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CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/11/2016 4:07:07 PM   
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According to research, sites like match.com and OKcupid have 96.25% dead profiles. So if you send out 100 emails, it will only reach 3 - 4 subscribed people. Most likely you won't get any responses.

However, on this site, if you write to 10 Pro-Dommes, probably all 10 will respond.

Something to think about...
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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/11/2016 4:10:38 PM   
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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/11/2016 4:11:38 PM   
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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/11/2016 5:04:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

However, on this site, if you write to 10 Pro-Dommes, probably all 10 will respond.

Yes.

However, if you write to dommes who are not money whores, you have a response rate of 0.000000000001%.

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/11/2016 7:54:56 PM   
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So if you send out 100 emails


Why would anyone ever send out 100 mails?
Two or three a month would be tops I should think.

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/11/2016 8:17:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

http://static.izs.me/why-you-should-never-pay-for-online-dating.html

According to research, sites like match.com and OKcupid have 96.25% dead profiles. So if you send out 100 emails, it will only reach 3 - 4 subscribed people. Most likely you won't get any responses.

However, on this site, if you write to 10 Pro-Dommes, probably all 10 will respond.

Something to think about...


You have chosen to compare paid sites with collarspace.

The "dead" profiles are those that exist but are worthless because they are not paid and can do no more than look at pretty pictures.

I have personally found that if I write a message, it will get responded to maybe 20% of the time. Your hypothetical 100% of Pro Dommes responding assumes that someone is writing to pro Dommes in the first place, and also pulls a number out of thin air.

Please note that I will not write if the profile shows no activity in the last four or five months. So I'm screening out another kind of dead profile.

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/11/2016 8:47:45 PM   
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Why would anyone ever send out 100 mails?

Desperation.

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/11/2016 10:27:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks
So if you send out 100 emails


Why would anyone ever send out 100 mails?
Two or three a month would be tops I should think.

I agree 100 emails is excessive and will be cut and paste worthless blather. 3 per month seems way too low for someone who is actually looking for a partner.

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/12/2016 6:21:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Andalusite
I agree 100 emails is excessive and will be cut and paste worthless blather. 3 per month seems way too low for someone who is actually looking for a partner.


Why is one a week too low?

I sent out no mails, and my inbox is full every day.

My profile even says to not contact me.

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/12/2016 6:47:24 AM   
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To be clear the CO of okcupid wrote that article some time ago and deleted it off google etc, when match bought them over. His maths was sound regarding sites like match.com


DarkSteven

Cites 20% - not bad, but not correct - far from it, he just knows better than to mail fakes and dubious profiles.
I always cite 1-3/20 for me and that is down to my looks initially, secondary- profile text perhaps

incidentally if you sent out 100 mails on this site or fetlife only 20% (10-30%) would actually reach genuine women max - and that is before you factor in married and attached attention whores who soul purpose it is to absorb, for parasites feed on that, as it nourishes them. And then you have to break them down into their individual components Top bottom etc looking for, not looking

Have I taught you nothing at all after all this time?


as for you OP why would you email 100% pro dommes. Personally sometimes I do and fakes when I am full of the pixies. The mood takes today after this one i will mail one (they are not all real btw) and enquire do men pay for the monstrosity that is you and should you not be declared a war (lifestyle) crime

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/12/2016 7:50:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Snitch

Why is one a week too low?

Because then, on average, I have to wait one year for an answer.

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I sent out no mails, and my inbox is full every day.

Yes, that's not difficult if one is such a glamourous lady like you. I would already sin for much less than you.

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/12/2016 11:01:15 AM   
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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/12/2016 11:34:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I think if I contacted ten people willing to provide any service in exchange for my money, I'd probably get all ten to respond. That's called good business practice.


It depends on how much money you offer.

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/12/2016 12:59:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

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I think if I contacted ten people willing to provide any service in exchange for my money, I'd probably get all ten to respond. That's called good business practice.


It depends on how much money you offer.



It also depends on the service.

If, for example, you said you'd pay me to (do whatever), if I didn't feel like doing (whatever), no amount of money would sway me.

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/12/2016 1:29:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

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Why is one a week too low?

Because then, on average, I have to wait one year for an answer.

I send about one a week, maybe two.
I can usually say that I get a response within 24 hours or sometimes not at all.
My response rate is certainly higher than 75% on average.

So, as usual QF, full of BS.



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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/12/2016 1:30:09 PM   
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Nobody responded.

Why not?

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/12/2016 2:34:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire
incidentally if you sent out 100 mails on this site or fetlife only 20% (10-30%) would actually reach genuine women max - and that is before you factor in married and attached attention whores who soul purpose it is to absorb, for parasites feed on that, as it nourishes them.


You nailed it, man. Kudoz.

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/12/2016 3:22:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: QualityFirst

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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

However, on this site, if you write to 10 Pro-Dommes, probably all 10 will respond.

Yes.

However, if you write to dommes who are not money whores, you have a response rate of 0.000000000001%.



that has been pretty close to my experience.

the tremendously overwhelmingly majority of my messages either go unopened, deleted unread, or unanswered.

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/12/2016 4:42:02 PM   
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Why the fuck don't you just turn off the computer and go out and meet women in the real world? It has a proven track record, it has worked successfully for thousands of years, in fact it works so damned well that there are now nearly 8 billion people.

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RE: CollarSpace Has Highest Response Compared To Others - 5/12/2016 5:00:31 PM   
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