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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/20/2006 4:08:45 PM

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/20/2006 4:26:42 PM

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what other ways do you demonstrate your submission?

By being completely open and vulnerable to him and by being obedient.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/20/2006 6:13:31 PM

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Just as is the bolded black sentence, thank you LA for a perfect example.

Thanks Tress.

Or, as I like to put it, "It has nothing to do with the act, but the motivation."

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/20/2006 6:53:30 PM

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By taking care of His property.
Being that i am His property, i do have to be honest and say that this one is a bit hard for me. I have this issue about the focus being on me, doing things for myself, when i would rather do everything for Him, or help anyone out within my capabilities, than do anything for me.
I have gotten better about this, afterall, i am His property and i will follow His order.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/20/2006 7:03:31 PM

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As a Dom I'd want a small gold ring pierced into my sub's pussy right above her clit.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/20/2006 7:56:28 PM

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Two ways of demonstrating submission that come to my mind with regard to this question --

my Master and i have a particular greeting that is used whenever we meet. If He has traveled to a meeting place, i go to Him and we do not touch at first. He will instruct me to get undressed and unpack for Him. Our greeting is private, but it involves no touching until my tongue touches a very intimate part of Him. It instantly puts me into a submissive mind-set.

A second subtle demonstration of submission takes place when we eat a meal together. i wait for Him to nod at me before beginning my meal. It is a quiet reminder of my place.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/20/2006 11:46:22 PM

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I was tasked by my Master to design a ritual that symbolizes our relationship... I perform it, circumstances permitting, daily (when I was on vacation with my mother I did yoga and spent time in Childs Pose in lieu of my ritual since it would have been hard to explain it and, I thought, irreverant to perform it in the bathroom... I also modified it when I was ill and unable to perform it)... it is a way of reminding myself I am his (*grins* 'cause I might forget you know

)...

I also, again when appropriate, carry on around my apartment in the nude since Master mentioned to me that he would like to have a slave that did that but, due to the fact there are many roommates and children in his household it's not feasible... *giggles* and I've taken to occasionally taking pictures of naked baking, or ironing, or dishwashing... next will be scrubbing the floors... when we're chatting I just change my pic... he tells me I'm wicked but doesn't tell me to stop...

I'm looking forward to wearing his collar and eventually being permanently marked by him, likely with a tattoo since we both prefer that to branding... he's also said that he want's to get me a few more piercings in my ears... and I'm hoping he'll allow me to pierce my nose as well...

another way that I serve him is to live my life in a manner that would please him... and he knows that I strive for that goal and that in itself pleases him...

when I am lucky enough to be near him I serve quietly and efficiently since he enjoys that... when there are people around I might kneel at his feet and place his cup on the floor and pour his drink there... it's not obvious that it's a submissive gesture, he's got a cluttered desk and that's where he usually sits... and sometimes discression is necessary... when it's appropriate I often will kneel or sit at his feet, sometimes clothed, sometimes naked... *grins* I often end up 'serving' the room drinks if that is the only discreet way to serve Master his without raising eyebrows.

I try to anticipate his needs... often this is nothing more that ensuring his cup is full or that his favored frying pan is clean (he is an excellent cook and likes to do it too... so I just make sure that his kitchen is clean so he's never hindered by looking for utensils or space)... his wife taught me how he likes his underwear folded... she doesn't care if her's is or not...

mostly I try to be helpful by lightening their daily load of housework... I don't mind housework and it frees them up to do other things... *smiles* besides, if there is no housework to do by the time evening comes and the baby is in bed then it means that we get to just hang out and watch movies in their big bed and just be together...

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/21/2006 4:43:45 PM

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I have tattoos, piercings, collar, I serve Him in every aspect - what other ways do you demonstrate your submission?

Please, Daddy.
Yes, Daddy.
Thank you, Daddy.

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And I try to smile when he reaches for the tabasco and clothes pins.

Katy it sounds like you-know-who and you-know-who-else graduated from the same school of sadism. Except you get to run to the bathroom and wash it off.

Oh and by the way, you're the whore, whore.

Now get me a blue margarita.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/21/2006 7:51:04 PM

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Sincerely try to enjoy the movies he picks, or the game he wants me to watch with on TV.

REALLY listen when he goes on, and on, about his online RPG.

Being an empathetic sounding board when he is working through some personal issue, even when it's about his other lovers.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/31/2006 6:36:46 AM

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Well, some of you got it and most of you didn't. Thanks anyways for the replies.

This wasn't about "who's more submissive" and it wasn't about the every day tasks and chores that we do as subs/slaves. It was more so about the extra stuff, the "out of the norm" acts that we may do, perhaps a tattoo or branding symobolizing ownership, a piercing in a special place, an act of submission in public (that won't get you arrested!) a sexual act with another as directed by your top, perhaps it's something that brings you humiliation which brings Him great pleasure ~ this is NOT to say that you MUST do these acts in order to PROVE your SUBMISSION, each Dom has their own individual expectation of what their sub should do, what is expected of them ... but what about going above and beyond? My Master goes above and beyond for me all the time, He surprises me with special outings, gifts, etc... it's nothing that he HAS to do, but it sure is nice! Just like doing something out of the norm for him isn't something that i have to do, but it sure is nice to do so.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/31/2006 9:49:23 AM

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what other ways do you demonstrate your submission?

By being the best me i can be in all i do, say, think and feel. Master claimed me for who i am - all of who i am, skills, talents, intelligence, creativity, intuition, even my feistiness as long as i'm respectful. i bring all of these to Him. Also, i keep myself very aware of how i contribute to the quality of His life and who He is and keep learning and growing myself.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/31/2006 10:10:42 AM

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I have been thinking about this thread for a while, and I find it generally very interesting. Even though the OP decided she didn't like the replies that didn't address her ideas of "extreme submission" (why is it by the way that people who start threads here think they own them? I'm always amused by the posters who have to monitor "their" threads and make sure the thread stays pure. A different topic for a different day.)

In fact, the ways my girl demonstrates her submission are not extreme, and are to Me all the more meaningful. Recently when we were together I was suddenly taken with a very debilitating illness. It radically changed our plans for the day, but even in her disappointment over that change, and her concern for Me, I sensed how her care of Me was a demonstration of her submission to Me. Daily tasks, undertaken with care and attention, are to My mind the perfect signs of submission. Maybe its only Me, but I don't need tats, or public demonstrations. Her kissing My feet and resting her head at the end of time together is enough.

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"It's the same thing," he said.

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 7/31/2006 10:16:30 AM

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well good for you!

just becareful when you pull out that stick you have up your ass!

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RE: Ways of showing submission - 8/12/2006 4:06:32 AM

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Extreme examples ? hmm.....

Everyone has some worries and limits..
Probably you mentioned yours to your Owner and He is knowing them
what are your limits? think about them and try too focus on them more.. and probably one of your limits would be something what he likes if you dont have it as your limits..

for example , your limit could be public games.. You dont like it too much, but your Master likes it.. You have to focus on this more...

so to begin , you can be naked in the flat but not to closing the curtains will be something for your limits...
or being naked while taking out the garbage bag to outside would be interesting also..

but again , these are the examples if you have public games limitation and your Master like puclic games..

i hope i could explain...

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