Awareness -> RE: Signs of sanity: Australians outraged over abusive "male privilege" lessons to be taught at schools (10/19/2016 8:48:34 AM)
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ORIGINAL: longwayhome Bit problem with the first paragraph. Domestic violence is frequently NOT two way It's bidirectional approximately 50% of the time. quote:
and it may take place in low income households, but Domestic Violence is no respecter of class, income group, respectability or sobriety. So? Because it occurs across all income levels, you somehow magically think that income level is not a factor? quote:
This characterisation of domestic violence being a thing that happens in low income families, who abuse drugs and alcohol, where the woman gives as good as she gets is mistaken and prejudiced. Wrong. This characterisation of domestic violence being a thing that men do to women as a consequence of poor education or toxic masculinity is mistaken and prejudiced. Once again, you have no fucking idea what you're talking about. quote:
And don't come back to me with sub-standard or biased research on the topic. It simply doesn't fit with most of the research, Wrong. It does. It fits with 40 years of research. quote:
or my personal experience, as well as that of partners and friends, Look, you fuckwit, YOUR PERSONAL EXPERIENCE IS STATISTICALLY IRRELEVANT. quote:
and the professionals I have worked with, including the Police. The people who implement the gendered anti-male arrest policies? Their experience? quote:
There's plenty of domestic violence taking place right now in families with very good incomes in the top ten percentile who have respectable jobs, where the man beats shit out of the woman, being careful not to mark her face. Yes, because domestic violence is all about calculating men who want to beat women on a long-term basis and get away with it. You're a fucking stereotype, you know that? And you think everyone else is as well. quote:
In numerous court cases the defence of respectability is used. The fact that most domestic violence takes place in low income families is because advanced western societies have more low income families than rich ones. No. Domestic violence involves dysfunctional people in dysfunctional relationships, usually with additional stressors such as poverty. quote:
I am not denying that men can't be the victims of domestic violence or that for some couples there is a problem with two way violence, and I entirely agree with those people getting the support they need. The people you are lambasting as feminists all recognise these facts. No. They don't. If they did, they wouldn't keep insisting that domestic violence is something which men do to women. quote:
However in denying the true nature of domestic violence, the overwhelming number of female victims and the fact that it respects no social boundaries, you are the one perpetuating myths that make it harder to address the real problem. There is not "an overwhelming number of female victims", there's "an overwhelming number of male arrests". Female perpetrators are rarely arrested. quote:
I would say shame on you but I suspect you are too far up your own arse to recognise or feel any shame. Shut the fuck up, you ignorant fucking tosser.
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