LadyPact
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You don't "feel" it because it's always been there. Says the lefty fairies in fantasy world. Would you be calling me a leftist again? You know that always makes me giggle. You'd have to think my positions on firearms and criminal sentencing alone wouldn't put me in that category, but it's cute. quote:
When was the last time you got pulled over for 'driving while white'? quote:
How can you exactly prove if a cop pulls a person over for being black or for being any race or gender? You can't, it's impossible. So therefore, this is based on assumption, not fact. To assume that a person is being evil based on their race (being a white cop) is racist within its self as you would not assume that with a black cop pulling over a white person. OK. First, you've obviously never lived in a place like Baltimore. I don't know how much coverage the Freddie Gray case got in your part of the world, but it certainly put a big, huge spotlight on police vrs people of color here. This isn't exactly a 'new' thing in America. You really just don't hear things about white guys getting pulled over in Harlem because they are in the wrong neighborhood. quote:
I've felt like that I've been unfairly singled out by police before. I think everyone from every background has in their life. The only PROVEN racism I see here are the ones assuming a cop is evil based on their whiteness. We're probably going to have to agree to disagree on this one based solely on your lack of exposure to some of the things that happen in the US. (I'm not saying that as a bad thing. I don't know what happens in your local neighborhood, either.) quote:
When was the last time you were told you couldn't use a bathroom at a department store? quote:
In my generation and in the country I live, I've never seen in my whole life a person of colour being rejected to take a piss or dump based on their skin colour. Is this another lefty fantasy like the one above? If it happened elsewhere and not in my life time, how can that make me privileged again? You wanted to make part of this about gender. I obliged. Do you know that we have a law in North Carolina that very specifically says you must use public restrooms based on the gender that is on your identification? Doesn't effect most people who are cis, but it's a big f*ck you to the trans* community. This puts some people in a heck of a predicament for at least a good two years because that's the minimum amount of time you have to live, full time as the gender you are transitioning to before CRS will be done. If you don't like that one, I'll give you something different. MP and I do two or three road trips to other states since the time we moved out of Alaska. Visiting friends, family, or sometimes, we're going to something in another state that's kink related. MP has a very specific habit during said road trips when we pull into rest stops. He really does wait for me to come out of any ladies room to make sure I'm safe. Something most men don't even give a concern about, unless they have it imprinted in their head about what used to happen back in the eighties when "rolling people" was a thing. quote:
When was the last time you went to a job interview, and based on your appearance, the interviewer had a preconceived notion that you would take more days off than the other applicants? quote:
Based on appearance? Can you explain this more? Surprised I have to, considering it's something you've said often. Women, especially women who are in a certain age group, are automatically assumed to take more days off from work than their male counterparts. Not because they get sick, but because their children get sick. Keep something in mind. I've mentioned numerous times that I've done HR. There for about a year, I hired and fired people for a living. Even I would tell you that, if you are female, don't mention your children in an interview. quote:
When was the last time that you were walking down the street, and had to question holding hands with your lover? quote:
Is this about sexual orientation rather than gender and race? Yep. You've been very loud on several threads that you want to skip sexual orientation as a privilege. Don't you think it's at least worth considering? quote:
When was the last time you took your car in for service and the mechanic treated you differently based on your gender? quote:
Last time I checked, people from every gender and race have been fucked over by mechanics. I did last year by a lot. My previous next door neighbour who was also white male fell victim to the same mechanic. Mechanics who are dishonest usually talk to you and try to figure how much you know about cars by talking to you. They will act all nice and have general conservation while in the meantime thinking how they can fuck you over. Don't know if you have this particular franchise there. Here, we have joints called "Jiffy Lube". I don't know if I could find the link, but they were featured in some investigative reports across the country about women treated differently than men, especially when it came to the tactic commonly known as 'up-selling'. You came for an oil change? Great? Let our service representative tell you why you need your radiator flushed, your transmission fluid done, and let me tell you what's wrong with your brakes. Funny, in a way. quote:
People from any gender or race get taken for a ride all the time. Don't be pathetic and only claim its considerable when it happens to women. Let's do a little experiment. By now, you should know I'm a person of my word. Ask MP sometime where I worked the year before we became involved. When you do, I'm going to laugh so hard I'll probably piddle. quote:
Some folks don't see "privilege" because it's like the air they breathe. It's been there and it's always been there. That chip on your shoulder clouds your vision. quote:
And some folks just imagine privilege due to their own racism/sexism. A couple of years ago, there was this really neat thing going around about privilege. I did a thread elsewhere about it, myself. I'd be happy to dig it up for you, if you are interested. I thought it was fascinating. Take a step forward if you had certain 'privileges' that other people don't have. (I think NookieNotes has the original link.) Stuff like did you have books while you were growing up in your home, do you have expectations of reasonable medical care, or, as peon said, can you walk outside in your neighborhood at night. Those things *are* privilege, whether you see them or not. I'll tell you this last story. MP and I bought a new car recently. (MP's been bugging me for years to let him buy me a new car. I'm one of those women who say, that car runs just fine. We are now one of those 'obnoxious' American couples who own more vehicles than we could ever drive simultaneously.) I haven't even put 500 miles on it yet. In America, if you buy the 'next year's model' car, it's going to come with a sh^tton of bells and whistles. We're 'affluent' enough to afford them. Even knowing what kind of car I wanted before I ever walked into the show room, I knew the extras that I wanted. Want to know the 'extra' that sold MP? On-Star. You know, that service where you push a button and they send people to your location? Biggest selling point of this service is, "if you are ever in an accident". And, when that selling point came up, we were treated like a couple. Secondary selling point? "If you are ever being followed". It was very clear which one of us that comment was directed to. The one of us that has boobs.
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