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What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 10:30:50 AM   
MuscleBoundDom


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Status: offline 		I realize that I have narcissistic tendencies. In my relationships I do most of the talking and the conversation is always about me or my interests. We do the things that I want to do. If the conversation veers off me, I quickly bring it back to me.

I don't understand why submissive women complain about this. They want to be in a D/s relationship, where it's all about Him and what He wants. They shouldn't advertise themselves as completely submissive then.



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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 10:33:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

I realize that I have narcissistic tendencies. In my relationships I do most of the talking and the conversation is always about me or my interests. We do the things that I want to do. If the conversation veers off me, I quickly bring it back to me.

I don't understand why submissive women complain about this. They want to be in a D/s relationship, where it's all about Him and what He wants. They shouldn't advertise themselves as completely submissive then.



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I edited this to say that I realize I'm just venting. But other people vent on the forums too.

Because narcissists are spoilt children and children are incapable of handling the responsibility for another person's welfare.


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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 10:36:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

I don't understand why submissive women complain about this. They want to be in a D/s relationship, where it's all about Him and what He wants. They shouldn't advertise themselves as completely submissive then.


Here's a helpful tip: You want a doormat, not a submissive.

You probably also want someone with little to no brainpower- as it takes that type to mindlessly listen to someone drone on about themselves 24/7.

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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 10:40:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

I realize that I have narcissistic tendencies. In my relationships I do most of the talking and the conversation is always about me or my interests. We do the things that I want to do. If the conversation veers off me, I quickly bring it back to me.

I don't understand why submissive women complain about this. They want to be in a D/s relationship, where it's all about Him and what He wants. They shouldn't advertise themselves as completely submissive then.



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I edited this to say that I realize I'm just venting. But other people vent on the forums too.



No, please don't tell me this is another thread complaining about how women don't meet your needs, don't understand you or aren't submissive enough.

Well knock me down with a feather - so it is.



There's a problem here. And it recurs again and again and again.

Let's take a moment.



Is it all the women you come across in the world . . . . .


. . . . or could it just possibly be something to do with you?

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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 10:42:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

I realize that I have narcissistic tendencies. In my relationships I do most of the talking and the conversation is always about me or my interests. We do the things that I want to do. If the conversation veers off me, I quickly bring it back to me.

I don't understand why submissive women complain about this. They want to be in a D/s relationship, where it's all about Him and what He wants. They shouldn't advertise themselves as completely submissive then.



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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 10:44:30 AM   
longwayhome


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Status: offline 		To be fair, you've been very persistent.

And all this in the face of good advice, bad advice, enthusiastic support, resigned indifference, kind words, cruel words and abuse. You've had it all.

I almost wish that someone would just do everything you say in every situation, just to spare CollarSpace from another thread about those inconsiderate bastards who just won't do what they are told.

I wish you all the best.

I really do.

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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 10:46:29 AM   
longwayhome


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Perhaps there's a case study right here.

Jus' saying like.

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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 10:47:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		Many a time the odd mad bint, I mean women, say unto me you are narcissist. But that usually only comes from the ones frothing of the mouth of the: married and seeking attention for their hunger pangs, deranged loons who should be locked up and the key hurled into a volcano so they many never see the light of day again, the mad, damaged, fractured, and so on…it’s there fall back mail when you irk them.

I have seen enough of your writing to believe you are narcissist. Is it an act dunno, don’t care. Will it appeal to some women of course it will

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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 11:00:37 AM   
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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 11:11:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		FR You ask whats wrong with narcissism..
All I have to ask is, hows it working out for YOU? The ony way it works for you is for you to blame everyone else..
you dont need a partner, you have yourself.

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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 11:34:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		"Narcissism" is too benign a word in your case. I'd go with "asshole".

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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 11:37:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: smartsub10

"Narcissism" is too benign a word in your case. I'd go with "asshole".


And the winner of the interweb today is *drum-roll* smartsub10!!!



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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 11:49:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		OP, you kind of remind me of a poster that was nicknamed OSF. For the life of him, no matter how many times he was told that his attitude did not attract women, he just couldn't get it. I knew him elsewhere back around 2006. Probably about twice your age. Could not figure out why not even one person wanted to be involved in his life. Guy could have dipped himself in female repellent in exchange of his attitude and gotten better results.

I'm kind of starting to wonder if you have a humiliation/rejection fetish.


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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 11:50:15 AM   
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What's wrong with narcissism?

Short answer: a lot

To-the-point answer: (see post by Awareness)


Usually, it's only a narcissist that would have difficulty understanding what's so wrong with narcissism.

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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 11:52:28 AM   
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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 12:39:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		Because it makes you incapable of caring for the welfare of the person for whom you're accepting responsibility.

Because D/s is a symbiotic relationship and there's nothing in it for her.

Because you don't respect your partner.

And I think you need to add "misogynistic' to your narcissism.




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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 12:46:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MuscleBoundDom

I realize that I have narcissistic tendencies. In my relationships I do most of the talking and the conversation is always about me or my interests. We do the things that I want to do. If the conversation veers off me, I quickly bring it back to me.

I don't understand why submissive women complain about this. They want to be in a D/s relationship, where it's all about Him and what He wants. They shouldn't advertise themselves as completely submissive then.



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I edited this to say that I realize I'm just venting. But other people vent on the forums too.



The problem is that narcissists, like you, are very boring. Submissive women aren't all seeking boredom.


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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 2:23:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think this is narcissism by dictionary definition...................I think with this OP he is truly in love with himself. He really doesn't need anybody else. All he needs is a tape recorder and a mirror.

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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 2:44:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		What's wrong with Narcissism anyway?

Nothing, as long as you don't make it a habit and become all wrapped up in yourself.

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RE: What's wrong with Narcissism anyway? - 3/2/2016 2:49:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

OP, you kind of remind me of a poster that was nicknamed OSF. For the life of him, no matter how many times he was told that his attitude did not attract women, he just couldn't get it. I knew him elsewhere back around 2006. Probably about twice your age. Could not figure out why not even one person wanted to be involved in his life. Guy could have dipped himself in female repellent in exchange of his attitude and gotten better results.

I'm kind of starting to wonder if you have a humiliation/rejection fetish.


Don't hold back now. Are you saying that this profiler OSF like maybe this OP's author, couldn't get laid in a 2 bit whorehouse...with a pocket full of quarters ?

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