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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/22/2016 1:47:13 PM   
LilJuly76


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Status: offline 		exactly OsideGirl and they also get a bad rap within the local community.

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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/22/2016 3:35:13 PM   
WickedsDesire


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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/23/2016 5:35:52 PM   
kiwisub22


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I find loads of women of all ages who are willing to play with an older man nonsexually (spanking and bondage). I make sure they know that sex will not be involved, and that my sub is aware of what I do.

Part of it is that I'm somewhat active in the community.


Agreed! My sweetie, on his profile on fetlife, clearly states he is in a relationship, and will play nonsexually with others. For the most part, i'm in the building if not the room. If the OP put on his profile that he was open to nonsexual play, with a view to a longer term relationship he might have more luck. Women wouldn't feel pressured into a sexual relationship and you get part of what you want, with a possibility of getting more.
Added - most of the women my sweetie play with are people we meet at play parties locally. It helps to get out there and meet people.

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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/24/2016 5:46:36 PM   
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The local community is a reflection of the larger community that was not my doing

Dude, you wouldn't know what the local community was if it bit you in the ass.



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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/26/2016 1:06:07 PM   
kinkydegal


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Status: offline 		I'm a mature submissive lady who is seeking. Yes I am married. Yes my husband knows when I have a play date. Since my husband knows and is supportive of my extra-marital play, I don't consider it cheating. Most men on CollarSpace either tell me I'm a cheating whore, or tell me how unreasonable I am to refuse to play with someone who is married and hiding their kink activities.

I'm picky. If you can't be honest with the woman you pledged to spend your life with; how on earth am I to consider you trustworthy enough to play with?

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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/27/2016 7:45:54 AM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		LadyPact I gave you one last warning didn't I, last night you errant piece, of dangerous sophistry. I will put you on muffin bay for what - I am undecided. I told you not to put lies into my mouth. is this correct or not you have done so on how many occasions now?

The Scottish scene knows fine well who I am and why I stopped going - because of people like you, those who viewed it is medium for cheating, desiring cash, and deranged stereotypes....and the fact the clubs venues were closed as fast as they could open and the fact we had one a week for population of 5 million people and 7 -30 went. My favourite, a converted church almost peeked at a million. The last I went too was in perth called pider something 28 people after a 70 hour week so a couple I knew could go from dundee blah blah nice couple

Clubs as I said a reflection of all sites demographics

MY opinions are my opinions and I have said this often if you are:
single
couple
scallwag
swinger
simply mail the club and events organisers - and they will make you feel most welcome - same for munches - and they will sit you with a nice group of souls...do they still have dungeon masters - currently I have no plans to ever go back for reasons I am long, long on the record with

Unlike thee I do not put words into other people mouths ladypact - and it would be so easy for someone like me, but there are depraved levels I will not stoop too - your words do speak volumes just for no-one remotely like me....and my numbers are few and yours numbers so vast


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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/27/2016 10:08:32 AM   
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LadyPact I gave you one last warning didn't I



Or you'll what? Type it again?


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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/27/2016 10:42:14 AM   
LilJuly76


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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/27/2016 10:42:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

LadyPact I gave you one last warning didn't I



Or you'll what? Type it again?


That's what I was thinking!

Anyhoo, who is he to issue warnings to other members. Huh??


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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/27/2016 11:24:42 AM   
WickedsDesire


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freedomdwarf1 I did actually ask for server,,,that really fuked me off


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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/27/2016 11:31:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

LadyPact I gave you one last warning didn't I



Or you'll what? Type it again?



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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/27/2016 11:36:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

LadyPact I gave you one last warning didn't I



Or you'll what? Type it again?


That's what I was thinking!

Anyhoo, who is he to issue warnings to other members. Huh??


I'm still trying to find some kind of inspiration to give a sh^t about this. Maybe if I eat some beans along with the so-called "warning," I might at least be willing to manage a fart.



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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/27/2016 12:59:56 PM   
LilJuly76


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Status: offline 		gotta love online warnings they go along well with the saying I so hate "wait for it"

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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/29/2016 11:43:35 PM   
BrownEyedGirl45


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Status: offline 		I'm 45 years old, high sex drive, naturally submissive, but my god, if any guy mentioned that pile of shite book, THAT is what would have me backing away in laughter and disgust. Jesus. Seriously.

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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/30/2016 4:47:46 PM   
Bhruic


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Status: offline 		Others have already sort of said this, but... I suspect that mature kinky women, especially ones who are out and confident about their kinkiness, are far more likely to be in relationships already, than are their much much more numerous male counterparts.

And I am sure that there are many many kinky mature women that are not so out and confident, and them you will have to woo in a vanilla fashion first on a vanilla site... there being many many licks before you get to the tootsie roll centre of the tootsie pop.

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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/30/2016 10:26:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sometimes I almost wish I hadn't blocked WickedsDesire so I knew what you guys were talking about when you reply to him.


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RE: Mature Submissive Ladies - 7/31/2016 5:36:36 AM   
LilJuly76


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