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RE: Approaching a Dominant Woman - 8/2/2006 8:33:48 PM

GddssBella

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G'evening all:

To the OP, you just have to ignore michael. He's the resident curmudgeon. He's just pissy because nobody will play with him for "no-strings" fun. If you review his past posts, it reads like a self pity party.

michael; you've been given good advice (on your own thread) yet you fail to utilize it. When you stop moaning about your situation and do something positive to improve it, then you may find the results more to your liking. Until then, do stop stereotyping the female dominants. It's beneath you as a human being. Think how it reflects on yourself if a prospective dominant views your past posting behavior. Food for thought...

Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...

Bella

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RE: Approaching a Dominant Woman - 8/4/2006 12:22:54 AM

barbiealto

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I found your post very interesting Darren.

As a new Domme ( a brief explanation in my profile) , I have found it fascinating that since my Domme profile has been 'live' I have been wading through at least 10 new 'applicants ' a day. I have found that I don't need to 'look' as the subs seem to seek out the Dommes! I would say however that the pushy subs get a polite reply saying thanks but no thanks. The ones that live an unreasonable distance from me get the same with an explanation why....... as with any relationship it can only work properly if both parties are free to meet on a regular basis. many subs even put their phone number in a first mail! that is a big turn off to me... makes them sound desparate !

A comprehensive profile is always a bonus and when writing an intitial mail, polite and outlining what one is seeking is always good!

As far as anyone that doesn't reply at all..... how rude! I reply to all mail as good manners cost nothing . Just because I am a Domme does NOT give me the right to be rude.

Mistress B

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RE: Approaching a Dominant Woman - 8/4/2006 5:51:23 AM

LadyJulieAnn

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quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

welcome to the woderful world of online. if there were some magic way to approach a Mistress, i don't think you'll find it here. i have been searding for years and regardless of how i approach them, they are unapproachable. you have to remember, (IMHO) when someone becomes a Dominant, they are often so far above you that they lose the ability to truly care one way or other if you exist. you can either lie and tell them what they want to hear, in which case that fall apart in time, or you can be 100% honest, in which case you become an unwanted commodity. there is no winning here (or other sites).

good luck on the hunt.

Now, now, michael. You know this is not correct.

Be well,
Julie

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RE: Approaching a Dominant Woman - 8/9/2006 1:46:30 AM

Spunkin

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quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

welcome to the woderful world of online. if there were some magic way to approach a Mistress, i don't think you'll find it here. i have been searding for years and regardless of how i approach them, they are unapproachable. you have to remember, (IMHO) when someone becomes a Dominant, they are often so far above you that they lose the ability to truly care one way or other if you exist. you can either lie and tell them what they want to hear, in which case that fall apart in time, or you can be 100% honest, in which case you become an unwanted commodity. there is no winning here (or other sites).

good luck on the hunt.

hello mr michael," - no you dont me and i not you however i wanted to say i totally agree
with all you have stated in the above post;
i think i no exactly how to come accross to certian types of dominatrix now,
and ive tried it all to my friend,   - ( i no were your comming from though )
from persistant e/mails , and not just a couple of months persistance either"    = try 8months ) + 10mths,
yep ten long hard months i waited to hear from one woman in my own country new zealand to send me
a simple kiss's* from a post to finally say hi,
almost as if your numbers up me boy, - now come a little closer; - lol.

The only trouble with visiting other countries is you sometimes require a job or proff of income etc
so you can stay longer than one month like it is for me to go to the states.
I think what i showed most of these women were i wernt afraid to BE MYSELF ONLINE"
and not useing to many,- (if any) big words to show how intelligent i am ya no,
yet that and my own unique persona is all i use and they either like you or simply hate you for it ive found,
and to be too humourious all the time is a no no' -   ive found humour is lost over the internet ,
sad really.

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