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jlf1961 -> RE: Cheating and Sex Addiction (8/12/2016 12:52:13 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Greta75
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ORIGINAL: jlf1961
Yes, I can honestly say that I would chose a woman that I knew I would never have sex with, hell I was married to a woman that suffered a catastrophic stroke prior to us getting married, and afterwords are sex life was almost non existent.
Let me rephrased my question. You married a woman whom you have never ever had sex with? In relationships, marriage is forever, but the relationship before marriage may have involved sex and an emotional connection is already formed. Then that is different. You could have already feel emotionally married to each other. After all, marriage is just the signing piece of paper to make it official in the eyes of the law.
I got news for you, I know of 3 couples locally that met after one of the pair had suffered a major accident (in one case, a catastrophic wound in combat) and got married, and there is no way sex can happen between them.
And yes, I have formed a long term relationship with a woman that I do not, have not had sex with, we share a house, buying it actually.
She was my mother's care giver prior to mom passing away, and she is my best friend, so close that I call her my sister.
In other words, hate to disappoint you and prove your theory wrong, but guess what?
A man and a woman, unrelated by blood or any other means can become so close as to share everything but sex.
In point of fact, she has a goddamn profile on collarme.
We are so close in every respect but sex her kids call me uncle, and her grandson either calls me poppop or uncle depending on his mood (or what he wants usually a snack his grandmother has already said no to.)
Now, once more you are proving that you have absolutely no fucking idea of what the hell you are talking about, and basing the behavior of all men on the planet on your own experiences.
Your argument is flawed, invalid and has no merit in the real world. It is not uncommon, by any stretch of the imagination, for a man to form a deep emotional bond with a woman based on something other than sex, and to even think about having sex with tami seems to be almost incest.
Considering some of the things you have stated on this topic alone, you are a shallow, physically driven individual, incapable of thinking with anything other than your own immediate gratification, and even stated that, even if everything else was good, if you were not getting regular sex, you would find someone who take care of that need and basically dump the poor guy who had the ill luck to think you were capable of something higher than base animal needs.
There are a number of western terms for that type of woman, and none of them complimentary.
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