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UllrsIshtar -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 1:35:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: SmarterThanOne @Greta75 - And @everyone else : Turning... them on to kink! Turning them them from a vanilla person to a kinky person. If you are their first, sure you do. Just like you would turn a virgin into a non virgin. Really everyone is obsessed with reading into a simple word. This is precisely why vanilla subs are easier in my experience. And there it is folks, because they don't know any better they are easier. OMG, you really are the most self-righteous, sour, belittling, close-minded cunt that's been on these forums for a long time, aren't you? ... and that's saying a lot. Why is cunt an insult? Because you're not acting like a bitch (maleficent), you're acting like a stupid cunt. I didn't define the slang. I'm merely applying it in it's appropriate context.

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 1:44:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: SmarterThanOne @Greta75 - And @everyone else : Turning... them on to kink! Turning them them from a vanilla person to a kinky person. If you are their first, sure you do. Just like you would turn a virgin into a non virgin. Really everyone is obsessed with reading into a simple word. This is precisely why vanilla subs are easier in my experience. And there it is folks, because they don't know any better they are easier. OMG, you really are the most self-righteous, sour, belittling, close-minded cunt that's been on these forums for a long time, aren't you? ... and that's saying a lot. Why is cunt an insult? Because you're not acting like a bitch (maleficent), you're acting like a stupid cunt. I didn't define the slang. I'm merely applying it in it's appropriate context. Cunts are beautiful, strong, and fun to play with.

UllrsIshtar -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 2:22:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: SmarterThanOne @Greta75 - And @everyone else : Turning... them on to kink! Turning them them from a vanilla person to a kinky person. If you are their first, sure you do. Just like you would turn a virgin into a non virgin. Really everyone is obsessed with reading into a simple word. This is precisely why vanilla subs are easier in my experience. And there it is folks, because they don't know any better they are easier. OMG, you really are the most self-righteous, sour, belittling, close-minded cunt that's been on these forums for a long time, aren't you? ... and that's saying a lot. Why is cunt an insult? Because you're not acting like a bitch (maleficent), you're acting like a stupid cunt. I didn't define the slang. I'm merely applying it in it's appropriate context. Cunts are beautiful, strong, and fun to play with. So is the right bitch dog. That doesn't change the meaning of the slang. You realize words can have more than one meaning, applicable in different contexts, right? Oh no, wait, I forgot, you don't realize that at all, considering that your entire issue is one of going on constant personal attacks based on things other people never said at all...

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 5:27:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: SmarterThanOne @Greta75 - And @everyone else : Turning... them on to kink! Turning them them from a vanilla person to a kinky person. If you are their first, sure you do. Just like you would turn a virgin into a non virgin. Really everyone is obsessed with reading into a simple word. This is precisely why vanilla subs are easier in my experience. And there it is folks, because they don't know any better they are easier. OMG, you really are the most self-righteous, sour, belittling, close-minded cunt that's been on these forums for a long time, aren't you? ... and that's saying a lot. Why is cunt an insult? Because you're not acting like a bitch (maleficent), you're acting like a stupid cunt. I didn't define the slang. I'm merely applying it in it's appropriate context. Cunts are beautiful, strong, and fun to play with. So is the right bitch dog. That doesn't change the meaning of the slang. You realize words can have more than one meaning, applicable in different contexts, right? Oh no, wait, I forgot, you don't realize that at all, considering that your entire issue is one of going on constant personal attacks based on things other people never said at all... No, I just think it's funny you think I'd be offended by the word cunt

UllrsIshtar -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 5:50:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl No, I just think it's funny you think I'd be offended by the word cunt I think it's funny that you'd think I tried to offend you. I didn't, I just tried to find the most accurate description for your repeated behavior.

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 6:03:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl No, I just think it's funny you think I'd be offended by the word cunt I think it's funny that you'd think I tried to offend you. I didn't, I just tried to find the most accurate description for your repeated behavior. I don't think it's accurate. Surely an actual word and not a slang word would be more effective if you were actually concerned with accuracy and not name calling.

Danemora -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 6:12:26 PM)
Oh for fuck sake, you are the absolute LAST person who should be be saying anything to anyone about name calling and insults.

Greta75 -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 6:15:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire *greta75* https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hCUaQcfUXV8 You hold a 0% existence with me are these not times of the jolly Lol! OMG, you rate people on percentages of existences. So which female on this forum is your 100%? Or 90% verified existence? Or over 50% probability?

UllrsIshtar -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 6:24:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl No, I just think it's funny you think I'd be offended by the word cunt I think it's funny that you'd think I tried to offend you. I didn't, I just tried to find the most accurate description for your repeated behavior. I don't think it's accurate. Surely an actual word and not a slang word would be more effective if you were actually concerned with accuracy and not name calling. No. A slang word was definitely necessary to accurately describe your posting behaviors.

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 7:30:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Danemora Oh for fuck sake, you are the absolute LAST person who should be be saying anything to anyone about name calling and insults. I'm not pretending my name calling is anything other than name calling.

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 7:33:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl No, I just think it's funny you think I'd be offended by the word cunt I think it's funny that you'd think I tried to offend you. I didn't, I just tried to find the most accurate description for your repeated behavior. I don't think it's accurate. Surely an actual word and not a slang word would be more effective if you were actually concerned with accuracy and not name calling. No. A slang word was definitely necessary to accurately describe your posting behaviors. I'd like to think I'm more pugnacious, argumentative, bellicose, or contentious than cunty but whatever, vocabulary is hard.

UllrsIshtar -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 8:22:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl I'd like to think I'm more pugnacious, argumentative, bellicose, or contentious than cunty but whatever, vocabulary is hard. None of those apply for what I'm calling you out for. It's not an issue of you picking arguments with people... it's an issue of you being a self-righteous, sour, belittling, close-minded cunt in the way you're going about it. You're not even actually 'arguing' with people, considering that in order to have an argument, one needs to have a difference of opinion they're contesting with each other. With you, there is no difference of opinion. It's just you making shit up and accusing people of saying stuff they never said in the most belligerent kind of way. That's not you being argumentative... that's you being a self-righteous, sour, belittling, close-minded cunt.

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/2/2016 8:33:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl I'd like to think I'm more pugnacious, argumentative, bellicose, or contentious than cunty but whatever, vocabulary is hard. None of those apply for what I'm calling you out for. It's not an issue of you picking arguments with people... it's an issue of you being a self-righteous, sour, belittling, close-minded cunt in the way you're going about it. You're not even actually 'arguing' with people, considering that in order to have an argument, one needs to have a difference of opinion they're contesting with each other. With you, there is no difference of opinion. It's just you making shit up and accusing people of saying stuff they never said in the most belligerent kind of way. That's not you being argumentative... that's you being a self-righteous, sour, belittling, close-minded cunt. Right bank atcha Sunshine

SmarterThanOne -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/3/2016 1:29:23 AM)
At this point its safe to say she is obviously a troll.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/3/2016 3:03:25 AM)
quote: At this point its safe to say she is obviously a troll. No, I think it is more a case of just plain not being too bright.

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/3/2016 5:25:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick quote: At this point its safe to say she is obviously a troll. No, I think it is more a case of just plain not being too bright. I don't know where you get I'm not bright. I don't understand why not agreeing with everyone makes me stupid. I don't think I'd have a Masters degree if I was stupid.

LadyPact -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/3/2016 6:55:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BarbieDollTG I'm a member on here and FetLife. It amazes me how many people post and then respond - only to flake out at the last second. I do not understand why. Even on here people don't seem to reply. Is BDSM a thing of the past? I'm always polite, and on topic when saying hello to someone. I reply to their requests. I'm not sure if it's the fact that I'm male to female and a sub that bothers them or what. I'm serious about wanting to transition and plan to begin so in early 2017. I met a couple online and we plan on meeting in the next couple of weeks, but they are the only ones who seem serious. I'm not sure I get why other people who are closer aren't serious. Is it social anxiety or am I missing something else? I do have profile pics both here and on Fetlife. I would love to meet more people like myself to get support and be supportive of them. But I have a busy work schedule and haven't been able to attend any of the local BDSM events. I've just been very disappointed these last few months. The meeting with the couple I mentioned looks promising but I do want to meet people closer to me. I work hard, I'm friendly and kinky, even if I'm a newbie. The one thing I am waiting for is to be steril when I transition before having sex, which seems to turn down people. BDSM isn't just about sex. There are other ways to be kinky without having it to be just sex. By the way, I live in Sacramento, CA so if you're a loving female domme or dominatrix, I would love to talk. I also have a Kik account but I'll save that info for a private message. If you even bother to come back to the thread at this point, I would have to say that I agree with DarkSteven. Obviously, BDSM is not a thing of the past. However, there will be people who won't want to be involved with someone who is MtF because of all that entails. If you bother to make time, I'm sure that you'll see that kink is alive and well in Sacramento, which is probably the better option. Sure. Online, you'll find some folks who will contact you due to thinking wherever you are in transition is 'hot' because they are thinking of the fetish aspects, but they don't tend to be the types who are really interesting in meeting real time. Make the time to go out so that people can get to know you. It may improve your results. quote: ORIGINAL: SmarterThanOne I am a male Dom and I have a lot of luck turning vanilla women. Luckily the activities and lifestyle I enjoy is a common fantasy among many women, so simply living it catches a lot of interest from new partners. I have had very little luck with actual lifestyle women to be involved with. Dude, next time, just use the term that people understand. Had you said "converting vanilla women," it probably wouldn't have become all of this.

Danemora -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/3/2016 7:32:26 AM)
To be fair though, some of us understood exactly what he was saying and his meaning when he used the phrase "turning." The only one who didn't had already shown her lack of basic reading comprehension ability well before this point

UllrsIshtar -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/3/2016 7:47:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl I'd like to think I'm more pugnacious, argumentative, bellicose, or contentious than cunty but whatever, vocabulary is hard. None of those apply for what I'm calling you out for. It's not an issue of you picking arguments with people... it's an issue of you being a self-righteous, sour, belittling, close-minded cunt in the way you're going about it. You're not even actually 'arguing' with people, considering that in order to have an argument, one needs to have a difference of opinion they're contesting with each other. With you, there is no difference of opinion. It's just you making shit up and accusing people of saying stuff they never said in the most belligerent kind of way. That's not you being argumentative... that's you being a self-righteous, sour, belittling, close-minded cunt. Right bank atcha Sunshine See... I think most people on this forum would agree that I'm actually pugnacious, argumentative, bellicose, or contentious... because I actually pick arguments with people based on what they've said, not stuff I've made up out of thin air.

UllrsIshtar -> RE: Why is it so hard to find serious people? (11/3/2016 7:54:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick quote: At this point its safe to say she is obviously a troll. No, I think it is more a case of just plain not being too bright. I don't know where you get I'm not bright. I don't understand why not agreeing with everyone makes me stupid. I don't think I'd have a Masters degree if I was stupid. It's not an issue of you 'not agreeing with everybody' it's an issue of you making up shit that people didn't say, and then not agreeing with that. It's been abundantly clear, over several weeks, and several posts, that the reason you keep flying of the handle and accusing people of things they never said is because you're plainly not bright enough to follow what they DID say, and so your mind ends up filling in the blanks, and attributing a bunch of offensive nonsense to the other person which really only exists in your own head. And it's rather old for the forum to have ever 'argument' (if you can call it that) with you to be consisting of: "No, X didn't say that at all", while you go off on rampant self-righteous crusade against the thing that wasn't even said.

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