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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 8:00:20 PM   
Cloudz


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And may I begin by saying you wear the name well. I must be having a very good day - one that allows me not to take myself or anyone else seriously. I hate to be the dissenting voice, but I loved it...every last word. I got it, I loved it, and I am still wiping the tears of laughter from my eyes. You will not be welcomed here, and probably will not last long - but at least one person got the joke. Thanks for the laugh!

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 8:17:45 PM   
scottjk


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Status: offline 		Um, before this gets to bloodshed, can I point out something?

Yes, the OP is a horrible writer, but, since I wasn't spoiling for a fight, I believe the sub that he initiated contact with replied with '<deleted>'.

Now, can some one explain to me how that can be considered polite?

I beleive that is were the discussion degenerated into a non-constructive pissing match on both sides.

Now, I can't defend the OP. Making a purile response like that was pointless and a waste of energy. I would have laughed and moved on. :)

It's so dissapointing when I discover nothing changes at all. <sigh>

< Message edited by scottjk -- 7/24/2006 8:19:20 PM >

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 8:24:45 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Well, if someone writes a long winded message about, well, really, bullshit, once they have been told the other person is not interested, that person doesn't really deserve any politeness in my books.  They got told no once, anything beyond that is harassment.

I don't think it's overly serious and should be taken as the start of stalking, but it is unwanted contact and can easily and understandably be ignored.

Yours,


benji

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 8:26:58 PM   
aleshaDreams


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Status: offline 		scottjk, the response was deleted by the OP........ He initially posted it in the thread but has since <deleted> the response and it was polite.  oh yes and he did ask us how we would react, so he got some feedback.

< Message edited by aleshaDreams -- 7/24/2006 8:28:20 PM >

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 8:30:59 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		I didn't even realize he edited it out.  Wow.  Talk about telling half the story.

"No, I swear her message was 'please tell me a BS story' " LOL

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benji

Edited to remove personal attack...  LOL

< Message edited by gooddogbenji -- 7/24/2006 8:31:26 PM >

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 8:58:33 PM   
reticence


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quote:

ORIGINAL: aleshaDreams

scottjk, the response was deleted by the OP........ He initially posted it in the thread but has since <deleted> the response and it was polite.  oh yes and he did ask us how we would react, so he got some feedback.


Alesha

i think the email from her was deleted by Mod 11... look at the end of the OP

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 9:01:11 PM   
LordTyger


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Status: offline 		Seems to me this guy keeps posting the story of this 'visit'..   I'm wondering if perhaps this is his way of getting people to read his fiction..  which, A) Is a crappy way to go about it,  B) There are several forums and sites for such things, and C) presuming this is real, someone needs to get off of their high horse.  Just because you call yourself a Master does NOT mean you are god.

Kthxbai.

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 9:01:35 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Hey!  Mod 11 was here, and didn't even say hi.

HI MOD 11

Think she heard me?

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 9:04:16 PM   
reticence


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Status: offline 		Benji   shhhhhh

she slipped in quietly... and did her deed

if you keep shouting you are going to get me in trouble for giving her away

shhhhhhhhh

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 9:15:28 PM   
windyplayer


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stanton
Man, you should get a job at Harliquin Romance and Kink Co!


Finally someone gets it....!!! And seems like you read it. Thank you... The point is that it seemed to me that there is a headset to this lifestyle that we are exploring, and one of the ways to explore it is to write / read about it. I guess I polluted the whole discussion with the email that inspired me to write the piece. But part of the piece is the first part which is an exploration of how a sub should [or might] conduct an email encounter with a potential master. As a master, it seems to me that I'm looking for a slave / sub that gets into the role playing from the first email rather than sometime later... After all, email is safe and hygenic, isn't it??? So what's the problem with role playing from the beginning. Are all you subs that are dissing the master really switchers?

Seems to me that role playing in email can be rewarding on some level too. But it seems that most of these replies indicate that you folks don't think so... Oh ye of little imagination??

Anyway... I find textual role playing can be great fun... Sort of like typed phone sex...

enjoy,

wp


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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 9:21:43 PM   
reticence


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Status: offline 		I do wish you well in your search.  I am sure there is someone out there that will enjoy indulging in your online role playing fantasy thing right off the bat...My guess is you will have to do some searching to find her.  I am not a "switcher" but nothing about it appeals to me.

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 9:21:48 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		So a woman saying "no" means you get to whack off to her playing a role? 

Wow.  I want to live in your reality!

Yours,


benji

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 9:23:59 PM   
windyplayer


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quote:

ORIGINAL: windyplayer

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<deleted>
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[Mod Note:  pasted email removed. Please do not post received email into forum posts]


Maybe the mod didn't notice that the OP had XXXed out all of the identifying characteristics of the original email including the name, and the city mentioned, but never mind. MODS rule... They are the ULTIMATE MASTERS of us all...

wp the OP

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 9:26:56 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Yeah, and Mod 11 could be my Mistress any day.  Unfortunately, she's a lesbian, but a pup can dream.....

Yours,


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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 9:28:43 PM   
reticence


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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 9:43:22 PM   
txsubbie


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Status: offline 		Wow..so THAT is what I have been doing wrong. This is all about role playing?   I have been looking for One who ISN'T playing a role..No wonder I am having such a hard time finding Him! *smirks*  I am submissive. It is who I am not a "role" I play in or out of the bedroom.    

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 10:09:37 PM   
aleshaDreams


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Status: offline 		Addressed to the OP:

I think it would be essential that first you identify that the person you are communicating with via emails if so be it, are in agreement with this before ramming it at them.  Because people identify they are submissive or slave does not make them this to every individual that approaches them, nor does it generically say they are into the type of role playing that interests you in this case via email.  Find your commonality and then pursue your fantasy with that compatible person.  There is no use or benefit to say we have no imagination, perhaps we reserve the right to choose the one we wish to share it with that remains our perogative.  Your profile says 'will take it slow' however contrary to that upon what i am assuming is a 'second' email with this person you are almost pushing your role playing fantasies down their throat.  I just don't see where 'taking it slow' comes into play with your actions, hence enough in my perspective enough to turn me away quickly.  But like others have expressed good luck in your search and most of all good luck in your 'gain'ing 'experience' and your continued 'will'ness 'to learn'.

< Message edited by aleshaDreams -- 7/24/2006 10:11:21 PM >

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 10:16:44 PM   
Jnj


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quote:

ORIGINAL: windyplayer
But part of the piece is the first part which is an exploration of how a sub should [or might] conduct an email encounter with a potential master. As a master, it seems to me that I'm looking for a slave / sub that gets into the role playing from the first email rather than sometime later...


Hi Windy,
I think that you might be missing the point.  The submissive in the original email told you she was not interested in a "later" with you, and you disregarded it.  It would be akin to asking a woman on a date, her responding that she is not interested, and you calling her up to have phone sex.  Most people would not consider it appropriate.  In addition, after a submissive informs you that you are not a "potential master" for her, why do you find it a good idea to respond with an "exploration of how a sub should [or might] conduct an email encounter with a potential master"?


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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 10:37:02 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: windyplayer

So what's the problem with role playing from the beginning. Are all you subs that are dissing the master really switchers?


Call me crazy... but I am not so interested in Role-Playing a Relationshsip.  I prefer just to have one that is honest.  And if afterwards we want to put on funny outfits and I the Mr Professor and she is Maryann... and role-play a scene.. well that's just great too!

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RE: How would you react to this??? - 7/24/2006 10:59:12 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

quote:

ORIGINAL: windyplayer

So what's the problem with role playing from the beginning. Are all you subs that are dissing the master really switchers?


Call me crazy... but I am not so interested in Role-Playing a Relationshsip.  I prefer just to have one that is honest.  And if afterwards we want to put on funny outfits and I the Mr Professor and she is Maryann... and role-play a scene.. well that's just great too!

LOL I'm still giggling at the attempt to cow less than stellar responses by pulling the "switch" card.

You want to get into role play?  Go for it.  But don't get all pouty because a random cyber stranger doesn't want to play.

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