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Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 4:18:12 PM   
Greta75


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In my country, it's unanimous, everybody is pro-abortion, even within the Christians and Muslims. I mean, to be fair, anti-abortion views are religious views, so technically should have no consideration at all in common law. We don't have inner battles about abortion trying to ban it and things like that because it's seen as a religious view, so if Muslims and Christians wanna be anti-abortion, they can just walk the talk themselves within their own community.

I guess because we are a practical nation. Unwanted babies means financial liability to the government to take care of them. And not many people will be interested in adopted kids in our country.

But I saw this in another forum, about what could be a Win-Win Solution for the US where both left and right can have what they want!

I mean, while I am 100% pro-abortion, there will be women who will abuse it as birth control.

So solution is, don't ban abortion, fine abortion. Make it $5000 or something. Tell women, be responsible! Don't get knock up if you do not want to. You are responsible for making sure you don't get pregnant.

Of course in situations of rape, or where the baby life will kill the mom, or if the kid has severe birth defects that will make this kid unable to lead a normal life, all those circumstances should be waived.

This way, abortion is still legal, but it should reduce the rate of irresponsible women using abortion as birth control.

I like this idea for the US.

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 4:24:06 PM   
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Yeah you haven't thought this through.

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 4:30:42 PM   
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Yeah you haven't thought this through.

What is the bad side to this?

Responsible women will never get knock up.

Irresponsible women, will have consequences.

What the consequences are, could be community service instead of a fine too.

It just need a consequence. The fine is just one suggestion.

I tell ya, when there are consequences to abortion, it will significantly reduce. Suddenly, people will become more responsible with sex. And start using protection more!



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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 4:35:12 PM   
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its already the irresponsible women having abortions.

they don't have the money to pay for the abortions, for the most part, so the idea of having a 5000 dollar fine won't work greta.

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 4:38:13 PM   
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its already the irresponsible women having abortions.

they don't have the money to pay for the abortions, for the most part, so the idea of having a 5000 dollar fine won't work greta.

In Singapore, our community service is to go around picking up litter. If they gotta do like, alot of hours of that ha, instead of the fine. Might be a deterrent too. I think in the US, they could go clean up gum on public streets or something.

Just need a consequence that is unpleasant.

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 5:28:08 PM   
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Now we're getting somewhere.



edit: Somewhere doesn't mean end of line. People will do terrible things to themselves to avoid getting a Community service slapped to them.
Women who might not want to talk about a rape or such might feel even more forced to have the Child.

There are many, many problems with punishing women this way.

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 6:22:28 PM   
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OK Greta, I'll play.
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What is the bad side to this?

What about all the girls and boys whose formal sexual education is dictated by a conservative curriculum, so they are taught abstinence only?

Or the ones who are taught only 'natural' methods, due to religious curriculum? What happens when they follow what they were taught to the letter, and still end up pregnant?

Or the ones who can't afford contraception because insurance plans won't cover it?

Or the ones who don't have access to contraception because there are no providers available in their area?

Do you just tell them say 'don't have sex'? Because that has worked so well in the past.

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Responsible women will never get knock up.

See above.

Or...
What about women who swear that they always use protection, but still end up pregnant? Nothing is 100% reliable. Sometimes guys do lie to get sex, ya know, and inexperienced girls wouldn't necessarily be able to tell. They thought they were being responsible, so why should they be punished like those who were blatantly irresponsible? Or do you then make their partner pay the fine? If so, what happens when the male denies everything?

Do you call them a liar who is just trying to get out of paying a fine?

Or tell them 'sorry 'bout your luck, oh by the way it has to be paid by money order, not cash"?

Believe them and grant them an exception? If so, what happens when more and more women say it? Do you just believe them all?

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Irresponsible women, will have consequences.

Why is it just the women should always pay the price? They didn't get pregnant by themselves. Their partner made the same choice they did. Why should the guy always get off ( in more ways than one) and leave the female to deal with all of the consequences?

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Of course in situations of rape,

You do realize that lots of rapes go unreported. For a variety of reasons. What happens when a female finds out she is pregnant, and says she was raped, but she didn't report it? Do you really think that adding the burden of potential consequences would make reporting the crime easier, or is it possible that it could add to the trauma?

Or even better, we have educated adults in this country who are so blinded by religious fervor that they believe a woman can't get pregnant from a rape, that God would not allow it so He designed our bodies to recognize a sexual violation as a physical stressor that is different from other types of sex, and the body automatically prevents pregnancy.

There are doctors who testify to this.

There are men in Congress who have tried to get laws passed based on this 'medical opinion'.

What happens when those people try to get the rape clause revoked?

Because once you have instituted a fine for abortion, then you have legally admitted that the woman is at fault. People will take that farther, and place blame on women for all of these other circumstances, including rape.

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 7:28:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: CodeOfSilence

Yeah you haven't thought this through.

What is the bad side to this?

Responsible women will never get knock up.

Irresponsible women, will have consequences.

What the consequences are, could be community service instead of a fine too.

It just need a consequence. The fine is just one suggestion.

I tell ya, when there are consequences to abortion, it will significantly reduce. Suddenly, people will become more responsible with sex. And start using protection more!



$1,000 for alley way abortions...next, step right up. Drs. prosecuted and even jailed.

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 8:01:18 PM   
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Responsible women will never get knock up.

I beg to differ, no method short of abstinence is 100% effective.

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 8:07:59 PM   
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Responsible women will never get knock up.

I beg to differ, no method short of abstinence is 100% effective.


What about having your uterus removed? I think that would do it.

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 8:28:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CodeOfSilence
Women who might not want to talk about a rape or such might feel even more forced to have the Child.

There are many, many problems with punishing women this way.

Rape won't be a problem since it's exempted.
I think alot of woman will suck it up and do the community service and get the abortion done as well.

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 8:33:38 PM   
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What about having your uterus removed? I think that would do it.

This is true.

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 8:35:07 PM   
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do the community service

So your idea is to further punish them?

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 8:45:47 PM   
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What about all the girls and boys whose formal sexual education is dictated by a conservative curriculum, so they are taught abstinence only?

Oh ya, these are things that I don't think about because what US calls common core is instilled in my country, so every child goes through sex education and birth prevention. I mean, we all go through the same education.

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Or the ones who are taught only 'natural' methods, due to religious curriculum? What happens when they follow what they were taught to the letter, and still end up pregnant?

Those religious folks ain't gonna abort because they are religious and they aren't suppose to abort but keep the child anyway!

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Or the ones who can't afford contraception because insurance plans won't cover it?
One month of contraception cost like $1.50 in my country. I don't know how much it cost in the US. But US do have the most ridiculous priced medicine in the whole world. How much is it in the US?

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Or the ones who don't have access to contraception because there are no providers available in their area?

What??? In a developed country like the US? This is possible? It's impossible in my country! All doctors, government and non-government carry contraceptive pills.


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What about women who swear that they always use protection, but still end up pregnant? Nothing is 100% reliable.

I call bullshit on this. I'm probably one of the most promiscuous woman in this forum. And this was since a teenager. I have practiced very safe sex, because I take responsibility for my health and not getting unwanted babies, and an "accident" is impossible to happen. IF all precautions are taken.
1) Take contraceptive pills
2) Use condoms
3) Take morning after pill IF there is accident, like if condoms broke. There is now double protection! Your contraceptive pills and morning after.

IMPOSSIBLE!

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Sometimes guys do lie to get sex, ya know, and inexperienced girls wouldn't necessarily be able to tell. They thought they were being responsible, so why should they be punished like those who were blatantly irresponsible? Or do you then make their partner pay the fine? If so, what happens when the male denies everything?

It's 101% the woman's responsibility to ensure the male does not fuck her sleeveless. You think majority of men don't try that with me? I always make sure I am the one who puts the condom on personally first, and then I always feel his dick for the condom before inserting it inside of me. Practice responsible sex! Impossible to get pregnant!

Unwanted Pregnancy usually arises out of irresponsible actions in the heat of moments! It's still irresponsible. Like getting drunk and driving and knocking someone down, that's irresponsible.

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Believe them and grant them an exception? If so, what happens when more and more women say it? Do you just believe them all?

I believe there is a 100% method of preventing birth while having sex, so yea, it is a no excuse thing. So that women will take it seriously.

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Why is it just the women should always pay the price? They didn't get pregnant by themselves.

Because you take responsibility for what you allow to happen to your body. Unless the man raped you, then he is responsible and should be punished. If it was consensual, the woman is 100% responsible for what happens to her, because she allowed him to have unsafe sex with her.

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You do realize that lots of rapes go unreported. For a variety of reasons. What happens when a female finds out she is pregnant, and says she was raped, but she didn't report it? Do you really think that adding the burden of potential consequences would make reporting the crime easier, or is it possible that it could add to the trauma?

It would make women who got rape report it to prevent the penalty of getting knocked up with no acceptable reason!

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Or even better, we have educated adults in this country who are so blinded by religious fervor that they believe a woman can't get pregnant from a rape, that God would not allow it so He designed our bodies to recognize a sexual violation as a physical stressor that is different from other types of sex, and the body automatically prevents pregnancy.

When such a law is instilled, there will be more education and awareness about preventing birth. Women who are ignorant will more likely be more interested in really educating themselves about it more thoroughly. I believe it will make more women take safe sex more seriously.

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What happens when those people try to get the rape clause revoked?

The justice system have their own way of determining if there is rape or no rape. It's like death penalty. If the court says, it's rape, it's rape. If they say, it's a false accusation, then, it's not rape. There is no perfect system where 0% will slip through the cracks, but community service can be a positive punishment rather than something really detrimental. Cleaning gum and litter is just one minor suggestion. They could go volunteer and help in many organizations instead.

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Because once you have instituted a fine for abortion, then you have legally admitted that the woman is at fault. People will take that farther, and place blame on women for all of these other circumstances, including rape.

I think this is the most ridiculous point ever. Rape is not consensual sex. It's pretty clear, non-consensual sex is not liable. They can blame women for getting rape, which some still do, but still does not change the fact that it was non-consensual, thus, not valid to have consequences.


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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 8:51:32 PM   
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What about having your uterus removed? I think that would do it.

Nope, because, that is completely unnecessary, in my reply to Wayward, there is a 101% way of not getting pregnant. It's just that, it's very troublesome, unromantic, practical and most women don't want to practice what's responsible and wanna blame it on contraceptive failing which is bullshit! You can have sex! And not get pregnant! It is 101% possible!

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 8:51:42 PM   
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its already the irresponsible women having abortions.
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What?

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 8:53:13 PM   
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there is a 101% way of not getting pregnant

What is this miracle method?

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 8:55:52 PM   
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do the community service

So your idea is to further punish them?

I think that when there is penalty for not practicing responsible sex, unwanted pregnancies will greatly reduced. I think there is alot of needless knock ups that ruin people's lives.
I see this more of something that will improve some things in this world.
Because an irresponsible teenage girl may now, think, yadayadayada, at worst case scenerio, she can just abort. But suddenly, it is law, where you're gonna be forced to do community service if you choose to get pregnant when you don't want to have the child. When this knowledge is widespread. Suddenly, even the ignorant will make efforts to get informed!

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 8:57:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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there is a 101% way of not getting pregnant

What is this miracle method?

As I said, read my reply to wayward. I explain it over there.

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RE: Win-Win to Abortion issue - 2/17/2016 9:09:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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there is a 101% way of not getting pregnant

What is this miracle method?


Anal.

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