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Married Newbie - 2/26/2016 3:14:38 PM

DaddyLondon1970

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Hi all you lovely fellow kinksters,

Thought I'd just post a message here to say hello. I'm new to the site and was hoping to find like minded people in my situation - in happy but vanilla relationships and looking to talk to kinky people, perhaps maybe more. If anyone would like to chat drop me a line.

Jamie

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RE: Married Newbie - 3/2/2016 11:56:32 PM

dreamlady

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From: Western MD
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to the forum side of the site.

It's good of you to disclose that you have a vanilla wife, but you do not say you are in an open marriage. You do know that consensuality is foundational for both BDSM and D/s, don't you? This means that whatever gets mutually agreed-upon involves the consent of ALL parties concerned, including your wife and any spouse/SO or steady boyfriend your cohort may have.

Without fully informed consent, whatever it is you're doing or contemplate doing extramaritally is not BDSM, nor is it (non-vanilla) D/s, it's not even having a swinger's lifestyle.

You can keep this in mind as a pivotal reference point for anyone new to exploring this lifestyle.

Practice SSC = Safe, Safe, Consensual

DreamLady

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Love is born with the pleasure of looking at each other, it is fed with the necessity of seeing each other, it is concluded with the impossibility of separation. ~José Marti

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