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ORIGINAL: KillYourTV
Any and all criticism welcome. I kinda feel weird describing myself as attractive and intelligent. Not so heavy on the self promotion.

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ORIGINAL: KillYourTV

Any and all criticism welcome. I kinda feel weird describing myself as attractive and intelligent. Not so heavy on the self promotion.

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And that's one hell of a record collection!!!! Gawd dammmn! If that's yours, I'm jealous.

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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr
For what it's worth: I was able to get to your profile.

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ORIGINAL: dreamlady

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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr
For what it's worth: I was able to get to your profile.

I was wondering about that, both how you accessed it - you must have used the quick search feature, because that worked for me - and why you had no further comments.

DreamLady

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ORIGINAL: vanillakinkedup
I clicked on your avatar and your profile opened right up.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I'd recommend deleting your first paragraph. It's defensive, and unneeded. Your maturity will be judged by your words and actions, not your protests.

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ORIGINAL: dreamlady

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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr
For what it's worth: I was able to get to your profile.

I was wondering about that, both how you accessed it - you must have used the quick search feature, because that worked for me - and why you had no further comments.
(Btw, trying to pull up the full profile was possible once the quick search by screen name came up.)

OP, I was surprised to see that you are a Dom. I thought it was a submissive female who had posted, going by your main profile pic, which I'll get back to shortly.

Your profile text reads well, and you did a good job with that.
I was logged out when viewing, so I didn't get to see whether you had listed any Interests. If you do/have, just make sure you put down a few vanilla Interests and not just BDSM ones. This not only lends additional insight into your character and gives a basis for better comparison as to compatibility, but it sends the message that your life does not revolve around your kinks and fetishes (and is therefore consistent with what you wrote).

Unfortunately, your main profile pic will attract men to your profile. Think of it as being a symbolic or literal representation of YOU, not of what you are seeking (and that can also turn off potential ladies, if they do not identify with the female photo subject).

You will also find that there are many women who are of the opinion, myself included, that it is in bad taste to upload photos of other women onto your profile, unless
(a) You are not seeking, and the photo is from your personal album;
(b) You also have the permission of the other party to show their picture on this site;
(c) Your photo gallery selection is not in bad taste or potentially offensive to the type of woman you want to attract; and last but not least,
(d) Using pics you found on the Internet is generally frowned upon (as there may be a question of copyright infringement -- you may find yourself locked out of your profile if they get reported by other CS users), with the exception of the avatar gallery which is accessible under "My Profile" on this forum side.

DreamLady

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Next up is the classic writer's standby. Show, don't tell. Ideally using specifics; everybody loves music, but Taylor Swift fans and Bal-Sagoth fans don't necessarily see eye to eye. You can't necessarily show that you're attractive without showing what you look like, but clever writing shows intelligence far better than saying "I promise I'm smart". If you need a little help finding a writing style that suits you better, it might be worth reading some authors you like or listening to music with sharp lyrics to help get you into the right headspace.

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ORIGINAL: Cinnamongirl67

Oh for Gods sake, get some balls.
Get a mind.
I personally don't give a crap if anyone agrees with me.
In the rare occasion it does, I'm happy.

Understand this.... Bye and bye... And goodbye.