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Greta75 -> RE: Domme's Have Hearts, Too (11/7/2016 1:17:36 AM)
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This whole thread just reminds me of the first time I ever visited this forum!
So much judgement over innocent stuffs that made me roll my eyes. OP definitely didn't deserve all the judging comments.
This was just a woman expressing her feelings of loss, yes even if it's of somebody she has never met, but this was how she felt.
It just reminds me that when I was a teenager, adults would belittle your feelings for a boy constantly because of your age. And now as an adult and I look back, I still didn't feel like it was insignificant. It really meant alot what I felt for a boy that I grew up with and spent my entire childhood with and I still understood and could see why I loved him then.
The man connected with her and touched her. Yea perhaps he was just funning around and taking the mickey. That's part of the whole online thing, it comes with many ungenuine people. But she felt sad, she might be naive and take it seriously, but what's wrong with a little naivety and a little more faith in humanity sometimes?
Technically, that is the attitude one should choose to not pre-judge things too much and be open to possibilities and give it the best benefit of the doubt until truly proven to be not genuine, but even then, it's a better attitude than being closed and guarded and suspicious of everything as fake.
In the early days of the internet when IRC first came out and I was 14 yr old. Every single online person I chatted with was genuine and real regardless what country they came from. I have had people from Germany, Belgium, UK, Australia and US visit me. And I have visited many of my online friends too. You could practically take anybody who contacts you at face value and know for a fact that it is genuine and a genuine person on the other side. I miss those days. I know IRC is no longer like this.
I hope she keeps her positivity and her ability to connect, feel and care for a stranger that she never met.
Everything starts with a fantasy in my opinion. A thought, an idea or what appeals to you, what kind of job you'd like to have and what kind relationship and life you'd like to have. And then you make that fantasy into reality. And start living it as what will become normal in your life. To me, that is just the natural flow of life. Some people make their fantasies come true. Some people allow it to remain a fantasy and is happy to let it stay that way or maybe the road to achieving that fantasy might be harder than expected, sometimes, they give up on their fantasy. But it all starts with a fantasy.
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