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respectmen -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/18/2016 3:25:56 AM)

The clown I see here is a male feminist. A silly little man that defends a movement that incites hate against his gender.

Male feminists must be into self flaggelation. I can imagine you whipping your self in front of feminists while saying "sorry to be a male"

It's interesting to see how a male can be so stupid to support such a movement.




PeonForHer -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/18/2016 3:56:59 AM)

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ORIGINAL: crazyml
Gosh. Who made the claim that one in five women on college campuses is raped?


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Every feminist here. Over and over and over again.

Cites?




crazyml -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/18/2016 4:05:02 AM)

You can imagine all you like. I don't care.

I absolutely stand by my belief that it is only pathetic weaklings that have anything to fear from feminism.




blnymph -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 2:29:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: respectmen

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It's interesting to see how a male can be so stupid to support such a movement.


If you think it would be the only way to show male stupidity you are most definitely wrong.

ATM you are giving some really good examples.




Staleek -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 6:03:07 AM)


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ORIGINAL: respectmen

It's interesting to see how a male can be so stupid to support such a movement.


I pointed out the way feminism benefits males in this thread...

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4915943/tm.htm

Removing gender stereotypes would benefit men in all kinds of ways, from making it more acceptable for men to seek help for emotional and mental problems (reducing the epidemic levels of suicide in young males), to making it less acceptable for males to take risks (men are far more likely to die in RTAs or fights with other men).

Other benefits would include some of the things where men DO have a legitimate beef with the system. For example the assumption, after a messy divorce, that the children "belong" with the mother. That's actually the old patriarchal concept that the womans place is in the home coming back to haunt us. Under true equality judges would be more likely to weigh things up properly. And if a woman was out-earning the man she'd have to shell out child support, which is virtually unheard of at the moment.

But guess what - the judges awarding kids to the mother and automatically assuming the male must pay child support are more often than not men themselves.

I don't think you know what feminism actually is judging from your posts. Feminism is not about female empowerment, but about civil rights for women. They aren't asking for more power than men, but to be considered equally. If you can't see circumstances were that can help men as well as women well I can only conclude you've not had much experience in life.




WhoreMods -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 6:07:31 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Staleek
I pointed out the way feminism benefits males in this thread...

It might even get some guys laid, which I suspect could be another element in Rodney's beef with feminism:
"Why are these wussy girlymen getting getting all the pussy? Why don't they want unreconstructed manly loving? Fucking bitches..."




Staleek -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 6:21:54 AM)


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ORIGINAL: WhoreMods


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ORIGINAL: Staleek
I pointed out the way feminism benefits males in this thread...

It might even get some guys laid, which I suspect could be another element in Rodney's beef with feminism:
"Why are these wussy girlymen getting getting all the pussy? Why don't they want unreconstructed manly loving? Fucking bitches..."


That's true, that.

Gone are the days when women were just expected to pair up with a guy and be grateful. And gone are the days when a woman took pride in the whiteness of her curtains and the cleanliness of her children. Women, if they haven't dominated the workplace, have at least conquered and thrived in it, particularly in certain professions (medicine, law, and teaching). There are even women who are senior engineers and scientists now. Feminism is a large part of why that has been allowed to happen.

A successful and ambitious (dare I say classy) woman must be quite a challenge for males who still have something of a 'primal' mentality. And losing mating rights is one thing that would provoke a lot of rage in such an emotionally primitive individual.




samboct -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 9:17:36 AM)

To Lucy

My condolences. I feel a bit of a clod- having known that you would take my comments so personally, I should never have responded. I'm sorry if I caused you any additional pain.

To Lady P

I'd like to respond to your points...

First of all, I'd like to distinguish between the law and what is moral or correct. I think the law in this case is clear- that if you're found attempting to have sex with an unconscious individual, that's considered attempted rape. I think the trial did establish those facts, i.e Brock Turner was trying to have sex with an unconscious woman when he was found. Under the law- that makes him guilty of rape or attempted rape- I'm not drawing much of a distinction between rape and attempted rape because it's not relevant.

About the hypothetical selfie: My comment is that if Turner had taken a selfie at 12:30 (the cyclists came upon them at around 1 AM), it would not have mattered- there is sufficient evidence for rape under the law. The woman in question was indeed extremely intoxicated at that point- she made a phone call to her boyfriend which was unintelligible.

To me, the question at this point is-does the law work? While it would be nice if the legal system made continual forward progress- cases like Citizen's United show that courts can take a wrong turn- as I think they have with this law. My understanding of this case is that the accuser clearly met the requirement that she was too intoxicated to give consent. However, there's a second requirement- that the attacker knows that the intended victim is too intoxicated to give consent. I don't see how that was met here since Brock Turner was also quite intoxicated. It is reasonable to assume that even in his intoxicated state he was aware that the person he was with was too drunk to give consent? This might be a tough call if you're sober- and he clearly wasn't. I'd also say that it requires a lot of judgement on the part of an 18 y.o. who's looking for sex. (And thank you for cutting me the slack that yes, when I was 18 and even to this day- I'm only interested in consensual sex- but I tend to think this is the norm : ) .)

I think the jury bought the argument based on the testimony of the two cyclists that when he was caught, Brock Turner attempted to flee- thus confirming his guilt. Well, most people if they're caught in public having sex feel some element of embarrassment-flight doesn't seem all that unreasonable to me. It's an admission of having sex as well as attempted rape- how can you tell which is which?

So two possibilities here: either the law is flawed- which I think it is, or the findings of the jury didn't follow the law, i.e. they concluded that Brock Turner knowingly took advantage of his accuser, something which I find illogical given his intoxication. Please note, I really don't like the notion that intoxication can be used as a defense for a violent crime. i don't buy it in cases of murder whether gun or vehicle- so I'm uncomfortable using it here. It's one of the reasons I think this is a bad law.

In terms of the state being able to prosecute a rape case without the victim being willing to come forward.... I found a 1999 law article that shows that in practice- well not really. See here: http://chicagounbound.uchicago.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=5730&context=journal_articles Not being very knowledgeable in this area, I don't know if recent legislation has changed this perception. but the article's conclusions were clear- while the state may be able to prosecute a robbery or similar crimes on the basis of witnesses rather than the testimony of the victim, for rape cases this is practically impossible.

About the cougar comment....OK- mea culpa- not a cougar by common usage. But when I was in college, I always thought that senior guys attempting to date freshmen women were not playing quite cricket- there's a big maturity gap. It's one of the things that's bothered me about this case as I've noted before. It's also one of the reasons I don't have much sympathy for the accuser- along with her friend, Michele Dauber, trying to get Turner the max sentence- and Michele Dauber is one of the people that's called for the judge's resignation.

I'm going to throw out a hypothetical- but one I think can't be easily dismissed. The accuser probably had an issue with her boyfriend who's a graduate student in Pennsylvania. Note that in the police report, she said that she's been faithful to him. But if things are going peachy- why is she getting falling down drunk, going to a frat party dressed for sex, and calling the boyfriend while so drunk- and then agreeing to have sex with a stranger minutes later? There were witnesses that corroborated this- sort of- drunk and therefore not reliable. OK, so the next thing she knows she wakes up in the hospital and they ask her if she'd been raped? If she's got a case of the guilts about ditching her long distance boyfriend for a quick roll in the hay with Turner- then she says "yes". Coupled with her law school professor friend who's got her tongue hanging for a case like this and you have a way to rescue the relationship with the boyfriend- at Turner's expense. Do I know it happened like this? No, but it's altogether too plausible and is based on what I was able to glean from the police report. I just don't think she's as lily white as she paints herself.

When I first read Turner's dad's comments that his son's life was thrown away for "20 minutes of action"- I thought, what an oaf! But the more I read about this case, the more his comments make sense.

Obviously I have a deep abhorrence of Catherine MacKinnon. Is misandrist a word? I know that hating men is termed misandry. This case shows that her thinking has had an effect on jurisprudence, and I think this is a terrible direction to go. I suspect we can both agree that violence to force another to our do our sexual bidding is wrong and is too common in our society today. (Not BDSM play between two or more consenting adults!) I just don't think we've gone the right way in solving the problem.


Sam








crazyml -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 9:39:27 AM)

Is the crux of your argument that he was too drunk to tell that she could not consent?




WhoreMods -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 9:53:46 AM)


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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Is the crux of your argument that he was too drunk to tell that she could not consent?

Looks like it, which is a nice demonstration of the double standard at work here, isn't it?




blnymph -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 1:21:28 PM)


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ORIGINAL: samboct
... why is she getting falling down drunk, going to a frat party dressed for sex,
...


I cut it down to a single but essential line

There is NO way a woman "dresses for sex."

NEVER

"Dressing for sex" happens only in male wet dreams, and low quality porn.

Even the idea of discussing a thing like that in a courtroom is disgusting.

[sarcasm]
Women undress for sex. If they don't because they can't - for whatever reason - it is an unmistakeable sign of no consent.
[un-sarcasm]




LadyPact -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 1:34:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: samboct
To Lady P

I'd like to respond to your points...

First of all, I'd like to distinguish between the law and what is moral or correct. I think the law in this case is clear- that if you're found attempting to have sex with an unconscious individual, that's considered attempted rape. I think the trial did establish those facts, i.e Brock Turner was trying to have sex with an unconscious woman when he was found. Under the law- that makes him guilty of rape or attempted rape- I'm not drawing much of a distinction between rape and attempted rape because it's not relevant.

OK, we seem to be seeing eye to eye on this part, at least to some degree.

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About the hypothetical selfie: My comment is that if Turner had taken a selfie at 12:30 (the cyclists came upon them at around 1 AM), it would not have mattered- there is sufficient evidence for rape under the law. The woman in question was indeed extremely intoxicated at that point- she made a phone call to her boyfriend which was unintelligible.

It isn't *just* that, though. The part you are forgetting is that, by the time the two were found, the woman was unconscious, which is the other part of the law. There is no more affirmative consent if the person is no longer responsive. How drunk would a person have to be not to realize that the person they were having sexual contact with was passed out?

On her intoxication level, it was 0.24. Even when you're drunk, that's kind of hard to miss. You're also skipping that they were both at the same party drinking, so Turner had every reason to know she was intoxicated.

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To me, the question at this point is-does the law work? While it would be nice if the legal system made continual forward progress- cases like Citizen's United show that courts can take a wrong turn- as I think they have with this law. My understanding of this case is that the accuser clearly met the requirement that she was too intoxicated to give consent. However, there's a second requirement- that the attacker knows that the intended victim is too intoxicated to give consent. I don't see how that was met here since Brock Turner was also quite intoxicated. It is reasonable to assume that even in his intoxicated state he was aware that the person he was with was too drunk to give consent? This might be a tough call if you're sober- and he clearly wasn't. I'd also say that it requires a lot of judgement on the part of an 18 y.o. who's looking for sex. (And thank you for cutting me the slack that yes, when I was 18 and even to this day- I'm only interested in consensual sex- but I tend to think this is the norm : ) .)

The very reason CA has moved forward with "yes means yes" is to get the law to work. If we do have a problem with people being sexually assaulted past certain levels of intoxication or when no longer conscious, the law is supposed to be how we address that. Situations like this aren't "new". In my opinion, we've obviously had cases on campuses all across the country where passed out/incoherent people are being assaulted once passed a certain intoxication level or when they've been intentionally drugged. We definitely had a problem with campuses not handling sexual assaults properly, sweeping them under the rug, etc. We have to use law to address that because we weren't exactly doing a great job otherwise.

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I think the jury bought the argument based on the testimony of the two cyclists that when he was caught, Brock Turner attempted to flee- thus confirming his guilt. Well, most people if they're caught in public having sex feel some element of embarrassment-flight doesn't seem all that unreasonable to me. It's an admission of having sex as well as attempted rape- how can you tell which is which?

Sam, I'm not trying to be rude. How familiar are you, really, with this case?

The reason I'm asking is because there are certain points in this post, as well as the prior one that make me wonder if you're aware of certain facts that have presented that weren't disputed.

How does flight seem to you, when the words that came from one of the cyclists upon discovery were, "What the f^ck are you doing? She's unconscious."

But, let's try it your way. Let's suppose you are 18 and you're having consensual sexual contact with some gal behind a dumpster. Two men discover you, which you say makes you embarrassed, so that you flee to avoid being seen having sex in public. What kind of man leaves the woman he was being with, naked and exposed for other men to find, while he runs and saves his own skin?

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So two possibilities here: either the law is flawed- which I think it is, or the findings of the jury didn't follow the law, i.e. they concluded that Brock Turner knowingly took advantage of his accuser, something which I find illogical given his intoxication. Please note, I really don't like the notion that intoxication can be used as a defense for a violent crime. i don't buy it in cases of murder whether gun or vehicle- so I'm uncomfortable using it here. It's one of the reasons I think this is a bad law.

I have to tell ya. I've had my share of sex while ripped. I'll even admit to having sex while I was ripped at 18. Now, either somebody's been having some really lousy consensual sex or no matter how drunk you are, you should be able to realize the other person isn't responding. No movement, no speech, nada. And if you are so drunk yourself that you can't figure it out, maybe YOU are too drunk to be doing whatever it is that you're doing.

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In terms of the state being able to prosecute a rape case without the victim being willing to come forward.... I found a 1999 law article that shows that in practice- well not really. See here: http://chicagounbound.uchicago.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=5730&context=journal_articles Not being very knowledgeable in this area, I don't know if recent legislation has changed this perception. but the article's conclusions were clear- while the state may be able to prosecute a robbery or similar crimes on the basis of witnesses rather than the testimony of the victim, for rape cases this is practically impossible.

You lost me on this link for two reasons. One being it's from 1999. The other being it's an article that starts crossing criminal law with civil law, where the injured party has to be involved in the case.

Here's something closer to what you might be trying to get at. About a month ago, I was on another thread elsewhere about a completely different case. (I'm sorry. In this instance, I won't link it.) The guy who had started it was squawking about why at least half of the women who report sexual assault were lying. According to the FBI, 6% of complaints are determined as false reports. Then, there's 44% that won't go to trial for a combination of, or singular of the following factors: Lack of physical evidence, inability to substantiate (non-victim) witness testimony, cessation of victim cooperation, etc.

The one you want to look at is when cases are dropped because the victim no longer wants to cooperate. They do this for a number of reasons that have nothing to do with something didn't happen. They want to move on. They are aware how difficult trial will be. They want to save their family the anguish. A hundred different reasons.

Some prosecutors will respect those reasons and not want to go forward. Some just look at the decrease in odds of convictions if you have no victim or a hostile witness. On top of how hard it is to prove a case, you don't want it blown.

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About the cougar comment....OK- mea culpa- not a cougar by common usage. But when I was in college, I always thought that senior guys attempting to date freshmen women were not playing quite cricket- there's a big maturity gap. It's one of the things that's bothered me about this case as I've noted before. It's also one of the reasons I don't have much sympathy for the accuser- along with her friend, Michele Dauber, trying to get Turner the max sentence- and Michele Dauber is one of the people that's called for the judge's resignation.

It's kinda rough that you say you don't have sympathy for someone who is a victim of a sexual assault. Are you aware that a part of the victim's statement was that she didn't want Turner "to rot"?

This was a bad ruling on sentencing, in my opinion. We are teaching people, once again, we will slap a defendant on the wrist, with a "don't do it again" philosophy. In doing so, we teach people this is not a serious crime. I could do three months in county standing on my head.

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I'm going to throw out a hypothetical- but one I think can't be easily dismissed. The accuser probably had an issue with her boyfriend who's a graduate student in Pennsylvania. Note that in the police report, she said that she's been faithful to him. But if things are going peachy- why is she getting falling down drunk, going to a frat party dressed for sex, and calling the boyfriend while so drunk- and then agreeing to have sex with a stranger minutes later? There were witnesses that corroborated this- sort of- drunk and therefore not reliable. OK, so the next thing she knows she wakes up in the hospital and they ask her if she'd been raped? If she's got a case of the guilts about ditching her long distance boyfriend for a quick roll in the hay with Turner- then she says "yes". Coupled with her law school professor friend who's got her tongue hanging for a case like this and you have a way to rescue the relationship with the boyfriend- at Turner's expense. Do I know it happened like this? No, but it's altogether too plausible and is based on what I was able to glean from the police report. I just don't think she's as lily white as she paints herself.

I won't dismiss it. I'll debate it.

The woman's relationship with her boyfriend is inconsequential. Even if she had consented before she passed out, that consent is void once she did. That's what the law says.

I'm going to tell you now, as a poly person who is married to someone who has been out of the country during his career, I didn't sit my tail at home for a year at a time, just because he couldn't go places with me. This was a party the victim went to with her sister. I can promise you that I tossed back a few when MP was gone. It never meant that was an open invitation to violation.

She didn't go to a party "dressed for sex". Court documents show that even her sister was kidding her on the way that she was "dressed like a librarian". One of her items of clothing was a beige cardigan.

You are also incorrect about her waking up in the ER and being asked if she was sexually assaulted. She wasn't asked. She was told. Her own statement says that she believed the hospital personnel had the wrong person when nurses told her why she was in the ER.

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When I first read Turner's dad's comments that his son's life was thrown away for "20 minutes of action"- I thought, what an oaf! But the more I read about this case, the more his comments make sense.

Do you know what I thought? I thought of just how much I could do in certain scenarios with twenty minutes. I consider myself, at least, a semi-decent person. Should I pay for what I could potentially do in that twenty minutes? You bet.

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Obviously I have a deep abhorrence of Catherine MacKinnon. Is misandrist a word? I know that hating men is termed misandry. This case shows that her thinking has had an effect on jurisprudence, and I think this is a terrible direction to go. I suspect we can both agree that violence to force another to our do our sexual bidding is wrong and is too common in our society today. (Not BDSM play between two or more consenting adults!) I just don't think we've gone the right way in solving the problem.

Yes, misandrist is a word, and no, I couldn't care less about Catherine McKinnon.

When you talk about facts of a case, it's not supposed to be about how many others have also been victims, which crimes are "worse", or how the victim is the person we seem to put on trial. If you showed me the money in your wallet, would you say you deserved it if I robbed you? If I think you have a nice car, does me wanting that car mean I can take it? Please tell me what you think I'm entitled to do to you while you are passed out.














PeonForHer -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 1:50:07 PM)

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Removing gender stereotypes would benefit men in all kinds of ways, from making it more acceptable for men to seek help for emotional and mental problems (reducing the epidemic levels of suicide in young males), to making it less acceptable for males to take risks (men are far more likely to die in RTAs or fights with other men).


Those sorts of things - plus many, many others - *could* have become central to the MRA movement. The days when that might have happened seem long gone now, though; that movement became overwhelmingly associated with the reactive anti-feminist sort some time ago. Hey well.




samboct -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 2:42:17 PM)

To Binymph

I went on a first date with a woman half a dozen years ago- we met on this site actually. I asked her where she wanted to go after we'd had dinner and we're out driving and her response was that she flipped up her skirt and showed me that she had a shaved pussy. Not a porno movie- real life. I call that dressed for sex. You can call it what you will.


To Lady P

We have some factual discrepancies which may help explain our differing viewpoints;

The police report I read indicated that the accuser had left the building to go relieve herself near a stream and she met Brock Turner outside. There is no credible evidence that I saw that they had met inside while she was drinking. (and again, I'll point out that evidence in this case sets my teeth on edge being based on people who were drinking.) Thus, my understanding of the facts is also that she found an unopened bottle of vodka in someone's room and took several drinks from the bottle- there was some question about whether what she had been drinking could have had other compounds in it.

In answer to your question about what kind of a man leaves a woman behind when they're found having sex? Answer, a drunk, stupid kid with no sense of chivalry. Doesn't make him a rapist. Does make him a jerk at a minimum. Also- the police report I read did not mention the cyclist's statement.

In terms of how drunk would he have to be to not realize that his companion had passed out? It's been my experience that people who are drunk are rarely very perceptive- you can be really angry with them and they don't get it. ( As a personal note- I don't have sex when drunk- I don't get drunk often and if I'm drunk, I'm not very functional.) Also- alcohol effects people in different ways since it works on so many pathways in the brain. It's really not predictable- you can't extrapolate how one person reacts to another. The bigger point is the problem with the law. I think using the term "knowingly" may work if the person is sober- but if drinking- it should get thrown out the window. To me there's reasonable doubt here the size of a dump truck.

Please note that I have dismissed anything that the accuser wrote in her statement to the court. There are several reasons-
First and foremost- I don't trust the veracity of people who are habitual heavy drinkers. My personal experience with these people shows that they will create fantasies that make themselves out to the be heroes/victims at others expense. This woman has effectively drunk enough to be alcohol poisoned- and her response is that she "lost her tolerance" from college- where she graduated six months prior? My read- this woman has a drinking problem. That her mom took her to the party after she was already drunk- suggests that it's familial.

In terms of "beige cardigan"- well, the police report said skintight black dress, boots, polka dot panties, gray sweatshirt. (Noted in a previous post.) Dressed like a librarian?

Given the differences between her statement to the court and the police report-coupled with her blood alcohol level and some nonsense about not knowing her own tolerances-

My strong supposition based on available evidence is that she is a drunk- making up a story. Agreed that I'm being rough on someone if they're not a drunkard- agree that following through on rape prosecution is daunting. Don't have a good solution.

I agree with your assessment that the law says that relationship with the boyfriend is irrelevant, since the law has discarded prior consent as being important. It's one of the reasons I don't like the law- but I agree with your interpretation. Here's the problem....

In the ER- she had to give consent for the rape kit- from the police report. I've forgotten the acronym for the rape team- SART? Don't think they could have tested her without her consent. At this point, if she agrees to the prosecution, her "indiscretion" at the party is mooted with the boyfriend. She's got a reason to lie.

Some broader issues:

Rapists are often referred to as predators. Well, in this case, was Brock Turner's predatory plan that he was going to lure someone to a frat party on his home turf? If the genders had been reversed- there would have been automatic suspicion- i.e. a college graduate man shows up at a sorority party and tries to have sex with an 18 y.o? Immediate assumption of predator. But in this case...no. So only men can be predators?

What's bothering me is that there seems to be a veiled sentiment amongst mostly women that at long last, a rich, snooty privileged kid from Stanford got what he deserves- a conviction for rape because these guys all think that they can have sex with whoever they want. But this isn't justice- this is vengeance- and Brock Turner is a scapegoat for all the other men who got away with it. From my perspective though, the problem is that the punishment doesn't fit the crime- he may not be a predator, he may just be a kid with lousy manners and no sense of chivalry. However, our justice system is supposed to be based on the idea that we don't put people in jail because it's a lesson for others, we put them in jail as a punishment for a crime that we're certain took place. Well, yes, according to the law, there was a crime. The person he was having sex with passed out and he didn't notice it. Why this "crime" should be equated to someone who deliberately drugs women in order to have sex with them is beyond me or really is a predator- it just doesn't seem right.

You asked about the moral issues about what's right if someone is passed out. Let me try a different analogy. Let's say I leave my car in the driveway with the keys in it. A kid jumps in and goes for a joy ride. Do I think he should be prosecuted for grand theft auto? Or do I grudgingly admit that if I hadn't done something stupid and taken my keys, my car would still be in my driveway. From my perspective, when my actions as a "victim" induce the crime- well, then a lot of the culpability belongs to me. Isn't it up to me to have the fortitude to admit my own error here? Are there some people who would say that the kid stole the car- it didn't belong to him, and therefore lock him up? I think so. I don't think the law deals with this issue well.


Sam





WhoreMods -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 3:00:57 PM)

So it's unreasonable for some bunch of man-hating cunts to think that maybe some rapist deserves to be sent down for rape, but you have no problem with the parallel notion that some cunt in a tight dress and high heels was begging to be molested, then?




PeonForHer -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 3:07:45 PM)

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The person he was having sex with passed out and he didn't notice it.


God, Sam, how could he not have noticed it? Even if I've been drunk as a lord I've noticed if someone I'm with is conscious or not - and that's just when having a conversation with that person, much less having sex with her.

What on earth sort of attitude to sex with a woman would it take for a man not to have noticed that the woman in question had passed out? I can't think of anything I'd instinctively *less* want to say in my defence against a rape allegation. If he said that anywhere, any time .... that was a howler to beat all howlers.




samboct -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/19/2016 4:02:22 PM)

Hi Peon

Let's say that he's got his head down near her vagina when he's fingering her. Let's also assume that he's a virgin- or close to it. How the hell does he know how women respond during sex? And from my personal perspective- some women are not necessarily all that responsive- plus he's drunk. So if he's got his face down around her groin or maybe her hip- she was found in a fetal position- how exactly is he supposed to notice that she's passed out- she might not have been doing very much to begin with since she was so drunk.

Please note- I'm not saying it definitely happened like this-I'm really just looking for reasonable doubt. Plus you know how much variation there is in people's response to alcohol, I'm saying this kid may not have been able to tell the difference between someone extremely drunk and passed out. You and I- sure- but we're not kids. But there are a lot of kids who don't have sex for some years in college.

Sam

PS- Lady P- my source for the police report stuff is here: http://documents.latimes.com/people-v-brock-allen-turner-29/




WhoreMods -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/20/2016 12:31:29 AM)


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ORIGINAL: samboctt
How the hell does he know how women respond during sex?

At his age, probably mainly from watching pr0n, and a woman who's passed out won't make anything like that much noise, will she?




Staleek -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/20/2016 2:09:07 AM)


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ORIGINAL: samboct
Note that in the police report, she said that she's been faithful to him. But if things are going peachy- why is she getting falling down drunk, going to a frat party dressed for sex, and calling the boyfriend while so drunk- and then agreeing to have sex with a stranger minutes later?



Firstly, a jury found she did not agree to have sex with him, he ran away when caught, and he took her out of sight where he could molest her.

Secondly, this implies that you feel attached women should not be "allowed" to dress up in something sexy, go out, and enjoy themselves by going a bit over the top with booze and partying. That tells me an awful lot about your real objection to this prosecution.

Thirdly, the inverterate rapist got himself six fucking months in prison. He'll probably serve 13 weeks. This thread could potentially last longer than that. I don't see why he needs any sympathy.




WhoreMods -> RE: Victim Statement from Stanford Rape Victim (6/20/2016 6:22:51 AM)

He deserves sympathy because he's a white guy with his whole life ahead of him, who's been fucked over by some lying bitch who was obviously out looking for cock.
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