP.

There is no hypocrisy in any of these examples.

The olympics as an organization are not a beacon of morality, I have no qualms with Olympic athletes

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 4:57:11 AM

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PS: I do wonder what the managers rationale was. The only reason anyone would want to "sex up"" is to get more tips. The customers are hopefully returning cause of the food?

Aesthetics. Males are the big paying customers and like being in restaurants with women looking and dressing like a woman. As compared to, going to a restaurant where women dress like butches, and not even in female cut, which was what I was wearing. I don't like to attract sexual attention at work, and I dress to look unattractive. When I was in my 20's, I absolutely refuse to do anything that is something only required for females. Including wearing make up. I have always fought that, if I wear a skirt, the man better wear a skirt too. If I wear make up, the man better wear make up too. I refuse to be treated differently.

I guess it's my little rebellion against all the stupid rules exclusive to women.

You know when even your own father says something like, "Your husband probably left you because you refused to wear a dress."

That's what I grow up with. Because I am a woman, what should a woman do, what should a woman wear, what should a woman put on her face, what hobbies and curriculum a woman should be interested in. And I was just at that stage I was fed up of all that!

But now, I'm done with that part, because, I realise pants and shirts are a bitch to wear everyday and I love comfortable one piece dresses that is easy to take in and take out. I just wear whatever is comfortable and at the moment, it happens to be a certain style of dresses that is easiest to get into and get out of, with no ironing necessary.

Pants and shirts just means more ironing ha.

Lol! There are several CEOs out there including Steve Jobs that just had/have a couple of different styles that are simply and comfortable to wear so they don't have to think about it. But I think your reasoning for it is a bit scewed. Plus there are cultures where men wear skirts. Both in Scotland and in Ukraine (Cossacks) have skirt like garments.

If you do not want to assimilate into the norms of your culture that's one thing. But to purposefully make yourself look unattractive (I mean there are classy, attractive styles using pants and shirts), that's just silly. There are even styles that clearly send signals that you're not interested in flirtation but that are still pleasant on the eye.

If you're working in a service branch then presentation itself is a part of it.

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 5:31:18 AM

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Aesthetics. Males are the big paying customers and like being in restaurants with women looking and dressing like a woman. As compared to, going to a restaurant where women dress like butches, and not even in female cut, which was what I was wearing.

To be clear, I'm not asking a business question nor even the social question of why women dress the way they do.

I'm asking why many women say one thing, but actually do quite the opposite.

Specifically, I'm asking for an insight into their thought process that allows such a tremendously bipolar contradiction of actions versus stated words.

Perhaps it is your own thought process that requires modification here.

When you cease thinking that all women are the same, with the same wants needs and desires, you will realise how silly your question is.

Try thinking not of women in general - because there isn't a one size fits all answer - but of the individual women you may know.

(Of course it may be the case that you don't know any women in which case this whole discussion is pretty pointless isn't it?)

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 6:16:46 AM

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Crumpets, no, no, no, no, Hell NO!

We are NOT doing this nonsense again where you go on about women "shoving their panties in your face" when it comes to GD cheerleading uniforms, which aren't even picked by the women who wear them.

Every time you do these threads, you pick out women who are half your age, wearing school sponsored uniforms, ridiculous outfits geared for very young women, sportswear, and all other kinds of stuff that is not the way most women dress.

And of all things, you're leading with an example from FOOTBALL. You are not going to tell me that you are not smart enough to know that, for a sport geared toward men, that they aren't going to have women dressed as eye candy. Gee, I couldn't possibly imagine WHY the cheerleaders are dressed that way. <Heavy sarcasm.>

Frankly, this stuff is beneath you. I don't for a second believe that the majority of women your age are dressed in such a way in their day to day lives that their underwear is continually assaulting you. Don't post me pictures of women on the beach, at kink events, or in Halloween costumes trying to find the exceptions to the rule.

Seriously, when one of your female friends gives you the Gibb's slap upside the head, I'm not going to be surprised.

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 6:30:19 AM

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The age old question.I do not think that women themselves really know the answer to that question! Both genders think differently for genetic reasons and because both have a different role in life but usually come together so that both genders can co-operate successfully in a mutually beneficial relationship.

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 7:30:33 AM

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If you do not want to assimilate into the norms of your culture that's one thing. But to purposefully make yourself look unattractive (I mean there are classy, attractive styles using pants and shirts), that's just silly. There are even styles that clearly send signals that you're not interested in flirtation but that are still pleasant on the eye.

First of all, local men actually prefer conservative dressing females as romantic partners. So if you dress pleasant on the eye, but professional and conservative, you will get ALOT of male attention. They love women that look like ice queen virgins and completely covers up. So looking unattractive assures you get zero male attention at your work place. I hate being seen as a female at work. I like to be one of the guys. So I refuse to look like one. But so far, everytime when I have been chastitise for it, I have resigned, and each time, they relented and leave me alone. Not only with this company but several companies, as I was a hard worker and I did a great job. They can't fault me for my work. They can only complain about my dressing and my refusal to wear make up. I like to wear baggy male work shirts and straight cut male pants. And I even wear male black shoes. And point is, if they tell me I can't work there anymore unless I change and start wearing more feminine, I resign and leave, and don't try to fight them on it. I respect their policy, but I don't have to be part of it. Move on and find someone else to work for. My dressing does not affect my good service to customers. I'm confident about the work I do, and I can't be bothered to entertain their dress code. I dress neatly, like a man, and it's not untidy. My shirt and pants are neatly pressed, my shoes are polished.

Anyway, I like dressing up feminine only for my man. In that, I will wear anything he wants. Why should I dress for anybody else's aesthetics who I do not want attention from?

Currently, it still pisses me off when men tell me I am disrespecting them by refusing to wear make up. Of course that just makes me even more determined never to wear it, ever! It's just incredible how many local men keeps telling me that. One guy told me that he would be embarrass to take me to a company function if I refuse to put on make up. It's just incredible to me.
But anyway, I've been sticking to men who appreciate my natural face and avoiding these guys who are make up militants. I think there is seriously something wrong with this world, when a man thinks it's mandatory for a woman to always wear make up.

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 7:47:59 AM

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 8:11:01 AM

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I'm going to tackle this a bit differently, crumpets.

My answer is this: Some people (men and women) say one thing and do another. Period.

Your problem is seeing those people are generalities and asking EVERYONE to explain it. The thing is, even if we do explain it, we could be wrong because we don't think that way or because we are some of those people, and we are deluded ourselves.

So, what's the point?

Here's what I would suggest, instead: Be more specific.

Interact with people who show consistency in thought, character and actions. If they do something that you think may be uncharacteristic, ask about it.

For example, I VERY RARELY show any of my sexual bits online. I don't feel a need to. Mostly, I figure those are for people who have earned it. That said, I hint at them now and again and actually have a photo that shows my breasts up. In those cases, I choose the photos because to me they are more artistic than purely sexual. They make a statement, in my view.

Now, YOU might see them as purely sexual, and think they are not usual for me. You can choose to mark me as someone who is inconsistent or you can ask what my reasoning is.

You see?

Why bother figuring out ALL women (including NFL cheerleaders), if you are not looking for ALL women?

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 8:38:29 AM

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This one is easily explainable. She has major insecurity about her chest size.

Thank you for being intelligent enough to remain on topic by explaining what the person was THINKING!
So, in this case, what this woman says is perfectly in keeping with what she does.

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Guess what, guys jog shirtless in America.

It is a good point to bring up what males do, as I brought it up in the track dichotomy.
Remember though, this isn't a thread about what men and woman do, per se.

This is a thread about what people say versus what they do.

So, you'll need to edify me as to what you consider either harmonious or disharmonious about what men exposing their chest hairs say versus what these same men do (which is they, admittedly, display their chest while exercising).

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They do? Crumpets lives in America and he doesn't see any shirtless men, only sports bra wearing women. His making a point that men in the US covers up, while women show more skin.

I'm confused by your advice.
Did you read the title of this thread yet (or are you just staring at the pictures)?
What are you trying to tell us about what people say versus what they do?

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RE: Someone please explain to me what women are thinking - 2/1/2016 8:42:27 AM

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This is a thread about what people say versus what they do.

Yes, and you are completely ignoring the point about, what you consider sexual isn't sexual to women. So they are doing and saying consistently.

What is sexual to you, is not sexual to them.

So your question is why do women say they don't like being sexualised, but they do things that seem like, they like it? Because you wrongly interprete their actions as sexual actions.
Men brain are wired differently from female brain. And women ain't gonna make any accommodations to appear less sexual to men, just because men want to misinterpret it as sexual.

You know in Malaysia, one of the Ministers said, women are causing men emotional distress by not dressing in the appropriate hijab. To them, even a woman wearing jeans and t-shirt is flaunting their sexuality into men's faces on purpose.
So the problem is that men don't look at things and think the same as women. And men from different cultures have different ideas what's sexualised dressing.

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