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Lucylastic -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 7:04:08 AM)


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If your inner circle, your world, agrees with your ways, then why ya bitchin?


Quoting this for truth. *smiles*


I agree: all it's really all about is finding the right inner circle to penetrate. [:)]

[:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D]




WhoreMods -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 7:08:20 AM)

You think that getting his inner circle penetrated the wrong way is why rm is all butthurt, then?
"Fucking feminists and their evil pegging! Robert Bly would have used more lube than that, and his dick is way smaller than that strap on was..."




Lucylastic -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 7:10:16 AM)

Theres a reason I like the idea of using sand in the lube




LadyPact -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 7:26:51 AM)

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LadyPact

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Don't want to pay for the date don't *invite* the other person to join you.


Don't many to most women wait for the guy to make that move? So women who go by that rule (who invites pays) while not being willing to do the asking out, that is out right scamming! It's pretty much trying to trick the man into paying. Women who have this mentally should never be taken seriously when they complain about an inequality where women are on the receiving end of.

I think you'd probably have to understand my own personal guidelines about dating for me to respond properly.

As you should be aware by now, I happen to be poly. While that is becoming more accepted in the kink world, I still stick with the mindset that the majority of people (at least those close enough to actually date me) are monogamous minded. That means I consider myself to be out of the dating pool for a good number of people and have no intention of propositioning people who haven't come to their own decisions about whether or not they are willing to date someone who is in a primary relationship. When the other person asks me out, I know they've already made themselves aware that I am poly and if that's acceptable to them. I have a real 'thing' about not being the stereotypical pushy poly person trying to convert people to the idea of polyamorous relationships, so I find it works better for me as a guideline.

Even before I was poly, I did the same thing with other circumstances. Divorced, mother of two springs to mind. Something that a person should look at and decide if they can accept it or not prior to anything that I would term "dating". Even when I started dating MP over fifteen years ago, he had to understand and accept that I was a package deal.

My being female actually comes in very low on my criteria of 'who asks who' first in the whole dating thing.

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That said, why should the person who is DOING THE WORK get penalised for it? The one who is being asked out isn't doing any work. Shouldn't the person who is doing the work get rewarded instead of penalised?

Aside from the fact that you and I seem to have different definitions of the word "work" as it applies to this subject...

(Seriously, if you are looking at dating as a work to benefit ratio, what you spend in relation to the lack of reward for having the pleasure of the person's company, it's something you should consider further in your way of doing things. Honestly, I know what it's like to be keeping the scorecard and I get that it's lousy.)

Being as that we have done this thread before, I'm going to reiterate what I have told you in the past. When it comes to dating, I'm actually a fan of the 'group' date, first. That can be anything. A munch, kink event, concert, or any kind of *thing* where the number of folks get together and hang out during coffee, food, or whatever. Any kind of scenario where everybody is paying their own ticket. No entanglements, obligations, or specific romantic interests from anyone. I'll even take stuff like, "hey, I noticed you were going to <group thing X>, I'd like a chance to talk to you while we're there" type of thing.

Some of this thread, (for you) seems to hinge on the first date. Even if you were inviting a guest to dinner at your house, unless it's a pot luck, you wouldn't be asking the person to bring their own food. It shouldn't be that big of a deal.

If you want things to be (financially) equal, say so up front. That way, the other person knows what they are getting into. That seems fair to everyone.











Awareness -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 9:16:56 AM)


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No. They do not. Feminism is an ideology founded upon a set of beliefs including - but not limited to - patriarchy theory. A feminist who doesn't subscribe to patriarchy theory isn't a feminist because without it, there is no underlying justification for the demonisation of men.


Look, I'm sorry - but that really is balls, Awareness.
No Peon, it's not. Feminist dogma has a number of underlying themes. If you actually understood anything about the history of feminism, you'd understand the impact of those themes upon the social and legislative activism of feminist advocates today. Unfortunately, your knowledge of feminism is idiotic dogma inculcated into you by the same kind of woeful "gender studies" course which sees new feminists mocked for their naivete. It's very clear to me that you have not progressed beyond this point and understand little of what you're spouting.


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It's *always* been easy enough for you just to google this stuff, but you've absolutely refused, ever, to do it. The result is that your idea of what feminism is, is a half-baked, crazed mixture of RM's type of foaming propaganda and your own prejudices. For a start, feminism isn't even the hierarchical entity that you appear to imagine it to be. There isn't an intelligentsia at the top that rules what all feminists think. Jesus, A. You talk about it like feminists are the Khmer Rouge in bras ruled by some Pol Pot in a wig and make up. It's nutty.
Codswallop. You have no idea what the fuck you're talking about. You just like to pretend you do. It's pathetic.

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Right, this is now using up the last of my patience with you. I've met some of the most influential brains in the world. Internationally-known professors, of all sorts of subjects. They've have every possible reason to feel superior to the people they're talking to (myself very much included) but none of them has ever, to anybody I've seen, felt the need to belittle him or her.
Appeal to authority. Another logical fallacy you've attempted to use - in your laughable attempts at debate - time and time again. The problem here Peon is that your entire modus operandi is to claim authority and then attempt to belittle people who disagree. Unfortunately, you cannot argue for shit and so your usual tactic of arrogance and condescension simply doesn't work when confronted by someone who can actually argue.

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You, on the other hand, do it like it's a deep-rooted compulsion. And I'm beginning to suspect why: it's necessary for the notions of masculinity, dominance, hierarchy and much else that you've cobbled together over the years. There's the Alpha at the top - yourself, natch - the lesser dom males who go around being all sensitive and stuff, then there are the females who can *never* be dominant, the sub females who know their place if they're 'truly feminine' .... And then there are the sub males - who are just deranged.
Peon, your attempts at pop-psychology, like your attempts at argument, are the demented ravings of an adolescent entering puberty who's suddenly angry with the world. Don't worry lad, it'll all make sense when you grow up.

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Awareness. Please try to get this: You're not going to be able to dominate anyone other than your partner, and even then only so long as she likes it.
Awwww, Peon. Dominant men really do make you feel inferior. Christ lad, you reek of it.

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Strewth. If one straw man doesn't work, throw a bigger straw man after it, eh? A feminist can decide that she wants to go to the gym in order to get fit and muscular (nope, of course I didn't say 'thin', as you imply). Or she can learn to love her body as it is. Those are just two of the multiplicity of ideas that she can choose to follow. Just the same as men, who can choose any one of the notions that are available to *them* - which, of course, can be pretty much the same, anyway, because feminists can also be male.
Don't try and back out now Peon. You clearly said that feminists go to the gym because only by doing so can they gain the attractive partners they deserve. You filthy patriarchal oppressor.

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That is what gender equality implies, A. That is why gender equality is so central to feminism. If you don't get this, you'll only ever be talking at best about the periphery of it rather than core of it.
No. It doesn't. Christ, you're thick as pig shit.

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OK, my most profound apologies, then. Feminists are full of hatred for men and they're all losers, but they don't actually want to take anything that 'properly belongs to men'. A subtle difference, but I see now that it's an important one to you.
Still incorrect. Feminism is an ideology for losers and a large proportion of feminists have a chip on their shoulder when it comes to men. Keep it up, you'll get it eventually.

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Drivel. And again, in straw man territory. Feminists believe in equality and freedom.
For fuck's sake you mental midget, FREEDOM is not unique to feminism and has absolutely nothing to do with their ideology. In fact, feminists demonstrably DO NOT believe in freedom since they character assassinate women who don't believe as they do by claiming they suffer from "internalised misogyny". Not only is freedom not a core plank in feminist theory, but feminists damn well do not believe in women's freedom to NOT be a feminist.

Honestly, you spout utter bullshit and have no answer when it's held up to your face and the absolutely falsehood of your claims is pointed out to you.

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No, it's just something for which you don't have an answer. Because you're not very good at the arguing thing. And I think you'll find most people believe in freedom. That has nothing to do with feminism, although it's curious you're now trying to claim feminism is somehow responsible for democracy.


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Yep ... right. Step-back time.

Obviously, I've never claimed that feminism is somehow responsible for democracy - I think you just picked that out of your hat. And yes, correct, most people believe in freedom. Feminists did not invent the notion of freedom, nor that of equality. What they did was *apply* those two notions to an an area of social life that had been neglected. There's pure theory, and there's applied theory. Like pure maths or applied maths. In the same way the Chartist movement in the UK struggled for votes for all men, no doubt inspired by the French Revolution's call for 'liberty, equality and fraternity'. But it hadn't occurred to them to call for votes for all *people*. You see? Theory of equality, theory of freedom - application of theory.
Of course they didn't, because the right to vote was partially granted due to the past and future sacrifices of men in war. A burden which women did not carry. Which is why an female anti-suffragette movement existed out of fear that women would have to pay the same price for their vote which men did.

Of course, they didn't. They just got it for nothing. And feminism has continued to advocate for free stuff ever since.

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A feminist is someone who believes in equality of the genders, A, as I'm afraid you're simply having to get used to me reminding you. This 'conspiracy' stuff is a straw man.
Peon, a little bit of predicate logic would disabuse you of this notion - if you had the wit to comprehend it.


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'If you had the wit to comprehend it'. Priceless! : ) This, from the man who cannot work out how to google the simplest outline of what feminism is, then read it and absorb it!
Googling? But Peon, you claimed feminism was a dictionary definition. Why would anyone need to Google it? Are you changing your claim? Has the impossibility of finding a single individual or organisation which meets your dictionary definition finally impinged upon what can only laughingly be called "the reasoning facilities of your brain"?

I also note you completely avoided the logic part because it shreds your contention completely. And replaced it - not with argument - but with ad hominem. More evidence of your incompetence.

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... And when the belittling tactic is running thin, you inject some 'fuckings' in order to hint at how angry you are at having to explain such simple things to such inferior brains. Superb!
Just your inferior brain Peon. Just yours. As I've said before, dealing with your dishonesty and inability to reason is tedious.

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If sex were just 'fucking biological', then Freud's whole enterprise would have been founded on sod all.
Oh dear. You do realise Freud is widely regarded to have been wrong about almost everything, right?

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Ideas - the way people think - get in the way of what's 'fucking biological' (FB, for short, henceforth.) Thinking fucks up what's meant to be just FB. You know this yourself - that feminist thinking screws up sex. Assuming that's true - do you imagine that feminist thinking is the *only* thinking that screws up sex?
I didn't say that. However your contention that the default state for a woman in a prosperous western society is to be unable to enjoy sex without the 'liberation' you claim feminism brings is ludicrous on the face of it and suffers from a dearth of evidence to confirm it. You're engaging in utterly idiotic speculation based upon your religious belief in feminism.

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People have to fight fire with fire. One of the things that feminism discovered was that there was a really powerful force that stops women enjoying sex because 'enjoying sex' is, somehow, something that they never even expected to enjoy. Enjoyment of sex was somehow 'not on offer' to them. To put it another way: they'd submitted *so much* that that submitted to not enjoying sex.
Oh really? Feminism 'discovered' this? Citations please. And if you include Dworkin or Mckinnon I will fucking laugh at you.

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Unless a woman can grab just enough sense of her freedom (or has it to start with), and her equal right to enjoy sex - in other words, some minimal dose of feminism - then, yes, she can't be a willing sexual submissive. That's paradoxical, sure ... but it's essential to what we all do here nonetheless, isn't it? To be a willing sexual submissive, you need a good, strong sense of that 'willing' bit, don't you?
Utter bilge. You have no evidence to support this, this is just a fairy tale of yours to prop up your religious belief in feminism. Good grief.

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Yes, a straw man. Again, they can choose to masturbate, they can choose to find a man, or another woman. They can do any of those things, as can men, equally. They have a choice, equal to that of men, to go for whatever works for them. They can take this outlook, or that outlook. Come on A, stop being obtuse and pulling my plonker. You must have known that this was the point I was making.
You were contending that feminism frees women to go to the gym so they can be attractive to men. It boggles the mind that you thought this contention was anything other than an own goal on your part.

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A feminist is somebody who believes in equality of the genders, A. Remember my saying that, at all, in the past?
I remember you saying that, but unfortunately for you, I've already exposed your logic deficiencies. Feminists believe in equality of the sexes. It does not therefore follow that anybody who believes in equality of the sexes is a feminist. That's an elementary logic error Peon and if you actually taught Political Science you would know that.


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Nnnyessss ... Where did you look up your little bit about logic, A? Did you look at the Wiki piece but - baffled - when on to something else? You need to go back to it. I mean, hell, can't you read your own stuff back and not see that it's senseless?
Oh Peon. If you actually had any justification for that statement you would demonstrate where my logic was faulty. You poor boy.

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Look, A ... I know plenty of self-taught people - and they've been brilliant. However, the best of them never forgets the old line, 'the self-taught man was taught by an idiot'.
The old line? Where does this "old line" come from, beyond the desperation of your own mind? The line you MIGHT be misquoting is: "A physician who treats himself has a fool for a patient" or perhaps "He that is taught only by himself has a fool for a master." - a quote from noted drug addict and alcoholic Hunter S. Thompson.

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You don't know what it is that you don't know. That's why people need someone other than themselves to teach them at times. Not me, though - I mean, let's face it, it's not as if you're paying me, is it?
Why would an autodidact care about your inferior ability to learn Peon? Honestly, it's times like this that I despair at the paucity of your reasoning facilities and the utter tedium of correcting the misapprehensions caused by your exceptionally narrow view of the world.

We swim amongst a sea of information greater than any in recorded human history. The teachings of philosophers, mathematicians, artists, political figures and scientists are readily available to anyone within reach of a library, a computer or a cell phone. The University model is being revolutionised by distance learning and en-masse many-to-one lecture models of Kahn academy, Academic Earth and Coursera. The ability for everyone to educate themselves has never been greater and you - with your retreat into the safety of British academia - run around disparaging self-learning?

You. Are. Pathetic.

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I'll leave this here, because it's so supremely relevant:
Ye Gods, you can't even construct your own insults. You really are someone limited to regurgitating the efforts of others, aren't you. No wonder you're jealous of people who can actually learn.

Once again, I'll leave this here, because it's so supremely relevant.
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Honestly Peon, every time you trot out one of these dogmatic little exercises in delusion, you really do more to demonstrate your own lack of capability than I ever could by debating you. You seriously do suffer from Trump levels of self-delusion.




Awareness -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 9:18:10 AM)


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Theres a reason I like the idea of using sand in the lube
It matches the sand in your vagina?




Lucylastic -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 9:57:07 AM)


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Theres a reason I like the idea of using sand in the lube
It matches the sand in your vagina?



Why are you thinking about my vaj?
does not compute




thishereboi -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 10:25:48 AM)


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Hey, feel free to believe what you want. No skin off of my arse! I'm sitting back laughing while I have 3 fuck buddies at my finger tips who I can meet up nearly any day of the week.


If that's true and they were worth fucking, you would be doing that instead of spending hours on here pissing and moaning about women. And that's assuming you are not lying out your ass. Big assumption there.




NookieNotes -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 10:37:58 AM)

Google 'define feminism':

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the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men.


Also links include Urban Dictionary:

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The belief that women are and should be treated as potential intellectual equals and social equals to men. These people can be either male or female human beings, although the ideology is commonly (and perhaps falsely) associated mainly with women.

The basic idea of Feminism revolves around the principle that just because human bodies are designed to perform certain procreative functions, biological elements need not dictate intellectual and social functions, capabilities, and rights.

Feminism also, by its nature, embraces the belief that all people are entitled to freedom and liberty within reason--including equal civil rights--and that discrimination should not be made based on gender, sexual orientation, skin color, ethnicity, religion, culture, or lifestyle.

Feminists--and all persons interested in civil equality and intellectuality--are dedicated to fighting the ignorance that says people are controlled by and limited to their biology.


Oxford English Dictionary:

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The advocacy of women’s rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men.


Feminist.com:

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In the most basic sense, feminism is exactly what the dictionary says it is: the movement for social, political, and economic equality of men and women. Public opinion polls confirm that when people are given this definition, 67 percent say they agree with feminism. We prefer to add to that seemingly uncontroversial statement the following: feminism means that women have the right to enough information to make informed choices about their lives. And because "women" is an all encompassing term that includes middle-class white women, rich black lesbians, and working-class straight Asian women, an organic intertwining with movements for racial and economic equality, as well as gay rights, is inherent to the feminist mandate. Some sort of allegiance between women and men is also an important component of equality. After all, equality is a balance between the male and female with the intention of liberating the individual.


Wikipedia:

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Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social rights for women that are equal to those of men.[1][2] This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment. Feminists typically advocate or support the rights and equality of women.


Seems simple enough.

So, it seems to me that anyone suggesting that "all feminists" have any one or even multiple attributes in common is casting a much wider net to support their own agendas.

Seems like assuming that feminism is the cause of male bashing (or ugliness or sand in the pussy), or the reverse of male bashing (or ugliness or sand in the pussy) is the root of feminism, is a fallacy of false cause.

They may, sometimes be connected, but are not always, nor necessarily.

Suggesting that "every feminist I know (both A and Peon are guilty of this) is anecdotal, and also not a logical argument.

I'm sure there are more. Those are what stood out to me right this moment.

Just saying. *smiles*




stef -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 11:09:35 AM)


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I agree: all it's really all about is finding the right inner circle to penetrate. [:)]

The only inner circle our resident whiny babyman will ever penetrate is the one made by his thumb and index finger.




masmiss -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 11:42:52 AM)


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I never understood why do men who prefers to go dutch bother dating women who believes in traditional dating where men pays.
Actually, most feminist would insist on paying their share.
And if they really like you, they would even foot the whole bill.
Ahem. No, Greta.

One of the things you'll learn about feminists is that they despise tradition, except where those traditions work to their advantage. Consequently feminists come up with a whole raft of excuses for why men should pay including rambling on about the mythical gender wage gap. Basically, to be a feminist is to be a whining, squalling child who thinks the whole world owes her a living.



You're a bit out of touch with reality my friend. I am well-educated and earn an excellent salary. As a dominant I pay for everything. Dinners, travel, entertainment, clothing and haircuts I like to see on my sub.

Oh yeah. I'm a feminist.




Awareness -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 2:37:37 PM)


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the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men.

A fundamentally sexist and biased proposition which seeks to gain advantages for women at the expense of men.

The perceptive reader will be able to articulate why. The feminist, will not.




NookieNotes -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 4:39:58 PM)

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the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men.

A fundamentally sexist and biased proposition which seeks to gain advantages for women at the expense of men.

equality is not a synonym for advantages




vincentML -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 5:46:53 PM)


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Actually, it is probably better to be a slut, cunt and a whore than a cheapskate and a loser.

T^T

Well, it is interesting that slut, cunt, and whore are pejorative terms used to designate sexually promiscuous women, so of course they are probably "better" terms for the male libido. Great!

Whereas cheapskate and loser are male oriented slurs that suggest a loss of masculine power. Erm, not so great.

In my opinion, your narrative supports and justifies the feminist argument.

vML




Termyn8or -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 6:45:46 PM)

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Actually, it is probably better to be a slut, cunt and a whore than a cheapskate and a loser.


I agree all the way.

Just like I prefer to be raped up the bum rather than burned alive or shot/stabbed in my organs, or brutally bashed up or tortured so bad it leaves me terrified for life.


I was shot with a .38 in the face on February 25th, 1985.

Unfortunately I got roids so I would prefer to be shot, plus the fact that my future at this point is not all that good looking. Rape victims should talk to me, I am not gunshy. You can't let shit like that do that to you. I've known rape victims who came out alright after some time with no counseling whatsoever. The counselors tend to play it up, and perpetuate the victim status. At least from what I've heard.

I saw a movie many years ago with a cop that just had no empathy for rape victims, until he got raped. He changed his tune. I am not against supporting them and helping them in some way, but in ways that do not perpetuate the victim status. It is not the end of the world. It is very bad no doubt, but to claim it wrecks your whole life is just plain wrong and playing the victim card. After a couple years they should be over it. Maybe not dating yet but at least able to function.

The way males and females are built of course promotes male on female rape, but the opposite does happen once in a while, and I bet it is even more underreported. Most Men would be thinking that if she wanted me bad enough to tie me up, play with me and rape me, I must be a pretty desirable motherfucker.

Women have gotten used to being objects of desire and many use that for financial and other gain. They can be every bit as dishonest as Men. And from what I've seen maybe more vengeful. Buddy of mine, his olady decided to get rid of him for whatever reason, told him she had a restraining order on him when she didn't and then filed for divorce on the grounds of abandonment. I know two other guys falsely accused of child molestation, and one of them got convicted of it. I know better, that bucktooth bitch lied her ass off and coached the kids.

The other was only accused but not charged due to lack of evidence, but one day I saw his olady sucking the penis of their infant son. I didn't say anything because I figure the kid was enjoying it, but some people think she needs to go to jail for that. He really was an abusive asshole, had anger management problems to the nth degree, but he was not a molester. Actually I got on the outs with him because we rented to him and that turned out bad. But I only claim what is real. The fact he fucked us out of some rent does not make him a molester.

To the laws ? Women usually get custody of the kids which means the housing court will postpone their eviction longer and they can fuck you out of more money if you are the landlord. They can always make the claim of groping, or even stalking. Let a Man try that. In most places we have to kill the bitch to get her to stop and it is not fucking easy to get away with killing people.

So, all this is really real. Not imagined. I have seen it happen in real life.

T^T




LaTigresse -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 7:19:58 PM)

In reading through this thread I just have to think
A) it's been a reeeeeeeaaaaallllyyyyy long time since I actually 'dated'. Date night Friday night with Generic Dude probably don't count after 26 years of marriage....just saying. And
B) with all of the hot button rules that have apparently cropped up in the last 30 years, thank god I will never date another man in this life time. (or hopefully, any that may follow....)
C) unawareness still seems like a miserable sot......poor fella. [;)]




respectmen -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 8:10:14 PM)


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Actually, it is probably better to be a slut, cunt and a whore than a cheapskate and a loser.

T^T

Well, it is interesting that slut, cunt, and whore are pejorative terms used to designate sexually promiscuous women, so of course they are probably "better" terms for the male libido. Great!

Whereas cheapskate and loser are male oriented slurs that suggest a loss of masculine power. Erm, not so great.

In my opinion, your narrative supports and justifies the feminist argument.

vML


Just a quicky as I'm in my phone

A man acting sexually promiscuous is usually labelled a creep. I would prefer to be labelled a slut or whore anyday rather than being labelled a creep.

Sometimes it can be validated to label a man a creep but I think its way more misused than it is to be used appropriately. Women randomly think men are creepy simply because they appear sexual and the said man is not their type. A desirable man acting the same is not in the minds of the same women.

Creep shaming is more common and more harsh than slut shaming by a long shot.

Its considered misogyny to label women sluts or whores but (waves a magic wand) it's not misandry to randomly label men as creeps.




Termyn8or -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/3/2016 8:11:39 PM)


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I never understood why do men who prefers to go dutch bother dating women who believes in traditional dating where men pays.
Actually, most feminist would insist on paying their share.
And if they really like you, they would even foot the whole bill.
Ahem. No, Greta.

One of the things you'll learn about feminists is that they despise tradition, except where those traditions work to their advantage. Consequently feminists come up with a whole raft of excuses for why men should pay including rambling on about the mythical gender wage gap. Basically, to be a feminist is to be a whining, squalling child who thinks the whole world owes her a living.



You're a bit out of touch with reality my friend. I am well-educated and earn an excellent salary. As a dominant I pay for everything. Dinners, travel, entertainment, clothing and haircuts I like to see on my sub.

Oh yeah. I'm a feminist.


Good for you. You pay the bills you make the rules.

Some others think they should make the rules but Men should pay the bills.

T^T




NookieNotes -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/4/2016 12:01:46 AM)


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ORIGINAL: respectmen


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ORIGINAL: Termyn8or
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Actually, it is probably better to be a slut, cunt and a whore than a cheapskate and a loser.

T^T

Well, it is interesting that slut, cunt, and whore are pejorative terms used to designate sexually promiscuous women, so of course they are probably "better" terms for the male libido. Great!

Whereas cheapskate and loser are male oriented slurs that suggest a loss of masculine power. Erm, not so great.

In my opinion, your narrative supports and justifies the feminist argument.

vML


Just a quicky as I'm in my phone

A man acting sexually promiscuous is usually labelled a creep. I would prefer to be labelled a slut or whore anyday rather than being labelled a creep.

Sometimes it can be validated to label a man a creep but I think its way more misused than it is to be used appropriately. Women randomly think men are creepy simply because they appear sexual and the said man is not their type. A desirable man acting the same is not in the minds of the same women.

Creep shaming is more common and more harsh than slut shaming by a long shot.

Its considered misogyny to label women sluts or whores but (waves a magic wand) it's not misandry to randomly label men as creeps.



Sexually promiscuous men are not labeled creeps. Men who don't know how to take no for an answer, fail to read body language, or miss social cues are labeled creeps.




Greta75 -> RE: Feminists want equality, except when paying for dates (8/4/2016 12:30:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Termyn8or
Some others think they should make the rules but Men should pay the bills.

Yup, Chinese women, we totally think that. And that's how it is like for us! Men job is to bring home dough. Woman's job is to take care of her husband, the children, the home, as well as set the ground rules for the whole family to adhere to including managing how the husband's salary gets allocated. Happy Wife, Happy Husband! Part of her duties is good financial planning for the whole family, so there will be enough money for children's college, as well retirement funds for both.

But when woman starts working too, all that becomes complicated! As then she'll be too tired to fully care for her husband and kids as well as manage family finance.




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