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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/19/2016 10:52:21 AM   
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dizzy, my message was not for you, but for the moron called...verbatim.xx


I'm being called a moron by an entity that doesn't even exist?

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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/19/2016 10:55:22 AM   
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I would definitely say it's not a fetish. A fetish is anything non vanilla or unusual which causes arousal so no, something that damn near every man wants to do and has a desire to do is something that in my opinion cannot be a fetish.


That must be the answer.

It's too universal a desire is what you are telling us.

So a fetish is something that is not universally desired I guess.

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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/19/2016 12:12:32 PM   
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I consider oral sex and penetrative sex or even finger penetration or dildo penetration, all to be sex.


I think sex only starts when something is being done that can result in that babies can be made.
But I do not think that I have the only definition of sex that is used.

Some people consider sticking an object on any hole sex, but what if I put a knife wound in a person and scrwe 4that?

Is that sex?

(That is a serious question even though it sounds spurious).

If I made a hole in the side of someone and if I screwed that hole, would that be sex?)

Just thinking of HOW to answer that would tell me a lot of what YOU think sex is.


Really? because when my ex was screwing around behind my back I was not going to question when exactly the sex started, and then go 'Oh, you didn't actually stick your cock in her to make a baby. Well now you weren't actually having sex then were you, so I guess that makes it all ok'

If you, or the other person are getting your rocks off in any way then it's sex.

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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/19/2016 3:55:45 PM   
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Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an obsession?


It's a mandate.

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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/20/2016 3:45:05 AM   
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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/20/2016 8:44:16 AM   
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Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an obsession?


Oral sex is alternative to missionary sex whether it's an obsession or not so, no.. it is not vanilla.. it is alternative to vanilla .. but that does not put it into the BDSM or into the fetish category. Even if it's an obsession it's still not a fetish as it does not meet the criteria of 'fetish'.

The answer to both your questions is no.







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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/20/2016 10:26:06 AM   
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Even if it's an obsession it's still not a fetish as it does not meet the criteria of 'fetish'.

How are the criteria for a fetish defined? I'd have thought if a session of the orals are required to get somebody interested, or vastly preferred to any other form of intercourse, then oral sex probably would tick that box.

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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/20/2016 10:58:37 AM   
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Even if it's an obsession it's still not a fetish as it does not meet the criteria of 'fetish'.

How are the criteria for a fetish defined? I'd have thought if a session of the orals are required to get somebody interested, or vastly preferred to any other form of intercourse, then oral sex probably would tick that box.


Fetish Definition:
an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression

Fetish History:
When fetish first appeared in English in the early 17th century, it referred to objects (often amulets) believed by certain West Africans to have supernatural powers. During the 19th century, the word took on a broader meaning: "an object of irrational devotion or reverence." The object need not be physical: a person may have a fetish for an idea, such as an unwarranted belief that a particular economic system will solve society’s ills. By the early 20th century, fetish took on yet another meaning quite distinct from its antecedents: a sexualized desire for an object (such as a shoe) or for a body part that is not directly related to the reproductive act (such as an earlobe).

Oral Sex does not qualify as a fetish as oral sex has to do with sexual body parts. Only non-sexual body parts qualify as a fetish

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fetish


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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/20/2016 11:08:21 AM   
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As women, we


You do not speak for me, Aakasha. "As women".. please, just stop with that nonsense. There is not a 'we' here. I have my own answers to give and when you put on the 'we' robe, effectively putting 'me' into that category then what I say loses value because you have now associated 'me' with 'you' and that is not an association to which I have consented.

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Blah, blah, blah gender.. blah, blah, blah.. gender



You don't need to be told that women like to eat pussy, too, Akasha but you seem to need some reminding. There are even some dominant men who enjoy or are obsessed with eating pussy. Shocking!

This isn't 'ask a mistress'.. it's general BDSM discussion and for your information, there are lots of women who enjoy objection in General Discussion perhaps more so than in Ask a Mistress discussions. Be aware of where you are posting, the audience to whom you are posting and the actual question which was not gender or orientation specific. It might make your remarks a little more pertinent to the forum upon which you post them or at least not shut out so many of the people who actually post to or read the forums.

You are acting like getting your twat eaten is a result of your dominance or that female dominance is the end all be all of twat eating.

It's not.

You are also leaving out an entire area of activity that includes forced oral which can be used as a downright punishment sans any sexual pleasure at all. Please, woman, get it together. There are other-life formulas outside the box you live in and, again, please feel free to speak on behalf of you and yours but I am more than capable of giving responses for myself should I choose to do so.



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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/20/2016 11:11:44 AM   
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Even if it's an obsession it's still not a fetish as it does not meet the criteria of 'fetish'.

How are the criteria for a fetish defined? I'd have thought if a session of the orals are required to get somebody interested, or vastly preferred to any other form of intercourse, then oral sex probably would tick that box.


Fetish Definition:
an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression

Fetish History:
When fetish first appeared in English in the early 17th century, it referred to objects (often amulets) believed by certain West Africans to have supernatural powers. During the 19th century, the word took on a broader meaning: "an object of irrational devotion or reverence." The object need not be physical: a person may have a fetish for an idea, such as an unwarranted belief that a particular economic system will solve society’s ills. By the early 20th century, fetish took on yet another meaning quite distinct from its antecedents: a sexualized desire for an object (such as a shoe) or for a body part that is not directly related to the reproductive act (such as an earlobe).

Oral Sex does not qualify as a fetish as oral sex has to do with sexual body parts. Only non-sexual body parts qualify as a fetish

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fetish


And the tongue and the bits it's applied to during the orals are definitely sexual body parts, gotcha.

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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/20/2016 11:24:02 AM   
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my pussy licks me all the time .[image][/image]

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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/20/2016 11:28:19 AM   
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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 5/20/2016 1:03:02 PM   
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Even if it's an obsession it's still not a fetish as it does not meet the criteria of 'fetish'.

How are the criteria for a fetish defined? I'd have thought if a session of the orals are required to get somebody interested, or vastly preferred to any other form of intercourse, then oral sex probably would tick that box.


Fetish Definition:
an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression

Fetish History:
When fetish first appeared in English in the early 17th century, it referred to objects (often amulets) believed by certain West Africans to have supernatural powers. During the 19th century, the word took on a broader meaning: "an object of irrational devotion or reverence." The object need not be physical: a person may have a fetish for an idea, such as an unwarranted belief that a particular economic system will solve society’s ills. By the early 20th century, fetish took on yet another meaning quite distinct from its antecedents: a sexualized desire for an object (such as a shoe) or for a body part that is not directly related to the reproductive act (such as an earlobe).

Oral Sex does not qualify as a fetish as oral sex has to do with sexual body parts. Only non-sexual body parts qualify as a fetish

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fetish



Under that "only non sexial body parts qualify as a fetish objects" ruling, then oral sex can not be a fetish.

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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 6/12/2016 5:28:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		In a vanilla context I don't find pussy licking very exciting. In a Domination scene, however, I love it. My ideal Domme is one who insists that I worship her pussy, not for my pleasure but for hers and to show that I am there to be used. She does not "allow" pussy worship - she demands it.
In such a scenario I think it is the feeling of being dominated and used that is my fetish rather the actual pussy licking.

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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 6/13/2016 9:14:00 PM   
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Really? because when my ex was screwing around behind my back I was not going to question when exactly the sex started, and then go 'Oh, you didn't actually stick your cock in her to make a baby. Well now you weren't actually having sex then were you, so I guess that makes it all ok'

If you, or the other person are getting your rocks off in any way then it's sex.

needles


Yup, that's exactly what I recently told my best sex. If he even got naked with another woman, even IF he never touched her or even just kissed her. He had sex in my eyes! Hell if he kissed her, he had sex in my eyes too! He better tell me about it! I promised him no consequences though, his allowed to play with other women. I just like transparency when it's going on. As I am not exclusive to him too. And I am transparent about it, I just ask for the same level of honesty between us.

Even if it's sexting or video sex or whatever, it's having sex! Although I know for sure my best sex ain't into that. He likes physical contact as much as I do.




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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 6/25/2016 11:38:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Greta75

I consider oral sex and penetrative sex or even finger penetration or dildo penetration, all to be sex.


I think sex only starts when something is being done that can result in that babies can be made.
But I do not think that I have the only definition of sex that is used.

Some people consider sticking an object on any hole sex, but what if I put a knife wound in a person and scrwe 4that?

Is that sex?

(That is a serious question even though it sounds spurious).

If I made a hole in the side of someone and if I screwed that hole, would that be sex?)

Just thinking of HOW to answer that would tell me a lot of what YOU think sex is.


Really? because when my ex was screwing around behind my back I was not going to question when exactly the sex started, and then go 'Oh, you didn't actually stick your cock in her to make a baby. Well now you weren't actually having sex then were you, so I guess that makes it all ok'

If you, or the other person are getting your rocks off in any way then it's sex.

needles



Absolutely.

Anything you do with another person with the intention of sexual arousal is sex.

When people mess around with that definition it is usually because they want to make some activity that is short of actual penetration allowable in some context or other. If someone has a relationship where both are allowed to mess around with other people but not engage in penetration then that is great for them and I respect that. It's still sex though if someone is intentionally turned on.

For me BDSM usually leads to arousal so it is definitely sexual. Allowing your partner to scratch their BDSM itch with someone else is therefore usually still sexual even if there is no penetration.

Whether different forms of sex mean infidelity in a relationship is down to what partners agree. You may enjoy cuckolding or allow corporal punishment or you may agree to no sexual contact at all outside the relationship.

That's all good and well but if someone gets turned on and one (or. both) of you meant for that to happen it's still sex.

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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 6/29/2016 10:11:09 AM   
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RE: Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an o... - 6/29/2016 6:57:19 PM   
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Is pussy licking a fetish or vanilla when it's an obsession?


It's a mandate (and it's a wunnahful thang).

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