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gags - 7/22/2006 7:49:27 AM

iowastud

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what kind of gags do u like to be used on you and why?

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 9:21:38 AM

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none.
I hate gags, especially bal gags. I feel like i can't breathe, which makes me panic, which makes tears form.... and then I really can't breathe. It's a massive mental issue I have with them. Maybe one day I'll be able to get over that and wear one wthout panicking, but I can't help thinking that if I were to be whipped (or whatever) while wearing one and I started to cry, I wouldn't be able to breathe.

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 10:52:04 AM

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I also have a big problem with gags; just the thought of it makes me a little queasy. I have 'allowed' a cloth to be tied around my mouth on two occasions but haven't enjoyed either time (I know that it isn't about what I enjoy). I don't know why but I can't even tolerate having a hand held over my mouth. This usually gets me in a very scared place, and oftentimes I will cry. I do think however, that this is an issue I need to pursure further, as in I need to consent to being gagged. For me, being a novice submissive, I think this is the one thing that is sure to break down a few barriers that are holding me back and keeping me from truly submitting my whole being to my Dom. I don't like the idea, but I think it's a necessary thing. My Dom does have two or three ball gags.....but I'll admit the thought of wearing a ball gag that others have worn before me is not very appealing!

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 11:00:50 AM

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mmmm... gags are one of my 'things' so i'm game to try anything... i like ball gags but have to be a little careful as because i have my tongue pierced too the ball pushes my piercing, and consequently my tongue, back towards my throat which is fine if i'm standing up or facing down but a problem if i'm on my back as it really does choke me.
i love tape gags, haven't tried a ring gag, not keen on the visuals of the dental-types but happy to try anything once : )

my fave at the mo, and one i don't yet own, is the neck corset type - google it if you've not come across one - they're quite, quite beautiful

as to the why - i'm not entirely sure - i love the way they feel and the fact that it removes another level of my 'normal' self. I enjoy hearing the noises i make when i'm gagged - much more animal than without... there's not much about them i don't enjoy!!!

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 4:19:58 PM

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Thats a easy one, bits. I could make a pun here about how much I love them. But I respect you all enough not to.

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 4:33:24 PM

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Gags are a soft limit

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 4:35:09 PM

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Pump gags are nice. They're especially nice when combined with a hood or some other external means of applying inward pressure.

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 5:58:49 PM

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i love gags and have a few different kinds. Particularly fond of ball gags or rubber riding bit gags when being whipped or caned. All you can do is moan. One of the first toys i ever bought, 25 years ago, was a gag. Still in fine working order.

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 6:51:07 PM

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LOL, I hate gags.

If He wants me to shut up I hope He can do so with a SHUT UP..lol.

But if he wants to use a gag....hmmm..how about my hair?

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 6:55:57 PM

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that would be a interesting gag peta. would only work if the person had long hair.

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 7:06:02 PM

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We have a ball gag. I don't much care for it. It hurts my jaw and I often cheat with it by pushing it out with my teeth so I can have some jaw relief. I'm interested in trying a bit gag and seeing how that works. I'm happy that my Dom likes to listen to my cries so we don't use the gag very often.

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 9:26:30 PM

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I like to use a penis gag on a sub.
It has a breathing hole in it and it's very comfortable.

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 9:28:37 PM

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i have TMJ so i can't use a ball gag. i have found that i can use a bit comfortably and i like it.

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 10:07:17 PM

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I have found ball gags to be a bit hard on the jaw as well..a simple necktie or cloth to be is preferable..and softer..and more attractive looking..Tempting

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RE: gags - 7/22/2006 11:40:59 PM

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part of the reason i like the more 'difficult' gags is because they're less easy to bear, they feel much less forgiving and more deliberate and somehow meaner by default...

and i'm a bugger for 'testing' ties and gags and everything - if i can houdini my way out of something then i will!

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RE: gags - 7/23/2006 12:19:21 AM

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I've never been gagged and it's something that, for some reason, kinda freaks me out. Master does own a gag and has mentioned in passing that it might be used...

I think that the strange thing is I enjoy breath play but the thought of being gagged scares me a bit... there is something about a large hand around your throat and dark, dominant eyes peering into mine as I gasp a bit for breath that just *shivers* oh, it's just yummy!!

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RE: gags - 7/23/2006 7:48:27 AM

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I have a ball gag, a ball gag that is like a wiffle ball [for air & drool], a penis gag, a head harness bit gag, & an O-ring metal gag.

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RE: gags - 7/23/2006 7:55:17 AM

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Daddy bought a ball gag a couple of months ago. For a while I would panick, couldnt breathe. I am getting over that now, and he uses it quite often. I think he likes the sounds I make when its in LOL

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RE: gags - 7/23/2006 8:30:30 AM

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W/we have ball gags which really make my jaw ache, W/we also have an inflatable dildo which Master likes to use on occasion.

My personal fave is when He has me wear some of the lil cotton panties He bought for me maybe all day at times and then when He see's me He will have me remove them, scrunch or folds them up in such a manner i get the crotch part right on my tongue and He will shove them in my mouth and then use gaffer tape wrapped around my head and mouth to secure them in place! They are a very effective and erotic way of gaggin, especially if im reciveing punishment stripes!

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RE: gags - 7/23/2006 9:06:54 AM

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thats one of the gags i like to use slaverubyred !

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