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ORIGINAL: MsMajique


Why does a submissive wanna be revert to dominant/negative behavior when writing
when they don't get their way and are unable to direct a conversation 'their way'
as opposed to submitting to the Domina like a good submissive?
(And then they block disabling a response!)

Everybody has their own concept of what a "good" submissive is.

For me, it's not kissing every Dominant's arse he or she encounters, through whatever medium. That isn't a sub you're dealing with, it's a fantasist wanker and/or fetishist who doesn't know the first thing about being loyal and devoted to his Mistress (which you aren't, as DesFIP pointed out in so many words, until you both agree upon entering into a D/s ownership dynamic).

I don't want a sub who will let any Domme pull rank on him. Perhaps to you it doesn't matter whether you get offered submission indiscriminately. It does matter a whole hell of a lot to me; otherwise, that sub's submission means nothing.

Even stray cats are finicky about who they will allow to take ownership of them.