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Cliffhangers suck... - 9/2/2016 8:50:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		...for the terminally ill. I can imagine my Dad would pretty pissed that I held a funeral for him on Saturday and he never got to find out who Negan killed on Walking Dead. For some reason it was the one thing he always remembered even when things got bad. I think he related well to the zombies towards the end..they were kinda his peeps.

Yeah..I am losing it..again..nothing new..just loads of stuff bringing up loads of other stuff which is just still too fresh after an exhaustive two years.





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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/3/2016 4:26:34 AM   
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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/3/2016 4:43:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		Damn Bita, you are one strong lady, I can see the humour, its kinda like mine, but Im so sorry for your loss, thats a huge hit:(
Im sending love and commiserations with a virtual hug.



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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/3/2016 5:20:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		For what it's worth, I have been in a similar situation and can understand what your world must feel like right now.
I wish I could give you sage advice for dealing with it, but in the end there is no "silver bullet" for the hurt.
The only thing that lessens that type of pain is the passage of time.

My condolences and sympathy to you along with the wish that you find a place of peace.

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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/3/2016 12:32:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

...for the terminally ill. I can imagine my Dad would pretty pissed that I held a funeral for him on Saturday and he never got to find out who Negan killed on Walking Dead. For some reason it was the one thing he always remembered even when things got bad. I think he related well to the zombies towards the end..they were kinda his peeps.

Yeah..I am losing it..again..nothing new..just loads of stuff bringing up loads of other stuff which is just still too fresh after an exhaustive two years.








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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/3/2016 1:13:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		My father doesn't expect to see another Xmas. On reading this thread I thought: What shows does he watch? None, I think, that are the sort that have overall narratives and cliffhanger endings. One thing I don't have to think about, fortunately.

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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/3/2016 2:50:18 PM   
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Yeah..I am losing it..again..nothing new..just loads of stuff bringing up loads of other stuff which is just still too fresh after an exhaustive two years.

Big hugs, Bita!

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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/3/2016 3:44:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Damn, Bita, I'm sorry to hear that. Let me know what I can do to help.

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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/3/2016 10:41:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		So sorry for your loss.. BIGGEST HUGS

(and yeah, cliffhangers ARE a bitch!)

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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/4/2016 3:24:09 PM   
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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/4/2016 6:03:35 PM   
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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/4/2016 10:38:50 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sloguy02246

For what it's worth, I have been in a similar situation and can understand what your world must feel like right now.
I wish I could give you sage advice for dealing with it, but in the end there is no "silver bullet" for the hurt.
The only thing that lessens that type of pain is the passage of time.

My condolences and sympathy to you along with the wish that you find a place of peace.


Bita,

I also have been where you are. The quote above is how I found it to be.
I will only add this:

It is a priority that you shift your focus to the care of you. You are not only
exhausted, a lot of people in your position have drawn down their reserves to
the point that they can easily become ill. I speak from experience.

So eat not only the indulgent stuff to heal your spirit but the veggies and whole
foods to build yourself up. Get some sunshine and exercise while the weather is
still warm. Make sure to get your sleep.

Now that your father is at rest, you take care of his daughter. You have
earned it and it is what he would want.

My mailbox is always open for you, or if you feel like talking, let me know.






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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/5/2016 3:53:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm so very sorry to hear that, Bita.

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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/5/2016 6:13:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		Bita, I'm sorry for your loss. Please accept our condolences.


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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/5/2016 7:36:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom two years ago this month.

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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/5/2016 11:54:47 AM   
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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/5/2016 3:37:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		My condolences...
You`ve had to overcome a lot, the past few years.
And, have done it with grace...

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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/5/2016 10:33:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		gawd, I wish there was alike button here, because there have been so many comments that I would have clicked like on, for expressing things better than I am able to do..

*hugs and love*

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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/6/2016 2:04:59 AM   
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RE: Cliffhangers suck... - 9/6/2016 8:23:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you all so much for your kindness. I'm doing the same thing with dad that I did with Michael and sending him to orbit. I have a picture of our entire family from the 50 year anniversary party of my grandparents so I am going to torch that, turn it ash and add it to dads ashes so while he's in orbit so he can hang around with all the folks in it ..the ones still here and the ones already gone. I wish I had thought to add a pic to Michaels vial. Ah well..with Dad, we shared a Star Trek obsession, he got a real kick out of the idea so I think he would like that..plus..he can hang around with Michael up there and keep him company till the rest of us get up there. So many sci-fi fan folks in my family and it may have started a new tradition as a lot of folks came to me after the service asking me about the program. In any event..the out of turn stuff needs to be over. I am the oldest now..so I'm next but im not in any hurry.

There may be one more out of turn exception..but that's up to the cat.

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