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naruto205 -> the findoms? (4/22/2016 10:28:49 PM)
are all of them on here pretty much scammers?

OsideGirl -> RE: the findoms? (4/22/2016 10:31:27 PM)
Yes. Did you really need to have us tell you that?

naruto205 -> RE: the findoms? (4/22/2016 10:35:40 PM)
yes I'm new to BSMD. I could see them just being gold diggers.

DesFIP -> RE: the findoms? (4/23/2016 8:40:53 AM)
Why do you care? If you're not interested in that kind of relationship, then why talk to someone that is? Money is power in real life. I don't think anyone can refute that. So why does it matter to you if someone else wants to give over their power through money?

LilJuly76 -> RE: the findoms? (4/23/2016 9:05:46 AM)
what in the heck is BSMD? OP: if you don't want to pay a Dominatrix then start off slow and maybe you might be able to hook up with a real relationship.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: the findoms? (4/23/2016 9:08:43 AM)
quote: are all of them on here pretty much scammers? Actually no, most of them deliver precisely what they promise, which is nothing.

WickedsDesire -> RE: the findoms? (4/23/2016 11:19:33 AM)
Give me all your money and I will tell you

OsideGirl -> RE: the findoms? (4/23/2016 4:19:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick quote: are all of them on here pretty much scammers? Actually no, most of them deliver precisely what they promise, which is nothing.

MizzSpitfire -> RE: the findoms? (4/23/2016 7:51:31 PM)
Scammers? If you get what you expected to pay for, I don't see that as scamming. Some people would rather skip the time and immense effort it takes to find a lifestyle Dominant and develope a relationship, so paying a pro to give them the sort of scenes they want makes sense. Both parties have their needs met.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: the findoms? (4/24/2016 6:42:54 AM)
There is a huge difference between a pro-domme and a findomme

seekingOwnertoo -> RE: the findoms? (4/24/2016 1:05:34 PM)
LOL Yes, Of Course What man is going to give a girl with stolen pictures money? While I will admit to giving a girl money in my life, it was in a hotel room. And she was hotter than hell ... The first time she wanted to know what we were going to do for three hours ... She never asked that question, again. LOL Would a FINDOM do this? Heck no So right there you know, FinDoms ... COMPLETE SCAM ... Run DON'T WALK There is not a GOOD FinDom in the world ...

matlock222 -> RE: the findoms? (4/25/2016 8:16:39 AM)
I think the whole findom thing is a total joke. I laugh at it. I can't understand why guys even do it. That having been said, if a dude wants it, let him go ahead. A fool and his money are soon parted.

peppermint -> RE: the findoms? (4/25/2016 9:09:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: matlock222 I think the whole findom thing is a total joke. I laugh at it. I can't understand why guys even do it. That having been said, if a dude wants it, let him go ahead. A fool and his money are soon parted. You do not need to understand another's kink. It's THEIR kink and they are not forcing you to be part of it. It's really unkind and really uncalled for to call someone a fool just because you don't understand. Why don't you list your kinks here so I can call YOU a fool for the ones I think are silly.

OsideGirl -> RE: the findoms? (4/25/2016 11:30:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: matlock222 I think the whole findom thing is a total joke. I laugh at it. I can't understand why guys even do it. Which is because you think the scammers on this website represent what the kink really is. Look past the end of your nose and think about the submission in letting someone else control your money.

matlock222 -> RE: the findoms? (4/25/2016 12:19:07 PM)
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I've never known a "findom" relationship in the real world, and I've known people in many different types of relationships, many of them bizarre. Findom seems to be an internet thing. It's not anywhere near the other fetishes. I've also noticed a strong relationship between findom advocates and the females who do it -- and it often sounds like they're trying to justify it to themselves.

OsideGirl -> RE: the findoms? (4/25/2016 12:32:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: matlock222 Findom seems to be an internet thing. It's not anywhere near the other fetishes. Again, you're using this site as your barometer to describe this kink. There are people that engage in Financial Domination out in the real world, but just because you haven't seen it, you think it doesn't exist in that form. In fact, I know several relationship where the male Dominant controls the purse strings. quote: I've also noticed a strong relationship between findom advocates and the females who do it -- and it often sounds like they're trying to justify it to themselves. Well, since I'm a submissive female, that swipe failed.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: the findoms? (4/25/2016 12:36:09 PM)
With regards to findoms, there has to be some guys paying them, if not they wouldn't be so many trying to get in on the action.

DocStrange -> RE: the findoms? (4/25/2016 2:37:06 PM)
I like those Finnish and Swedish Dommes. Those EU Dommes are so sexy :)

princessmika -> RE: the findoms? (4/26/2016 8:42:13 PM)
I myself dabble in financial domination. It is a little mind boggling (it was to me, at first) but it is a real fetish, just like any other. It's absolutely not correct to say that all findoms are scammers. I'm surely not a scammer. It is actually one of the my top 10 requested fetishes by various subs. It's a shame that there is an over saturation of scammers (here and on the internet in general) and other such people that think it's just an easy way to get money. It's surely not. I'm happy to answer any questions you or anyone has about it, to the best of my ability, from my own personal experience. All the best! ^_^

TNDommeK -> RE: the findoms? (4/26/2016 10:51:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo There is not a GOOD FinDom in the world ... Lmao

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