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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 4:11:27 PM   
mechski


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Editing my own post is my prerogative, if you look at it as deceitful, that is your issue, not mine.
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

Nice edit, NOT
deceitful too arent you.


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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 4:22:53 PM   
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Lol, I know that it is NOT the norm for a mother to walk out on her children. You mean to say the mother was so sick of your bs that she just dumped the kids on a stranger she met online? Didn't even consider taking them to the father? oh my, that has my head spinning, poor lady trusted a stranger over the biological father. I wish I could talk to her right now.

This is why, I totally believe, a submissive will be in grave danger with you. When you get angry, you become emotionally abusive. You have shown this since your behaviour to the girl you claim you love. Sure freedomdwarf means nothing to you. I even fear the kind of psychological and emotional abuse you would inflict on the son you raise. IF he dares oppose you or criticize you.

But my issue with you is that, you even emotionally abused that woman you claim you love. You have reoccuring patterns. The difference is also, freedom dwarf was young with his first wife. You are 50, when you chose this current woman you are having problems with. So you made good decisions when you were young, but somehow got more immature when you get older? Freedom dwarf is now happily married with the love of his life. You are struggling to treat this woman you claim you love, as she deserved to be treated.

Whatever we said about you, was from the information you shared. You blatantly go off at your own woman for saying she can't talk because she's stressed. Instead of being concern, and loving supportive, telling her that, you're there for her and would like to help in any manner possible, you went psycho on her. This was all information you shared of yourself, by yourself.


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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 4:38:21 PM   
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But you just did...both make accusations and be an utter idiot for thinking anyone in the UK can find out what you want.
Both to Bita truble An accusation) and FD...
You might not GAF but others do...
You have as much chance of becoming a good dominant, (or submissive or switch) as I do of becoming a mans taint.
You are a ignorant domineering asshole.
Be comfortable with that.
You might think you are dominant, you might think you can out dom anyone, but yeah....not so much...you couldnt dominate a coma patient.




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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 4:41:30 PM   
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Greta) You can believe this or not but I was just thinking, any minute she should show up, and poooof, there you are. That is really funny!!! Same old Greta, let me tell you a little story Greta) before my son was born, his mom got juvenile diabetes. She was insulin dependent N+R. She would go in low blood sugars and I would have to get the gluco gun, fill the bottle with the little tablet with the water, suck it up, and stick her. Do you know how many times I have actually saved her life? Same ol' Greta, no impact.
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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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Lol, I know that it is NOT the norm for a mother to walk out on her children. You mean to say the mother was so sick of your bs that she just dumped the kids on a stranger she met online? Didn't even consider taking them to the father? oh my, that has my head spinning, poor lady trusted a stranger over the biological father. I wish I could talk to her right now.

This is why, I totally believe, a submissive will be in grave danger with you. When you get angry, you become emotionally abusive. You have shown this since your behaviour to the girl you claim you love. Sure freedomdwarf means nothing to you. I even fear the kind of psychological and emotional abuse you would inflict on the son you raise. IF he dares oppose you or criticize you.

But my issue with you is that, you even emotionally abused that woman you claim you love. You have reoccuring patterns. The difference is also, freedom dwarf was young with his first wife. You are 50, when you chose this current woman you are having problems with. So you made good decisions when you were young, but somehow got more immature when you get older? Freedom dwarf is now happily married with the love of his life. You are struggling to treat this woman you claim you love, as she deserved to be treated.

Whatever we said about you, was from the information you shared. You blatantly go off at your own woman for saying she can't talk because she's stressed. Instead of being concern, and loving supportive, telling her that, you're there for her and would like to help in any manner possible, you went psycho on her. This was all information you shared of yourself, by yourself.




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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 4:48:49 PM   
mechski


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Think of two words, Jack Nicholson

YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

But you just did...both make accusations and be an utter idiot for thinking anyone in the UK can find out what you want.
Both to Bita truble An accusation) and FD...
You might not GAF but others do...
You have as much chance of becoming a good dominant, (or submissive or switch) as I do of becoming a mans taint.
You are a ignorant domineering asshole.
Be comfortable with that.
You might think you are dominant, you might think you can out dom anyone, but yeah....not so much...you couldnt dominate a coma patient.





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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 4:50:41 PM   
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your truth is ego
nothing more


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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 4:58:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mechski

Greta) You can believe this or not but I was just thinking, any minute she should show up, and poooof, there you are. That is really funny!!! Same old Greta, let me tell you a little story Greta) before my son was born, his mom got juvenile diabetes. She was insulin dependent N+R. She would go in low blood sugars and I would have to get the gluco gun, fill the bottle with the little tablet with the water, suck it up, and stick her. Do you know how many times I have actually saved her life? Same ol' Greta, no impact.

I am talking about, if your son disagreed with you, or questioned you, how would you treat him and deal with him? I was saying, according to the information you yourself gave, and we can only comment base on the information you share. You claim you did good with your first wife, and I will take your word for it. I am totally not questioning that.

I said you may have made good mature decisions when you were young, while freedomdwarf was like most normal young people, may have fallen inlove madly with a woman who was wrong for him, but you are no longer young and your decisions should be even wiser now than when you were young. But this current woman whom you having issues with. That's your choice, and also, alot of questionable choices about how you chose to react to the situations involved.




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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 4:58:21 PM   
mechski


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@ Freedom) you got awfully quiet again. Remember that I didn't start the BS, this goes back to the thread that was deleted.

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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 5:00:47 PM   
mechski


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Did you drink a 6 pack of red bull?
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ORIGINAL: Greta75


quote:

ORIGINAL: mechski

Greta) You can believe this or not but I was just thinking, any minute she should show up, and poooof, there you are. That is really funny!!! Same old Greta, let me tell you a little story Greta) before my son was born, his mom got juvenile diabetes. She was insulin dependent N+R. She would go in low blood sugars and I would have to get the gluco gun, fill the bottle with the little tablet with the water, suck it up, and stick her. Do you know how many times I have actually saved her life? Same ol' Greta, no impact.

I am talking about, if your son disagreed with you, or questioned you, how would you treat him and deal with him? I was saying, according to the information you yourself gave, and we can only comment base on the information you share. You claim you did good with your first wife, and I will take your word for it. I am totally not questioning that.

I said you may have make good mature decisions when you were young, while freedomdwarf was like most normal young people, may have fallen inlove madly with a woman who was wrong for him, but you are no longer young and your decisions should be even wiser now than when you were young. But this current woman whom you having issues with. That's your choice, and also, alot of questionable choices about how you chose to react to the situations involved.






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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 5:18:47 PM   
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Your opinion means nothing. As far as I am concerned your behavior more than speaks for itself. I make a thread about being nice, and just like always, A FEW are calling names, trying to conform, and in general just being a jackass.
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your truth is ego
nothing more




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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 5:39:46 PM   
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It apparently does...
My behaviour..is mine, you can neither control it, or negate it. You have no clue what you are talking about...you think you have people pegged and you know it all( except what it is that we do).
You are new....to BDSM, you are not an apprentice, only to yourself, and thats dangerous....Of course you will get women throwing themselves at you...but it will be built on deceit. Oh....and you were not nice in the slightest.
You make your bed...






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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 6:09:46 PM   
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You are so ridiculous, its ridiculous. There isn't a smudge of deceitfulness in me. I shoot from the hip, always have. Tell the fucking truth, always. That way you don't have to remember what you said. I could repeat everything I said a thousand times because I lived it, its my life, and its 100% real.

A story for you, about a month ago I took my Vietnam neighbors kid to Walmart (he is 23) we go through the checkout and I get cash back. The lady gives me 100.00 instead of 80.00. I immediately handed it back and said you gave me too much. The kid questioned me the whole way home, I had one answer "I believe if you do the right things, right things come your way" Karma for short. You are barking up the wrong tree. I am anything but deceitful and I DGAF what you think.
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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

It apparently does...
My behaviour..is mine, you can neither control it, or negate it. You have no clue what you are talking about...you think you have people pegged and you know it all( except what it is that we do).
You are new....to BDSM, you are not an apprentice, only to yourself, and thats dangerous....Of course you will get women throwing themselves at you...but it will be built on deceit. Oh....and you were not nice in the slightest.
You make your bed...







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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 6:19:22 PM   
mechski


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"Of course you will get women throwing themselves at you"

Do you have insecurities about women throwing themselves at men? I think this is something you need to look into, one word comes to mind...baggage.

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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 6:35:01 PM   
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Why would I?? lmao another assumption failure...Im got caught by the scroll, keep ranting...Im already done, Ive said what I wanted to say, I dont need a response, Bye bye.

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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 6:40:21 PM   
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It's about that time Gret, come up with another ploy?

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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 6:41:55 PM   
mechski


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Don't go away mad, just go away. Nothing of value to say anyway.
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Why would I?? lmao another assumption failure...Im got caught by the scroll, keep ranting...Im already done, Ive said what I wanted to say, I dont need a response, Bye bye.


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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/15/2016 6:47:26 PM   
mechski


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You made the assumption: "Of course you will get women throwing themselves at you"

I asked a question: "Do you have insecurities about women throwing themselves at men?"

Learn the difference.

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Why would I?? lmao another assumption failure...Im got caught by the scroll, keep ranting...Im already done, Ive said what I wanted to say, I dont need a response, Bye bye.


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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/16/2016 3:00:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mechski
Not everyone is going to do it your way, this isn't burger king.

You started this thread (in Intros, wrong section) making snide comments about a forum poster (so uncool of you, and probably a breach of forum guidelines), and it did not take you long to shed your passive-aggressive stance to switch over into chest-thumping, knuckle-dragging mode.
'Me Dominant, hear me roar' -- sound familiar?

Do you ever practice what you preach? You are one to play the poor-little-me hypocrisy card, and you have shown yourself to have a nasty, mean-spirited streak a mile wide. Atlantic Ocean Trench deep. No, that would be the Marianas Trench.

This is what makes a person like you dangerous, and 100 times more of a danger within the BDSM lifestyle. Forget whether you are capable of gaining a submissive's trust; you are incapable of earning the respect of other Dominants, the peer group to which you aspire.


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ORIGINAL: mechski
Don't attack, trying to be controlling, hurtful, acting like you know someone you haven't met.

What we know about you is from your own posting history. You have been given enough rope to hang yourself - on multiple occasions - dude who goes around boasting how he has others [on-line strangers] under his control.

You have viciously attacked freedomdwarf for expressing his opinion, one of the few upstanding maleDoms who has earned my respect (and that's saying a lot!), both for his integrity and for his loving and devoted treatment of his sub wife and her children. (I didn't want to bring up his personal business, and I hope he doesn't mind, but I am making a point.)

You have belittled Greta and others for freely expressing their points of view. Greta is another poster who has earned my respect. She is direct, blunt, and speaks her mind without deliberately being abrasive, she is highly intelligent and perceptive; she can hold her own without becoming emotional and vindictive.

Thank you for the compliment in making your (unfounded) comparison between her and me, as if either of us had an axe to grind with you before you started stirring the pot.

I actually tried to be nice to you on the two threads of yours I've responded. You are clearly the type of insecure individual who ALWAYS feels as if you HAVE to have the last word. You don't have many friends, do you? What an empty, hollow existence it must be for you to have to amuse yourself by continually goading Internet strangers in order to get them to interact with you.

You've goaded Greta and freedomdwarf several times to continue to engage with you.
You came onto Cinnamon despite her politely declining your many invitations to look at your FB page, she told you she is married, and then you brushed it off.
You have taken it upon yourself to privately message forum poster(s) in an unwelcomed manner.

Word gets around, fella.

What Lucy was alluding to, is that some female submissives desperate to find a Master will throw themselves at a self-proclaimed (wannabe) Dominant.
You will find, in time, that these women are often drama queens who come with a bunch of baggage you surely aren't equipped to deal with in a healthy manner.
It's no different than all the sub-fevered and sub-frenzied men who throw themselves in droves at Dominant women. We are always in high demand for the most part, much more so than your average maleDom is. Supply and demand.

Basically though, you personally are at a big disadvantage because you have no BDSM Topping skills, not to mention your other shortcomings. You could perhaps sustain a longer shelf life as a Cyber Dom for clueless newbies (and guys masquerading as gals with fake female profiles) who have no intention of ever taking things off line.


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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/17/2016 10:50:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mechski

Your opinion means nothing. As far as I am concerned your behavior more than speaks for itself. I make a thread about being nice, and just like always, A FEW are calling names, trying to conform, and in general just being a jackass.




You're not behaving any better than anyone else on this thread. So, it's a pot/kettle situation.

Truly, if her opinion meant nothing you would ignore and move on.


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RE: Comments from someone new... - 2/17/2016 1:28:50 PM   
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However, the good thing is that his forum posts will be easily viewed by anyone foolish enough to open a conversation with him. And once she reads through them, she'll see the glaring red flags and block him.

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