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debydeb -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/22/2016 1:09:59 PM)

maybe she was having a bad day but who really knows why people do what they do




DesFIP -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/22/2016 1:10:53 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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It makes them arrogant and dismissive.

In other words, just like you. [:)]


QFT




DocStrange -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/22/2016 3:33:50 PM)


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ORIGINAL: debydeb

maybe she was having a bad day but who really knows why people do what they do

Only the Shadow knows :)




respectmen -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/22/2016 10:17:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: johnsk

Not sure where to put this. I was searching profiles for dominant women. I happened on one I like, so I messaged her, briefly but politely, I think after having read her profile thoroughly.

For a response, she sends me a huge list of people she has blocked. No explanation. I was writing back to say, I don't understand why did you send this reply? But I could not send it, because she blocked me!! I think this lady has some issues.

Anyone ever have a similar experience?



Because many of them are over privileged, chauvinist, arrogant, jackasses who think they are better than most or all men in their area on collarspace while they are just the average next door fatass skank themselves.




respectmen -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/22/2016 10:38:11 PM)

When it comes to men complaining about every day things in the world, it's considered as "whining" because we are deemed as being over privileged. What's happening with female dommes on these sites, they are simply over privileged. Yet, their whining is still accepted, even though, they are over privileged, while complaining from male subs, who are very under privileged, isn't accepted and considered as whining.

Funny how that works :P




LadyPact -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/23/2016 1:05:41 AM)

You're high again, aren't you?

Sex is not an entitlement. It's not like the EEO.

I can (and have) deleted mail from the OP.




HoneyBears -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/23/2016 11:41:44 AM)


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ORIGINAL: respectmen

Because many of them are over privileged, chauvinist, arrogant, jackasses who think they are better than most or all men in their area on collarspace while they are just the average next door fatass skank themselves.

You personally know this, or is this another one of your unsubstantiated sour grapes fantasies?

You list as an Australian male dom, so how many dommes do you contact on a regular basis that you would have any first-hand, verifiable knowledge; and how can you extrapolate that this would apply to every domme the world over -- no, you cannot.

You do not go out to meet kinky ladies at in-person events, much less have what it takes to start dating any, do you? At best, your one-sided cyber experience would be limited to those dommes whom you have been busy as a bee spamming to no avail. Oh, since you are a defeatist, you do not bother to contact women on this site, so you are just making shit up. Then STFU.

BTW, how many men come onto this (or any) site acting like over-privileged/self-entitled, chauvinistic, arrogant jackasses? Wannabe dominants and switches more often, but we get our fair share of potty-mouthed, fetish-grubbing "subs" & "slaves" alike. And if you want to talk about the average fatass (or lazyass) cheating, porn-addicted sleazy creep-skank next door, those men abound everywhere, not just infesting cyberspace.

In any event, before you go casting aspersions again about the physical appearance or undesirable characteristics of others as you perceive them to be, in a feeble attempt at making yourself feel as if you are a worthier catch, why don't you go look in the mirror to refresh your memory.

-- Lisa




longwayhome -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/24/2016 10:43:26 AM)


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ORIGINAL: respectmen

When it comes to men complaining about every day things in the world, it's considered as "whining" because we are deemed as being over privileged. What's happening with female dommes on these sites, they are simply over privileged. Yet, their whining is still accepted, even though, they are over privileged, while complaining from male subs, who are very under privileged, isn't accepted and considered as whining.

Funny how that works :P


FFS

Play another record.

I see all sorts of arseholes of both sexes and at all points in the dynamic moaning about not finding the people or the sex they want on this website, as if they deserved it or had some kind of written guarantee.

I also see other people ignoring the inevitable scamming and getting on with participating in debates and living their lives.

And then there's you. Down-trodden by the conspiracy of women/feminists, whinging constantly about female entitlement, when I can see at least as many over-entitled men and many women bombarded by offensive messages.

If something bad is happening, its always worse for men. I must be living on a different planet from you because no matter how I tilt the world, as a man, I'm just not having it as bad as you say I should.

So why is it so bad for you?




WhoreMods -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/24/2016 10:48:15 AM)

At least that clarifies why he has a mad on about uppity skanks who think they're as good as men...




blueboy1968 -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/25/2016 11:58:41 AM)

I was blocked today, by a Mistress after i sent a simple email of condolence after she stated that her partner had recently died.I just said "sorry for your loss", the next message i get was this

"Ty for your kind words but i would prefer as you state on your journals and what i have read about you on the dominants time waster forum to not correspond with you, this message is done out of politeness and respect to you, for you message please do not reply as you are now blocked. "....WTF????

is there such a thing as a timewaster forum?...




DarkSteven -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/25/2016 11:07:29 PM)

I have blocked people. Usually it's when I figure that they're not going to be anything but grief and arguments.

Based on your other posts, John, I assume there's something not fully disclosed. Otherwise, she saved you time by blocking you.




ilovestarbucks -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/26/2016 12:03:55 AM)

OP,

You should google her picture to see if you can find her Facebook profile.
That will give you more information.
Maybe you can figure out where she lives.
Then you can knock on her door and ask her direction.
Make sure to bring flowers.




Greta75 -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/26/2016 5:12:22 AM)

I am personally irritated by messages that just says, "Hi". Or "Hi, Can we chat?" I instantly know I will not get along with this person in personality!

I simply delete unread!

Whatever you have said to her, definitely didn't impress her. And as the others said. She is probably dealing with hundreds of messages each day.

But surprisingly she has the time to reply you.

Would love to know what you wrote!




smeagol -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/26/2016 2:24:32 PM)

Get over it, move on. Yes females do get hundreds of messages a day, thnk yourself lucky you actually got a response lol Liek most people, if I mail on here, I don't expect a response and never an imediate one.

On the other hand though recently, someone contacted me via another site to ask why I had them on block on CS......all my settings said nothing to block, a typical server cockup, but I am actually glad this person went to the trouble to ask why and search me out, I did reply, stating i had nobody blocked. Been carrying on a very good conversations since.




cloverodella -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/26/2016 3:08:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

OP,

You should google her picture to see if you can find her Facebook profile.
That will give you more information.
Maybe you can figure out where she lives.
Then you can knock on her door and ask her direction.
Make sure to bring flowers.


This is stalker behavior. If she blocks you, she's laying a boundary blocking contact. She's obviously is not interested, so seeking her out elsewhere is creepy as fuck. You may not like her method of telling you she's not interested, but it's pretty clear by the action.

Why would she want anything to do with a dude who won't respect her boundaries? If you contact her when she doesn't want it, you show you don't respect her boundaries from the start, thus she couldn't possibly think you'd respect her safeword.

This is all besides the fact that so many people use fake pictures. Last thing I want is some random creeper appearing at my door expecting some form of sex because some other douchebag used my pic on their profile. One can only hope you'd get the shit kicked out of you up and down the street.




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/26/2016 7:43:05 PM)

Oh dear, satire is a lost artform.




Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/26/2016 8:17:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

OP,

You should google her picture to see if you can find her Facebook profile.
That will give you more information.
Maybe you can figure out where she lives.
Then you can knock on her door and ask her direction.
Make sure to bring flowers.


Hahaha hahahahahahahaha hahahaha




Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/26/2016 8:18:19 PM)


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ORIGINAL: cloverodella


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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

OP,

You should google her picture to see if you can find her Facebook profile.
That will give you more information.
Maybe you can figure out where she lives.
Then you can knock on her door and ask her direction.
Make sure to bring flowers.


This is stalker behavior. If she blocks you, she's laying a boundary blocking contact. She's obviously is not interested, so seeking her out elsewhere is creepy as fuck. You may not like her method of telling you she's not interested, but it's pretty clear by the action.

Why would she want anything to do with a dude who won't respect her boundaries? If you contact her when she doesn't want it, you show you don't respect her boundaries from the start, thus she couldn't possibly think you'd respect her safeword.

This is all besides the fact that so many people use fake pictures. Last thing I want is some random creeper appearing at my door expecting some form of sex because some other douchebag used my pic on their profile. One can only hope you'd get the shit kicked out of you up and down the street.


clover, you're an idiot.




bondageerone -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/27/2016 3:08:56 AM)

BLOCKING IS A SIGN OF IMMATURITY.




Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: blocked!!?? (10/27/2016 6:28:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: bondageerone

BLOCKING IS A SIGN OF IMMATURITY.

It's necessary many times. Especially if someone gets verbally abusive or keeps messaging you after you asked them not to.




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