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Alecta -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 9:58:54 AM)

I said "qualified".

A few years back there was actually a very good discussion about FinDomination / FinSlavery as a kink, and what it is that FinDommes (Pro Dommes who serve the FinSlave kink) do; there were some very intelligent discussions from actual FinSlaves, rather than the usual Fly-by-Night-Pay-Princess Alliance. Do a search.

A name that comes to mind is TNDommeK. There was another regular who operated via phone. Lady Pact might be able to recall more names.



LadyPact -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 10:10:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Alecta
A name that comes to mind is TNDommeK. There was another regular who operated via phone. Lady Pact might be able to recall more names.


There was a really good fin kink thread here, some time back. A person might want to look under the author of RochSub.

Just a suggestion.



DocStrange -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 10:16:25 AM)

If I recall, Miss Immortal Pain was another regular in forums as a FinDomme?



MariaB -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 11:37:25 AM)

Truth is, the markets flooded with finDommes and I doubt there’s enough male subs to go round. I’m sure there are FinDomme's who stands out from the rest but such women are about as rare as hens teeth.




stef -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 11:49:49 AM)


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ORIGINAL: WhoreMods

I suppose they have to put a bit of effort into finding photos without a watermark to put on their profile.
[:D]

There's a reason why most of these parasites only have a single profile pic, which is usually cropped and blurry.



PeonForHer -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 12:02:30 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: Alecta
A name that comes to mind is TNDommeK. There was another regular who operated via phone. Lady Pact might be able to recall more names.


There was a really good fin kink thread here, some time back. A person might want to look under the author of RochSub.

Just a suggestion.



... Or LadyConstanze. She generally posts on findomme threads.



DocStrange -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 12:06:16 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: Alecta
A name that comes to mind is TNDommeK. There was another regular who operated via phone. Lady Pact might be able to recall more names.


There was a really good fin kink thread here, some time back. A person might want to look under the author of RochSub.

Just a suggestion.


LP,
Is this the one?
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4505326/mpage_1/tm.htm



PeonForHer -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 2:04:34 PM)

FR

I rarely see arguments in favour of improving one's wanking experience here. I don't know why. Just beef up your imagination ... and the world's your oyster. Me, these days: a few pictures or vids, and I can do the world with them. I switch on the pictures: there are my favourite ladies, all agog to be exactly what I fantasise them to be. Ten, fifteen minutes later (I've never actually timed it), I have no more use for them. I click the mouse, and they're gone. No lengthy, heavy discussions about 'how I see this relationship progressing'; no pressure to meet the woman's mad old bat of a mother; no grating murmurings about whether or not 'I like children'. Equally, given a different sort of sex-partner entirely: no awkward fumbling in my wallet to find just the right number of notes to leave on her bedside table. And the next time I feel the old testicles making their demands, I switch on the appropriate websites and, presto, there they are, all smiling seductively and enthusiastic to be the way I want them, just exactly as before!

Men really, *really* need to work on their wanking skills, in my humble opinion. All the problems of this thread and so many others would *just evaporate* if they did.

I have Spoken.



kiwisub22 -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 2:12:35 PM)

[:D]Yesssss Master .... you are all knowing, all seeing , all wanking.................................



Alecta -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 2:16:09 PM)

Every now and again you make my heart skip a beat lol <3



Wayward5oul -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 2:50:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: kiwisub22

[:D]Yesssss Master .... you are all knowing, all seeing , all wanking.................................

He seriously needs to make that his signature lol.



MaryMaryProDom -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 9:39:39 PM)

In any case, it was a great post, "Why The Hate?"
There are a lot of people who hate FinDommes, that's for sure.



UllrsIshtar -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/19/2016 11:01:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MaryMaryProDom

In any case, it was a great post, "Why The Hate?"
There are a lot of people who hate FinDommes, that's for sure.


Nope.

Legitimate FinDommes aren't hated. Finducks (little self-entitled girls, like you, who call themselves Dommes but ain't) are.

Well, really, they aren't even 'hated' (I doubt anybody really cares enough) but rather looked down on, mocked and disliked.



LadyPact -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/20/2016 12:03:27 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DocStrange


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: Alecta
A name that comes to mind is TNDommeK. There was another regular who operated via phone. Lady Pact might be able to recall more names.


There was a really good fin kink thread here, some time back. A person might want to look under the author of RochSub.

Just a suggestion.


LP,
Is this the one?
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4505326/mpage_1/tm.htm


It's actually a link within that thread. I believe this is it: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4224292/tm.htm





Diffident -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/20/2016 9:25:17 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MaryMaryProDom

There are a lot of people who hate FinDommes, that's for sure.


You misunderstand. Findommes aren't hated. I think that everyone can see the appeal of getting something for nothing. I actually feel a bit sorry for the more obviously desperate finducks. Rent being due when you don't have the money really does suck. I've been there, and definitely don't ever want to be in that situation again.

Unethical people are hated, no matter what it is that they do. Delusional, self-important people are mocked. The tendency for many finducks to exhibit one or both of those traits is what leads to the negative responses that they get.

I still don't think that selling Thank You letters makes you a Pro-Domme. It's like me saying that my First Aid certificate makes me a Doctor.



Danemora -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/20/2016 3:32:28 PM)

~FRing it~

Ive got no problem with pro dommes or actual financial domination. Ishtar described a pretty great sounding situation regatding her and her husband's slave in another thread that was actually building up the slave's savings while reducing her personal debt. Something like that anyway.

I actually honestly dont even care if someone is a prostitute, finduck, or other sex worker either. If someone is willing to pay, so be it.

But I will say this too...you "fuck you, pay me" princesses really arent doing anything special that any other human being out there couldnt handle. Kids do it, elderly grandmas could do it. People do it on freeway offramps and on sidewalks. Hell, about the only person who isnt likely to have their hand out for money is a dead person...unless they have rigor mortis or something.

Lets just not apply gold leaf to a pile of bullshit, finducks. Its not anything magical to walk around with your hand out.




ExtonSadist -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/20/2016 3:47:18 PM)

Most people don't hate other people's kinks. They just hate other people.



kiwisub22 -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/20/2016 4:43:41 PM)

I would say that most people don't put forth enough energy to hate other peoples kink - or other people. I would say that most people spend more time looking at themselves than other people, and really could care less about others - unless it impacts them.

Someone looking for something for nothing isn't going to get respect from anyone - vanilla or kinky, and most findommes on collarchat come across as exactly that. Therefore, no respect because they aren't perceived as being genuine.



Greta75 -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/20/2016 7:49:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissAnnie01
Looking for a True Sub. I love to pleasure a woman on many Levels. To pleasure a woman is a art form. To make a woman reach levels of pleasure they have never seen or felt is more then just a wham bam thank you ma'am. To please the soul is to please the body.

BUT..

If your fetish involved the power exchange from giving/taking financially you're a dumbass If you enjoy sending tributes. The dom is a money grubbing where that takes advantage of men.

Recently, there's been too much hate on Property dommes and findommes and I want to know why. The people hating probably don't even have a clue about what's really going on! Just like any other D/s relationship there are rules and boundaries, hard limits.

As long as they are respected what is your problem?

Have you ever actually talked to a finding about how he feels about the money he's sending or gifts he's buying? Those guys are happy as f* to have someone to spoil. They don't feel like they're getting scammed.

Ask them about it.

I suggest you guys open up your minds and have some respect for people who have different links than you. It's pretty ignorant and I'm sick of reading about.

Please explain.


Men are often just sour puss when they have problems finding someone who would satisfy their own fetishes for free. The men who have happily found the woman to satisfy all their personal kink will not be one of these haters at all, he'll be happily just enjoying the woman he has and be too busy to hate.

This isn't just a financial domination thing.

I am also very unusual, as in I detest all forms of oral. Including french kissing. In the vanilla world, I also get alot of hate for it. Men literally gets super angry and pissed off and abusive about it. Even THOUGH they will never get to fuck me or touch me ever, anyway so what does it matter to them? And I saw the exact same reactions in this forum because of my sexual orientation. Frigid, Cold Fish, all the name calling starts.

Some men just have zero respect for natural orientations different from what is the expected societal norms. And that is THEIR defect, not yours. I wouldn't worry about it. Nothing disgusts me more than people into kink, judging other people's kinks to be "LESS" than their own.

But as with any kink disposition. When I find a man who fits me, who hates all forms of oral as well, and who gets high from female pleasure. Personally for me, it is always heaven for both of us. It's all about kink compatibility, and sexual compatibility.







TNDommeK -> RE: why the hate for other people's kinks? (11/20/2016 8:22:56 PM)

OP- it's very much a legit fetish..when done correctly. A female that decided to stamp "goddess" in front of her name and hold out her hand, is NOT a financial Domme. So there is a bit of hostility towards that. It would be the equivalent of a guy reading 50 shades, then claiming he's a master.

Now the ones who actually put the work in, have relationships with their slaves, etc... no one seems to have issue with them.. Unless of course you count the guys who just enjoy being asses because no one paid attention to them. But, just like then, no one pays attention to them now either.

ETA: thanks for the positive shout outs!! They are appreciated. Roch's thread was a great one, if you can get past a few of the bullshit posts of people just trolling.



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