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ClubErotica -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 3:42:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica Well ok then :-) Challenge: To write a short story in which you reveal your deepest fantasy. Then record yourself reading said short story. Conclusion: The recording would be published online along with the written story. The Sissy Challenge: You're given a number of iconic photos of celebrities posing (think, Marilyn Monroe, Miley Cyrus, etc). The sissy has to do their best to mimic the pose. Challenge: To record an erotic answer phone message, and use it for a set period of time (longer the better) Proof: The phone number for verification. Also the recording is published online. There isn't a chance in hell that I'd allow someone online to publish that stuff on the internet. (It's not safe) And I certainly wouldn't make people calling me listen to an erotic voicemail greeting. BDSM is about consent and that message means that you've involved other people in your kink without their consent. One again 'The original question obviously wasn't aimed at you'. There are people who get off on these challenges. No where in those examples (which I made up on the spot as examples only) does is mention doing anything without the persons consent. The participant is giving consent by taking part.

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 3:55:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica Well ok then :-) Challenge: To write a short story in which you reveal your deepest fantasy. Then record yourself reading said short story. Conclusion: The recording would be published online along with the written story. The Sissy Challenge: You're given a number of iconic photos of celebrities posing (think, Marilyn Monroe, Miley Cyrus, etc). The sissy has to do their best to mimic the pose. Challenge: To record an erotic answer phone message, and use it for a set period of time (longer the better) Proof: The phone number for verification. Also the recording is published online. There isn't a chance in hell that I'd allow someone online to publish that stuff on the internet. (It's not safe) And I certainly wouldn't make people calling me listen to an erotic voicemail greeting. BDSM is about consent and that message means that you've involved other people in your kink without their consent. One again 'The original question obviously wasn't aimed at you'. There are people who get off on these challenges. No where in those examples (which I made up on the spot as examples only) does is mention doing anything without the persons consent. The participant is giving consent by taking part. It doesn't matter if it was aimed at me. The forums guidelines allow anyone to post anywhere. Next, the people that call the "submissive" didn't consent to hear the submissive's erotic voicemail greeting. So, yes...it does involve people in your kink without their consent. (I'm sure their mother or employer would just be thrilled to hear it) Next, while there might be people that get off on these challenges....the reality is that anything that gets put on the internet is there forever.....and trusting someone with whom you have an online relationship can be exceedingly detrimental. I won't even get into the concept that a "Master" or "Mistress" is responsible for the well being of their "submissive" and shouldn't cause to their "submissive" harm, because you don't seem to grasp anything involved in a power dynamic.

LilJuly76 -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 3:55:52 PM)
I take it Castlerealm is a fantasy game? Yeah was never into that stuff. Just read his challenge, may I say , I don't know the words to say it's just loco

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 4:01:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LilJuly76 I take it Castlerealm is a fantasy game? Yeah was never into that stuff. Just read his challenge, may I say , I don't know the words to say it's just loco It was a fluffy "lifestyle" site that had all sorts of rules about how to have an M/s relationship.

LilJuly76 -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 4:11:35 PM)
anything involving internet porn? I find that's how these whack jobs come about. Most of them know nothing about D/s or M/s all they want to do and pardon my French is sit on a bad in a erotic pose and say "fuck me master I'll do whatever you want."

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 4:14:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LilJuly76 anything involving internet porn? I find that's how these whack jobs come about. Most of them know nothing about D/s or M/s all they want to do and pardon my French is sit on a bad in a erotic pose and say "fuck me master I'll do whatever you want." Nope, just fluffy stuff like this which originated on that site: Ceremony of the Roses I think there was a point in 1999 where I went to about 20 of these....and three for the same sub being collared to three different Masters in the space of one year.

LilJuly76 -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 4:17:03 PM)
oh good gravy, glad I never knew about that, sounds worse than fifty shades of grey

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 4:43:17 PM)
quote: Ceremony of the Roses Oh my word....[:D][:D][:D][:D]

peppermint -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 8:22:02 PM)
My biggest challenge is keeping sane while he's in the hospital, while the various drugs they put him on are making him think strange thoughts, all the while wondering if this is it and this is his last time in the hospital. I do not need any other challenges. Just taking care of him can be more of a challenge than I want, however, someone has to do it so it's up to me.

peppermint -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 8:35:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LilJuly76 I take it Castlerealm is a fantasy game? Yeah was never into that stuff. Just read his challenge, may I say , I don't know the words to say it's just loco It was a fluffy "lifestyle" site that had all sorts of rules about how to have an M/s relationship. I liked Castlerealm. I still like it and sometimes go back to read the archives. I learned a lot of great information there. The most important was that each relationship was unique and everyone had to figure out what worked for them. I know people who have done the Ceremony of Roses. They wanted to have that special ceremony because it meant something special to them. Never could figure out why so many were so against Castlerealm. I always considered it a great place and used to send newbies there all the time. As with any web site with a particular point of view, it's a place to read someone's ideas and consider if you want to combine those ideas with your own life.

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 9:06:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: peppermint quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LilJuly76 I take it Castlerealm is a fantasy game? Yeah was never into that stuff. Just read his challenge, may I say , I don't know the words to say it's just loco It was a fluffy "lifestyle" site that had all sorts of rules about how to have an M/s relationship. I liked Castlerealm. I still like it and sometimes go back to read the archives. I learned a lot of great information there. The most important was that each relationship was unique and everyone had to figure out what worked for them. I know people who have done the Ceremony of Roses. They wanted to have that special ceremony because it meant something special to them. Never could figure out why so many were so against Castlerealm. I always considered it a great place and used to send newbies there all the time. As with any web site with a particular point of view, it's a place to read someone's ideas and consider if you want to combine those ideas with your own life. For me, it was because people quoted it like it was the Bible. So many people used it to tell others that they were wrong, while at the same time being unable to maintain a relationship that it became a punch line.

peppermint -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/2/2016 9:36:56 PM)
I am forever grateful to my 7th grade history teacher, Mr. Martin Code. He taught me to question everything I read and draw my own conclusions. As to people thinking Castlerealm espoused the "one true way" I'd like to add this quote from the website. "You should ask yourself these questions about any idea or practice you are considering: Will it benefit me, my partner and our relationship? Does it feel "right" to us? Do we want/need this as part of our own traditions and beliefs? Does it make us happy and enrich our lives together as a D/s couple? Does it adhere to the Safe, Sane and Consensual credo? If you can answer yes to those questions, and it harms no one else in doing so, then by all means include it as part of your unique style. You do not need to justify your choices to anyone else nor do you need to prove it is part of some ancient tradition for it to have meaning. Do it because YOU enjoy it. The heck with what anyone else thinks."

thishereboi -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/3/2016 3:36:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica I don't mean any offense, however, #OsideGirl, #DesFIP, #LilJuly76 Why have you all bothered to respond to a question that clearly isn't aimed at you. The question is asked of subs who 'ARE' into receiving challenges. Because you have a fantasy view of D/s and I don't want some newbie seeing your post and thinking that a D/s relationship is about mindless tasks and a Dominant that assumes you're lying about completing a task without proof. "Sex games" are just about sex games, and don't equal submission. hey now, those were not mindless tasks. I put a lot of thought into what i was going to feed her. Oh...now, there's a mental image..... <shudder> I probably don't want to know....[:D] Really, judging from your reaction I have to come to the conclusion that you have never cooked before or planned a meal? Not sure what mental image you can come up with that would make you shudder. It's actually a very vanilla task if you think about it.

thishereboi -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/3/2016 3:47:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica Well ok then :-) Challenge: To write a short story in which you reveal your deepest fantasy. Then record yourself reading said short story. Conclusion: The recording would be published online along with the written story. The Sissy Challenge: You're given a number of iconic photos of celebrities posing (think, Marilyn Monroe, Miley Cyrus, etc). The sissy has to do their best to mimic the pose. Challenge: To record an erotic answer phone message, and use it for a set period of time (longer the better) Proof: The phone number for verification. Also the recording is published online. I suppose having them write a story could be fun although posting it on the internet seems to be a waste unless they are really good at writing. mimic the pose might be turned into a fun party game depending on who you are with. Some people are into those kinds of things. The last one involves random strangers or family who might call and I don't involve others in my kink. The only problem I see with these type of challenges is lack of time. It's hard enough to take care of the house and the mistress and everything else that comes up. Why look for more challenges when life provides plenty.

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/3/2016 9:48:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: peppermint I am forever grateful to my 7th grade history teacher, Mr. Martin Code. He taught me to question everything I read and draw my own conclusions. As to people thinking Castlerealm espoused the "one true way" I'd like to add this quote from the website. In the community, a lot of male Doms used the website like a weapon when it came to approaching female submissives. (Usually while wearing a puffy pirate shirt) They acted like that website was the Bible. There was a group of us that made up a bingo sheet for when male Doms would approach us. Then the rumor came out that Colm and Jade had never met. It kind of took the shine off. Then the rumor came out that there was no Jade - the entire thing had been made up.

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/3/2016 9:50:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica I don't mean any offense, however, #OsideGirl, #DesFIP, #LilJuly76 Why have you all bothered to respond to a question that clearly isn't aimed at you. The question is asked of subs who 'ARE' into receiving challenges. Because you have a fantasy view of D/s and I don't want some newbie seeing your post and thinking that a D/s relationship is about mindless tasks and a Dominant that assumes you're lying about completing a task without proof. "Sex games" are just about sex games, and don't equal submission. hey now, those were not mindless tasks. I put a lot of thought into what i was going to feed her. Oh...now, there's a mental image..... <shudder> I probably don't want to know....[:D] Really, judging from your reaction I have to come to the conclusion that you have never cooked before or planned a meal? Not sure what mental image you can come up with that would make you shudder. It's actually a very vanilla task if you think about it. I was thinking something much more evil.....

thishereboi -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/3/2016 1:53:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica I don't mean any offense, however, #OsideGirl, #DesFIP, #LilJuly76 Why have you all bothered to respond to a question that clearly isn't aimed at you. The question is asked of subs who 'ARE' into receiving challenges. Because you have a fantasy view of D/s and I don't want some newbie seeing your post and thinking that a D/s relationship is about mindless tasks and a Dominant that assumes you're lying about completing a task without proof. "Sex games" are just about sex games, and don't equal submission. hey now, those were not mindless tasks. I put a lot of thought into what i was going to feed her. Oh...now, there's a mental image..... <shudder> I probably don't want to know....[:D] Really, judging from your reaction I have to come to the conclusion that you have never cooked before or planned a meal? Not sure what mental image you can come up with that would make you shudder. It's actually a very vanilla task if you think about it. I was thinking something much more evil..... lol, yea i was thinking more along the lines of meatloaf vs spaghetti and do I still have frozen veggies in the fridge.

LilJuly76 -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/3/2016 2:06:51 PM)
tonight I'm making steak and mushrooms with a tossed lemon salad

OsideGirl -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/3/2016 2:12:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi I still have frozen veggies in the fridge. I have a weird phobia of mixed vegetables....and M loves to torment me with them.

LilJuly76 -> RE: Challenges for Subs/Slaves that you would actually consider doing? (5/3/2016 3:15:46 PM)
now that's sadistic

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