LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: Termyn8or You don't have to give me any warnings around here. And I am not a gun so I don't really have a trigger. No offense, but I didn't do it for you. I happen to think there are people on these forums that certain threads aren't good for them. I wouldn't walk into a VA hospital while lighting up a pocket full of firecrackers, either. quote:
Not knowing you personally that is hard to fathom. But I supposed possible. It's hard to imagine for most people who know me personally, too. I probably look like most people's grandmothers. I really don't look like much of a physical threat. quote:
I was talking forcible rape so therefore you must mean trickery, martial arts or date rape drugs. I believe I have expressed my views on statutory rape, if the victim is not prepubescent it is not much of a crime. I will grant that people should wait but some simply don't want to and will find anything out there. There is such a thing as too young of course, but guys are in jail for having sex with girls who were considered marrying aged a while back. I can't discuss UM's on this thread. It's bad territory. Considering ADULTS, I consider rape to be all forms of rape. I don't really care how a person has managed it. In my personal opinion, we should also consider those incidents of sexual assault that fall into the 'date rape' or known person category. That illusion of trust can be great leverage. quote:
Fair enough. I remember a soap opera where a rape victim fell in love with her rapist. I wonder what kind of mesage they were trying to send there, because TV is a message. Do not forget it. Everything you see in the media is produced by people who want to surreptitiously influence society for their own benefit, or that of their friends. This is not tinfoil hat shit, nor is it even secret, it is just not blasted out of speakers on the streetcorners. That includes the people who decide what you hear on the radio. We'll have to come to a meeting of the minds on this. First, too many people get their concept of the law from TV. A lot of people watch programs like SVU or tune into Court TV and think that's how law works. It's not. I'm with you that the media exploits certain cases for their own advantage. This includes entertainment programs AND the damn (so-called) news. <Insert eye roll here.> quote:
I am not down for sex with anyone anymore. I don't really even want to talk to anyone. And actually I can only get it it up under certain conditions. I had it sucked on for a half an hour and nothing happened, because I was not turned on. But you find some 20 year old kid, I think you or anyone is going to have a hard time holding him down. Try it. Depends on the 20 year old. I'm pretty serious these days about enthusiastic consent. As kink practitioners, we have to start looking at this. Consent is the only thing that separates us. quote:
Probably right. And if she is not repulsive then he can go bragging how much she wanted him. The whole mindset is different and part of it is based on anatomy. But even with the underreporting, it is way easier for males to rape females. I can overpower you, rip off your clothes and be ready in a second. I can enter you against your will right away. Now try that on me. You have to get me hard, and for me at least that takes kink. Seriously, regular porn is shit to me. (I want disabled porn, I am sick fuck lol) In physical strength, I would tend to agree. However, physical strength is not the only attribute. However, this was not a case of physical strength. This was, very specifically, a case of "too drunk to stand up". How hard is it, really, to assault someone who is drunk and/or unconscious? quote:
But now, what if you held a gun to my head and told me to lick your clams ? OK, we're back to leverage. Criminal law actually addresses the subjects of leverage. A weapon? You bet. Levels of intoxication? Yes. One that kinky people aren't often willing to approach: Positions of (implied) power. Teachers, ministers, politicians, doctors, etc. quote:
This is one fucked up subject and the people who bring these things up serve a purpose. Let's get it all out in the open. I want rapists executed, and I suspect they are not because enough of the politicians in this country have raped someone along the years. And then we have the Catholics, who are very well connected. Why does the term "log cabin republicans" keep going in my head? quote:
I AM alright, the world is all wrong. That's a whole other discussion. quote:
We have alot more to get past than this issue. The human race is devolving. Rapists are a symptom of a disease, not the root cause. Crime is the symptom of a disease. Drug/alcohol abuse is a symptom of a disease. School shootings are a symptom of a disease. Well, we as a society have a lot of issues. The only way to do it is one matter at a time. quote:
We need to get past the symptoms and actually diagnose the disease. Talking about this specific case, one of the mitigating factors here does happen to be collegiate athlete privilege. We have created this culture that, if someone excels at a sport, we'll look the other way or sweep the stuff they do under the rug. Gets worse when they become professional athletes. Here's something really dumb. I don't even know why it stuck with me. I was driving into work at O Dark Thirty, and I had the Lex and Terry in the morning show on the radio. If I recall correctly, it was about Michael Vick... "You are one of the fortunate few who is living the dream of playing professional football. Getting paid a lot of money to play a game. How many kids out there want to grow up and be YOU? Yet, you CHOSE to throw all of that away to be a thug. You are not a hero. You are a criminal." And, he was right. quote:
But nobody will like the results. People are the disease. The only chance is to take all babies away from their Parents and raise them until about age 15 or so. No religion allowed, no politics, just logic, and of course the reading and writing and rithmatic. No arts, all information. Put these kids on top of the world with a good head start, and later they can study the arts and all that. Sound like Hitler or some shit ? Well look at what Hitler accomplished. Germany is still enjoying the benefits of his actions. Some think people should need a license to have kids. China just outlaws it. And Muslims ? Tell you what, take only Muslim Women. I they turn out to be suicide bombers well they only do it once, and they don't get the 72 virgins. I'll make them some pork chops. I mean really tender. T^T Ya know, I laughed at Nick recently because he called me a leftist. I was both amused and confused. I have a much stricter view on crime and punishment more often than not. The numbers are so low for those who have committed multiple sexual assaults regarding rehabilitation that I generally can't be bothered. Rob someone of their personhood? I think you should pay the price. A six month sentence? I could have gotten busted for shoplifting and done the same amount of time.
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