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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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ORIGINAL: AtUrCervix

It's not necessarily (always) what you think.

(Well, maybe for the bulk it is....but not for all sub males).

Some of us are in (sorry for the obvious/parodied/presumed/status quo..."this is the typical sub male" story line) crazy....authoritative positions in life.

Some of us, really....truly....desire someone to help us see things clearly....define things....clarify things....some of us really are in positions of power, some of us really do change the world, daily) and, some of us....even if you tether us....will simply avoid your tether and....in fact....change the world...even if you don't want us to because.....that's what we do....and....some of us you can't tether but, you can offer solace.

Understandably....finding someone who can release those "troubles"....ain't easy, to say the least.

Men are a bit odd.

Not all of us just want to be spanked, forced to sit at your knees....(although every bit of that is fab)...but....

Every bit of it helps (some of) us think....more clearly. Produce more. And yes, some will never share it once they get it....others would rather lay it all at your feet (largely because they....also....uniquely....understand..."they print more of that shit every day so....here's what I did today.....take it....I'll get more tomorrow" (And no....for all you FinDommes....that wasn't your cue....or an invitation).

Tough part (for both sides) is....finding that person.

Yeah...you have tits (and all that other wonderful shit)....which of course, makes us do stooopit shit....like....whatever you say....but....what you may lose in the (clearly inundated) conversation is...

You (can) give us clarity.

No one else can.

Some of us actually need you to be in charge (not want) and....we revel in the opportunity to treat you like angels, gifts from God.....and yet...if we say we're sub males, we're all tossed in to a bucket of...."yeah...you're just one of those".

Some of us are NOT here to use you....but to be controlled, manipulated (lovingly....uniquely) so that....when we go to work, every endorphin has already been released and we can go out, every next day, up, refreshed, and slay dragons (for you), kill beasts twice the size of any house we ever owned or built (for you). By the way....those of us who can slay dragons, don't need to to pay the bills and still have a very nice, financially, satisfying life. We choose to do all the above....to give)

Some of us actually enjoy giving.

It makes US full....complete. Capable.

Not carrying burdens. Which you, uniquely, can eviscerate/obliterate/make entirely disappear.

You might even believe "well...I'm just a purveyor to satisfy HIS kink".

Maybe it's true for most.....it's not necessarily for all.

Probably is true (for most)....most men probably do want you to be nothing more than their kink provider...and then you get nothing back in return.

It's not, however, always true.

Just making sure that some level of truth about male subs is at least available for discussion.

You're (if you truly understand this guy) like racing fuel for a fast car.

Unleaded just ain't enough but....with the right ingredients....your man can win the Daytona 500....without even grabbing the steering wheel because YOU gave him those special skills....YOU were singularly responsible for his win.....solely because you understood his ("unusual") needs....with no prejudice or assumptions and....

THAT guy....with the RIGHT woman.....will lay the world at your feet....and you know what's crazy?

(He wants to).

(Sorry....needed to get that out of my system....I'm good now).

And yet, with the screen name you've chosen for yourself, almost every woman out there will immediately assume that you're not the type of guy you just described.

The first impression you've making is that you're self-centered, only obsessed with you own kink, and see women as nothing more than a fetish delivery devices whose existence should revolve around serving your kinks.

If that's not how you want to come across, I highly recommend you change your name.