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RE: Losers and failures - 9/8/2016 12:02:14 PM

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I tell them that they are not worthless, nobody is 'worthless.' They are always 'worth' their effort, their sincerity, their passion and of course...their pleasure.

Worth is definitive...loser is subjective.

Plenty of people are worthless. There's a fair few of them on here. I'm a bit surprised you've not noticed, frankly.

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RE: Losers and failures - 9/9/2016 4:04:39 PM

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The answer is found on all the findomme profiles: they call men losers and worthless, which is ironic since they expect them to be cash pigs, but how can someone worthless provide money?

So I guess men buy into that and lower themselves hoping to catch attention.

Or maybe they just have terrible self-esteem.

I can only guess and be glad I dodged bullet due to being awesome.

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RE: Losers and failures - 9/9/2016 4:21:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: YourSincereSlave

The answer is found on all the findomme profiles: they call men losers and worthless, which is ironic since they expect them to be cash pigs, but how can someone worthless provide money?

So I guess men buy into that and lower themselves hoping to catch attention.

Or maybe they just have terrible self-esteem.

I can only guess and be glad I dodged bullet due to being awesome.

It's been around long before FinDommes on the internet.

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RE: Losers and failures - 9/9/2016 4:33:47 PM

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I disagree. It is not porn. Per se. Porn is a reflection of needs and the needs/feelings etc, essentially the market. So there is a market for it.

'I thought a lot of girls wanted to @save@ and @change@ their man...'

Regardless, these people have internalized their weaknesses and their suffering. Some manage to transform it into something better, the third camp turn it into rage.
So out of the first camp a few of them express themselves this way through their sexuality.

It's really all fucked up, but then again the world IS positively fucked up today.

Porn is parody (unreal) and those who reply upon it for even a small indication of what they can expect, will be sorely mistaken. A reliance upon its 'exciting' features and an over fed imagination built upon porn will leave real life (real time) most often a...complete disappointment.

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RE: Losers and failures - 9/9/2016 5:26:25 PM

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I can only guess and be glad I dodged bullet due to being awesome.

LOL
I like that:)

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RE: Losers and failures - 9/10/2016 4:31:33 AM

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I find the male chastity thing just as unappealing. So you're a loser, and pathetic, then why the hell would I want you? You can't leave your dick alone, or stay loyal to me? again, I'd want you why exactly? Your whole experience is based on porn, or 50 shades of Guff, how dull.

Is this really fair.... not what you like and dislike... but the specific way you characterize it?

I used to say the same thing about bondage. If I wanted Carol to stay in a certain position I could just tell her to do so. Why would i need ropes and whatnot? And honestly, if she couldn't obey such a simple command then why the hell would I want to be her dominant at all?

Clearly I was missing important parts of that picture.

No, not at all for my POV. You see I point blank state that I am a switch. I'm not a Domme, I'm not a Mistress, and frankly find the concept of 'Goddess' laughable at the vanity involved, so I really don't want a sub, nor a slave type man. I most certainly do not want these guys that constantly put themselves over in their first message as a loser and sniveling little wretch with their cocks caged up, and do I want the key to something they can take off. No thanks. Worse still something they couldn't take off, and that thought is gag inducing. There are plenty of people out there to whom they can ply their do-me-now needs, but I really don't fit their wish list.

Bondage I get.

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