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DarkSteven -> So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 6:51:53 AM)

Let's define porn as "something that gets your motor running". It doesn't need to focus on sex, nudity, etc.

With that in mind, what sorts of "porn" would appeal to you? I keep envisioning scenarios such as a woman getting a gentle spanking for stress relief, lots of dialogue during a scene, a man making a dinner and both eating it sensually, etc.



Greta75 -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 7:25:26 AM)

I like rape porn. Because those are my favourite fantasies. There are rape porn where women are kidnapped and tortured for days with all my bdsm fantasies. I absolutely love those.

I never liked vanilla porn. And I cannot believe men like it. Vanilla porn could literally be 1 hour of nothing but penetrative sex, like OMG! How boring!

I like the stuffs in sexandsubmission website too, because when game is over, it shows the dominant doing after care to the sub. And in a way, not every porn actress was able to complete the entire role play without saying her safe words. Some have failed. So it shows very realistic situations. And the dominants in there are really good role models, showing the safe and respectful side of BDSM.




WickedsDesire -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 7:30:42 AM)

Christ greta75...although in my mind you are an american man stirring it for reasons that escape me and I have decided always will. Her/his/its post needs removed.

Apologies DS
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MoxieMcfly -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 7:38:18 AM)

I am partial to independent porn that is kind of a "professional sex tape" oriented rather than "amateur porn" so...the quality of the filming is more professional, but the sex is more like watching your neighbors. It's kind of the opposite of amateur where people follow the typical porn script and the filming is more poorly done. Kind of like Zach and Miri type porn...Crash pad is a great example, queer and trans people engaging in spanking and bondage, fisting, strap ons, etc.



Greta75 -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 7:39:50 AM)

Dude I already proven to you I am based in Singapore. With a photo of your name written on Singapore back drop, so stop the BS about me being American.

And according to recent studies, more than 90% of women have rape fantasies. It's a normal thing for women.

But as we are in the BDSM community and understand that fantasies still needs consent. There is nothing wrong with having rape fantasies and enjoying watching it play out on screen. It's also safer watching a whole rape scene played out than actually playing it yourself.

And in case you are really ignorant about this, you are free to read about it over HERE

I also saw my first BDSM porn video when I was 10 yrs old I think. My parents had loads of porn at home, although kept hidden away but not locked. I always took them out and watch them. They had lesbian BDSM porn infact.

And at 12 yr old, I had a BDSM porn party watching with all fellow 12 yr olds, about 8 of us. All females. I went to a all female school anyway, so all my school friends were females.

That's what happen when you have parents who treat you like you don't exist. The good part is, total freedom, no supervision EVER.

I could be 5 yr old and disappear for 3 days, my parents won't notice I am missing. At 5, I pretty much run out of the house by myself and can be out for as long as 8 hours wandering by myself. And as a teenager, I often don't go home for a week, crashing at friends. Seriously, nobody notices I am missing.



WickedsDesire -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 8:05:28 AM)

If you did that I will apologise I am man of my word and no issue with saying I was wrong unreservedly. Direct me to this picture as all the ones on your profile appear stolen. Do women call men dude? Dude is an American word not used over in my backward lands. Personally I think you are full of complete shit and also dangerous imo naturally...the second is where I draw my line



Greta75 -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 8:25:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

If you did that I will apologise I am man of my word and no issue with saying I was wrong unreservedly. Direct me to this picture as all the ones on your profile appear stolen. Do women call men dude? Dude is an American word not used over in my backward lands. Personally I think you are full of complete shit and also dangerous imo naturally...the second is where I draw my line

In Singapore, we write British English, although spell check always change it to American English. But many of us end up speaking more American pronunciation as well adopt alot more American words. Because all our movies and English TV are American programs. We don't get British programs here. I feel like the only British program I know is Mr Bean when I grew up as a kid. It's all American Cartoons, Sesame Street, that's American. And then all the sit coms, like Fresh Prince of Bel Air, Friends, all American. Even dubbed anime are all American English.

And I love to use the word "Dude". I'm a Tom Boy, I grew up with only brothers and male cousins. All my best friends are males. And I never liked anything girly. I am competitive in sports, and everything I did was male stuffs with my brothers and my male friends. While I have female friends, not by choice since I went to a All Female School. But, they are just class mates and school mates. The ones I spend most of my time with are the boys, my soccer mates, after school. So when ya buddy buddy with alot of male friends. You talk like them.

Enjoy the view of Singapore. Yes, I don't need an apology but you do need to stop the American crap at me. This was in response to your challenge to me HERE.





bondageerone -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 8:33:36 AM)

dear dark steven, even though you are just another pathetic man,
the simple answer in my case , is not porn, it is fairly obvious from my title.
BONDAGE TURNS ME ON.
just thinking about either being dom/sub with bondage , works for me.
Terri. a lesbian switch bitch. xx



bondageerone -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 8:35:22 AM)

dear Greta . wait for it. so called WD. will say as he said to you, I am a man, God knows what drugs he is on, or just plain jealous.



WickedsDesire -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 8:49:33 AM)

I find that image barely acceptable apology given unreservedly. Would you like to see me do one like that pic name thy hovel of a country...I have no issue with the papers words and it made me laugh :)...but my version will read 40 foot cock :)

I reiterate barely acceptable = >50% = unreserved (hushes his tongue) shall i bend over or bake you a nice plate of scones?

i am fortunate in that I can show me, and the first picture I apologise I dont get to use it often anywhere plus it should make you smile...the sotry behind that was i simply ot bored of the 1000s of stolen memes and wondered how hard/long it would take me to create one on fet

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Your initial post needs removed on this one. I have never called for anyone profile ever to be removed since the begging of the internet......stolen pictures perhaps and a reallocation of their actual sex.

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All the above aside Hergre art you know of it?

And the odd DP gang bang......now I have had no wench this year and if I get one I will have her used by others...is that an olde age thing?



tamaka -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 9:27:22 AM)

I always like the scene in Gone With the Wind where the girls are all sent upstairs to take a nap while the men retreat to the den to smoke cigars and discuss 'Men stuff'.

I really haven't watched much porn but i like porn where the man is training the woman to be anything (it really doesn't matter what) and i especially like when the man is just using her as his hole. I don't like anything where the woman says much. I just like hearing the man.



ThatDizzyChick -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 9:36:23 AM)

I like stories more than visuals, and what gets me going is stuff like rape, scat, blackmail, torture, snuff. Generally the more extreme the better.



Alecta -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 9:39:14 AM)

Where is it written that women cannot enjoy rape-torture porn of other women?
There are even criminal cases pointing to the contrary.

I also enjoy imagining Jamie Oliver in nothing but an apron while he cooks Christmas feasts on TV for the whole family, although I not that big a fan of his cooking style. Other visual input that put me in the mood: a clean house, crisply turned down bed, girls in skimpy costumes...



OsideGirl -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 9:48:46 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

If you did that I will apologise I am man of my word and no issue with saying I was wrong unreservedly. Direct me to this picture as all the ones on your profile appear stolen. Do women call men dude? Dude is an American word not used over in my backward lands. Personally I think you are full of complete shit and also dangerous imo naturally...the second is where I draw my line

Her complete lack of understanding about American society confirms she's not an American.



LadyPact -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 9:50:18 AM)

Remember, you asked...

I don't watch that much porn. On the rare occasions that I do, it's probably going to be gay porn. (This really shouldn't surprise people.) Huge preference for scenes focusing on male on male oral sex. Not as big on male on male anal penetration scenes.

I'm way bigger on watching S/m related stuff where there might not be anything overtly sexual about it. I'm more interested in watching the things that I enjoy doing as a top. Really don't care about the gender of the top, as I'm more likely to connect with the sadism. More likely the types it that isn't what the bottom is obviously enjoying. (In other words, the types of scenes that aren't what used to be called 'fluffy sadism' i.e., only acts that the bottom appears to want, like, etc.) I like watching bottoms in distress. Resistance. Genuine reactions to pain that aren't "yum, I love that" from the bottom's side. People getting pushed to the point of tears. Face slapping where you can see the person being slapped isn't just reacting to the sting on the face, but the psychological/mental/emotional reaction because it *is* their face. Fear. Anything related to fear.

Has to be genuine, though. If the bottom looks like they are playing a part or they are trying to have the reactions that they think the top wants to see, I'll lose interest quickly.


For the off topic part, I'm female and I absolutely call people "dude".




OsideGirl -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 9:54:26 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact



Has to be genuine, though. If the bottom looks like they are playing a part or they are trying to have the reactions that they think the top wants to see, I'll lose interest quickly.
For me too, but for me it's about the passion. I love Primal-esque. Give me a guy that kisses while torturing and I'm in. Yanks her head back by the hair and kisses her deeply.
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact



For the off topic part, I'm female and I absolutely call people "dude".




Yup, I literally just did call some wanker that emailed me, "Dude".



shiftyw -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 10:00:51 AM)

FR
I watch porn/read erotica/fantasize pretty frequently.

I mostly watch porn which involves like gang bangs, public humiliation, some bondage, etc etc. being Bi, I prefer both sexes be involved.

i find myself drawn to scenarios and things that are far out of my comfort zones, things I wouldn't be able to do in real life because of my own hang ups.

I mean- that's the point of fantasy no?

I avoid something's like step dad bangs 18 year old step daughter! Or Mom interrupts son masturbating and makes him bang her best friend. Anything that feels incesty or pedo-y I just can't stomach and think it's weird.



LadyPact -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 10:05:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Alecta
Where is it written that women cannot enjoy rape-torture porn of other women?
There are even criminal cases pointing to the contrary.

Personally, I would think it would make perfect sense that they do. Getting to watch something that a person fantasizes about and turns them on because it inspires that reaction that they would want to have if they were that person?

Just an opinion, but that's kind of what porn is, in a way. Kinky porn, at least. Stuff that turns a person on because they might want to do it or have it done to them?




Alecta -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 10:13:25 AM)

I think it could go either way. I usually identify with the "instigator" in those scenarios, which could be the torturer or the cameraman depending on the scene.



LadyPact -> RE: So let me ask the women here a question. (12/13/2016 10:20:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
For me too, but for me it's about the passion. I love Primal-esque. Give me a guy that kisses while torturing and I'm in. Yanks her head back by the hair and kisses her deeply.

Good point. Impulse, sudden, off-guard kind of stuff. One of the reasons that I have a hair pulling thing, myself. Only takes a second but what it can produce is amazing.




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