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RE: can I quit? - 3/7/2016 9:02:29 PM

BlueRoses1111

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ORIGINAL: dreamlady

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire
Your type make up the bulk of these sites, then single men, then women like you, then single women, then couples. Most of us know all this.

No doubt you will approach your “online affairs” as single, or occasionally my wife does not understand me, it’s over but we live together, The hymn sheet, modus operandi, is always the same.

Personally I think you are that sock that goes on and on without purpose save the odd cheap thrill, didn’t one of your clones start that chastity device thread a month or so ago...
So, you are a “normal” site user, and by that I mean >50% of your type inhabit most sites.

You define a relationship/bdsm as solely as having your man parts locked away in iron thorns. Wasn’t that a movie…Manparts Behind the Iron Mask.

To me you are just a bad stereotype and propagating false mythology as fact, and have no concept of what a relationship is. And you’re lucky to have your partner if what you say is true.

. . . Have you tried enticing - bribing her with shoes and a new kitchen?
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ORIGINAL: dreamlady

Btw WickedsDesire, you may be thinking of married vanilla dude into chastity, cuckolding and crossdressing.

On second thought, not a helpful reminder. That would be about a third of the men on this site, half of the newbie male subs, roughly a tenth of the male s-type OPs.*

* Disclaimer: Guestimates POOMA

DreamLady

That's pretty depressing but true.

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RE: can I quit? - 3/8/2016 4:53:33 AM

HisForLife71

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Its a fantasy. We all have them, but we don't all allow them to destroy our relationship or the person we claim to love.
My dom has a fantasy of receiving oral sex while being licked at the same time. But we are monogamous so he will never take it further, and he's absolutely fine with that. I give him more than enough pleasure to make it really not at all important in the slightest, end of story. I used to have a purely sexual fantasy of a gang bang, but would never in a million years ever pursue it. That was just a result of needing to be controlled, but now I have a man that controls me completely. Fantasy gone.....pooof , lol.
Is it worth further damaging your marriage? clearly enough damage has already been done.

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RE: can I quit? - 3/8/2016 10:08:45 AM

theHouseofAvalon

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Can I give this up to save my marriage?

No. But you don't have to because she is married to you also and as already committed life partners you both can work this out given time. Slow down and work this out with her. Start by stopping any of this fantasy until you both work toward a compromise. Start by working her fantasies and then move toward her being the top and over months she will perhaps become more flexible in that area. If not, remember you live for her and she for you.
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