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Black Owned White Families - 12/21/2016 10:28:56 AM   
KinkyBlackMan


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Status: offline 		I know that there is a group for this topic on Fetlife. Just trying to figure out if its a reality or just fantasy. Do Black Owned White Families really exist?
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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/21/2016 10:57:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		I guess it's contingent on whether you mean actual ownership (which is illegal) and your definition of "family".

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/21/2016 11:29:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah, that is true. I have discovered that a lot of ppl here on CS and on Fet throw around the word "Owned" a lot and it is nothing more than word play.

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/21/2016 11:42:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well, there's some elements of lifestyle fantasies that are more enforceable than others and a lot more that have to stay as word play all over. Almost anything you can fantasise somebody will probably be doing, but as you say, a lot of it is just role playing. Might there be sources online about this besides this dump and FL? There's plenty of photos on tumblr, so there has to be something else out there, surely?

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/21/2016 12:35:23 PM   
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throw around the word "Owned" a lot and it is nothing more than word play.


Same with the word "slave".

But really, it depends on what you're asking: If you're asking "Are there black Dominants with a white poly relationship?" I would imagine the answer is yes. I don't personally know of any, but that doesn't mean that it doesn't exist or isn't feasible.



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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/22/2016 10:10:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KinkyBlackMan

I know that there is a group for this topic on Fetlife. Just trying to figure out if its a reality or just fantasy. Do Black Owned White Families really exist?


It is rather a common kink on both side of the coin. At least here in the Mid West. Black Dominant and white submissive. I used to know several Mistress's who were very much into this. But the ones I knew have since retired. If you search the other side you can find adverts for such Dommes. But as with any website you need to weed through the fake to find the real ones.

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/22/2016 12:22:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Was most likely footed off that one, in times past, for calling it racist - which it is...and some of you think me still errantly naughty hmm.
Not sure why you didn't ask the racist fukers on that forum? which should not exist…does that forum really still exist?

Two above me I am a little disappointed, on this occasion, at the extent of your answers. 3rd above me fair enough....oh its you cooeeee WM

As for you OP Do Black Owned White Families really exist? Do you require a lesson in maths?

I can’t put am exact figure on it but with bit of the math’s it is certainly less than 0.0001% x 5 million (alleged) user base of awesome integrity (more alleging- rolls eyeballs).

Why are you asking anyway?

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/22/2016 5:45:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Your biggest problem is probably with the word "families". There will be personality conflicts when you throw a bunch of people under the same roof, and calling it "house of" or "family of" does not magically make that go away. Unless you're an expert at defusing tensions, the strain will quickly make itself apparent.

Interracial kinky relationships and even interracial poly relationships (for whatever value of "poly" you want to use) can certainly happen. I'm not going to say that race won't be a factor in them. But since race is a factor you can't do much to change, you might as well look into other ways that signal you'll be a good kinky/poly partner.

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/27/2016 10:30:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not exactly what you mean but my gf is a dominant to me and she has been exploring the idea of making my bf watch what she does to me. My bf and I are both white and my gf is black. She has fondled and kissed and hugged me in front of him and a few other things. :) but not much beyond that so far. He is not allowed to do anything when she does this to me. She also has uhm "marked me" with her scent, bite marks and such for him to find later when I am alone with him. But it's not really aracial thing. More a ownership thing.

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/29/2016 1:44:12 PM   
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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/29/2016 1:53:22 PM   
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Not exactly what you mean but my gf is a dominant to me and she has been exploring the idea of making my bf watch what she does to me. My bf and I are both white and my gf is black. She has fondled and kissed and hugged me in front of him and a few other things. :) but not much beyond that so far. He is not allowed to do anything when she does this to me. She also has uhm "marked me" with her scent, bite marks and such for him to find later when I am alone with him. But it's not really aracial thing. More a ownership thing.


So your boyfriend is her sub too.

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/29/2016 2:32:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: herblondy

Not exactly what you mean but my gf is a dominant to me and she has been exploring the idea of making my bf watch what she does to me. My bf and I are both white and my gf is black. She has fondled and kissed and hugged me in front of him and a few other things. :) but not much beyond that so far. He is not allowed to do anything when she does this to me. She also has uhm "marked me" with her scent, bite marks and such for him to find later when I am alone with him. But it's not really aracial thing. More a ownership thing.


So your boyfriend is her sub too.


According to her: her gf was a roommate who coerced her into a relationship and her boyfriend is a nonconsensual cuckold.

Sounds kosher, right?

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/29/2016 5:26:18 PM   
tamaka


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: herblondy

Not exactly what you mean but my gf is a dominant to me and she has been exploring the idea of making my bf watch what she does to me. My bf and I are both white and my gf is black. She has fondled and kissed and hugged me in front of him and a few other things. :) but not much beyond that so far. He is not allowed to do anything when she does this to me. She also has uhm "marked me" with her scent, bite marks and such for him to find later when I am alone with him. But it's not really aracial thing. More a ownership thing.


So your boyfriend is her sub too.


According to her: her gf was a roommate who coerced her into a relationship and her boyfriend is a nonconsensual cuckold.

Sounds kosher, right?


No it doesn't. Sounds like it's time for her bf to dump her.

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/29/2016 5:57:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow, thanks for the warm and friendly welcome to your site. One person calls me a liar. Then the next asks me a legitimate question. The third misquotes what I said and becomes judgemental of my situation without allowing me to answer for myself and then the second one decides to jump in on the cyber bullying because his friends did and attacks me also. And not one of you bothered to ask me anything at all other than if my bf was her sub too. Or get to know me before the sharks started swimming. Or to even bother to say hello. Yes Wicked, I got my pictures to post. You tried to help then turned on me for some reason. It's so amazing that people on a alternative lifestyle site are more judgemental than any one else. No wonder in my few days here all I see is the same few cyber bullies posting on every thread with their snarky "no it" all comments. Please do me a favor and just ignore anything I MIGHT say on here in the future. You can have your little walled of corner of the world and wonder why you never have any one new to talk to.

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/29/2016 6:01:22 PM   
tamaka


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Status: offline 		Well starting off talking about your boyfriends sucky situation didn't set you off to a good start. Or are we just supposed to focus on you and your fat black princess?

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/29/2016 6:47:10 PM   
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Well starting off talking about your boyfriends sucky situation didn't set you off to a good start. Or are we just supposed to focus on you and your fat black princess?


See, still fucking rude. And all you are is a fucking sheep tamaka. Because you didn't say anything rude until your friends did and you just joined in then. Who asked you to focus on me? Who said it was a sucky situation for him? He has no problem with it and encourages it. It was partly his idea. Oh but thats right, your going by what some other person in your little circle of hate said and not what I said. So to fit in you started attacking me too.

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/29/2016 7:00:56 PM   
tamaka


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I think you and your gf should just do your thing and let your bf have a chance to be a man with someone who isn't into humiliating him for her own kinky benefit.

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/29/2016 7:09:25 PM   
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I started a new job and met my new bf and my gf within a month of each other. My gf let me live with her so I could get away from him. Soon after I moved in she started flirting with me. She is much much larger than me and I was straight at the time. I can be on the timid and quiet side and I like to avoid confrontations so I let things go WAY to far before I ever protested. Also I felt VERY obligated to her for all she had done. So things kept escalating in what she was doing to me. By way too far I mean what she was doing was starting to turn me on despite myself and I struggled for a long time with my new found sexual feelings for her. It was more than just her being a girl but also her being so dominant and over powering with me that I was enjoying.
That is pretty much the definition of coercion.

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Long story short, in time I accepted what I was denying and totally submitted to her. This was right around the time my new bf first discovered the marks on me and I confessed it was my gf leaving them. He took it well and was fine with it as long as I was. At the time I wasn't sure how fine I was with it. LOL. My bf and gf didn't like each other at all from way before me but her "marking me" for him to find and him enjoying it somehow brought them closer together and now they are cordial too each other and show mutual respect for each other. For example, if my gf wants to try something new with me that might affect him in some way, she will often ask him if he is alright with it first.
So, it started as a nonconsensual cuckold that you or he has decided that he's okay with.

So, you can be upset, but I'm entitled to my opinion that starting a relationship with coercion and dishonesty isn't kosher.

Happy flouncing!









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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/29/2016 7:56:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: herblondy

I started a new job and met my new bf and my gf within a month of each other. My gf let me live with her so I could get away from him. Soon after I moved in she started flirting with me. She is much much larger than me and I was straight at the time. I can be on the timid and quiet side and I like to avoid confrontations so I let things go WAY to far before I ever protested. Also I felt VERY obligated to her for all she had done. So things kept escalating in what she was doing to me. By way too far I mean what she was doing was starting to turn me on despite myself and I struggled for a long time with my new found sexual feelings for her. It was more than just her being a girl but also her being so dominant and over powering with me that I was enjoying.
That is pretty much the definition of coercion.

quote:

Long story short, in time I accepted what I was denying and totally submitted to her. This was right around the time my new bf first discovered the marks on me and I confessed it was my gf leaving them. He took it well and was fine with it as long as I was. At the time I wasn't sure how fine I was with it. LOL. My bf and gf didn't like each other at all from way before me but her "marking me" for him to find and him enjoying it somehow brought them closer together and now they are cordial too each other and show mutual respect for each other. For example, if my gf wants to try something new with me that might affect him in some way, she will often ask him if he is alright with it first.
So, it started as a nonconsensual cuckold that you or he has decided that he's okay with.

So, you can be upset, but I'm entitled to my opinion that starting a relationship with coercion and dishonesty isn't kosher.

Happy flouncing!









I never said it started off on the best of terms but it got there. And then some. It was more about me having trouble admitting things about myself. Things my gf saw in me before I did. I could have left at any time if I wanted but I didn't. Yes I was coerced but part of me wanted to be coerced. Part of me liked what was happening. One of the reasons I am on sites like this is to explore why. In an effort to not going into much I left a lot out. Even then I get accused by my good friend tamaka of making this all about me.

But I make a post on this thread and someone who was helpful suddenly calls me a liar. Then you come on and don't even bother talking to me about what I said but "around" me to your friends and acting holier than thou as if I weren't worth your time. Sure your allowed your opinion. But just because you don't approve dosn't mean you should be rude either. Then I have tamaka calling my gf a fat black princess. If thats not racial I don't know what is. And I get a rude pm saying the same. And my bf less of a man and you hinting at the same because he is ok with what we do. He and my gf and I discussed doing this before it actually happened. She checked with him to see if he was ok with it. But you want to twist that into he should leave me because of it when it was his fucking idea.

Yet they say all of this and you don't say a word to tamaka for being really rude or wicked for calling me a liar. No, you choose to gang up on me because you don't approve of my situation. Because My kink isn't as good as your kink.

So in short it's the rudeness you all displayed here as to why I am pissed. Not because of your opinion of what we do. You go on a regular site on the net and tell people what you are into and you will get the same treatment I am getting here from you. And thats why you are saying your kinks here and not somewhere else. Now somehow you are doing the same thing to me what you are running away from on the normal sites. Hypocrites!

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RE: Black Owned White Families - 12/29/2016 10:05:58 PM   
tamaka


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You are the one on a thread discussing the race card. Should i have called her a fat white princess?
If your bf wants to be humiliated then have at it. He can go to therapy for it later if he has to. It helps keep our mental health professionals in business.


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