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Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/24/2006 8:07:15 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"

How often does your sub try to use sex to get out of doing a chour or an order that you the Dom had just given? After a good and long scene with sex, it's normally to late to clean house and such which would put chours off for another day. Where does ones Will Power stand when he faces the choice of getting laid or having the living room and kitchen looking neat?  

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/24/2006 8:13:31 PM   
Duncan


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Status: offline 		"Daddy, I'm horny"

Thats nice, do as your told and I might concider giving you the pleasure of sex. Or you can try and continue trying to get out of doing as your told and I will guarantee you get non for a good while.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/24/2006 8:42:22 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		~Chuckles~ If I said that in response to a direct order, not only would it be ignored, but the next thing out of his mouth would be, "Why is your ass not moving?"  If I did not scramble at that exact moment to get to my order, he would be quite unhappy about it, and would wonder when my attitude changed to thinking that my arousal was more important than what he wanted done, and when did I begin to think manipulating him would ever work?

It's just not something that would happen.

Typically if I tell him I am hot or aroused (separate from any order given), his response is, "Good - you should be!"

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/24/2006 8:58:01 PM   
PlayfulOne


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Status: offline 		answer.................  "And?"  , followed  by this look she claims I give her when she is not moving or responding fast enough which she generally responds to with "yes Sir" and kicks into high gear.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/24/2006 9:15:03 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		While I think everyone in my relationship has, at least a few times, had certain ideas of what to get done and then had their plans interrupted by lust and fun instead- I don't know that any of us consciously or willfully use sexual distraction as a way to get out of stuff.

Now, I've TEASED my partners about it, dragging them back into bed and such- but only when it's fully obvious that I'm only teasing and that we're having fun and in a minute we get our butts up and get stuff done.

If this does become an issue- the dom needs to examine the actual sexual fulfillment of the sub and make sure things are solid there, and examine their own patterns of behavior to see if they are indeed reinforcing this behavior that leads to things not getting done.

Things in life have to get done.  Procrastination can happen to the best of us, but putting things off just means less time for fun later.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/24/2006 9:58:03 PM   
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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/25/2006 12:12:27 AM   
SavageEu


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Status: offline 		I would be very unhappy with a Pet that tried to bribe me out of following the commands I gave her . Once the command has been fufilled then she could ask. But then I also have my wife who has a huge sex drive so its much easier to refuse a Pet under those circumstances. 

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/25/2006 4:50:13 AM   
RavenMuse


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Status: offline 		The exact reaction would depend on my mood.....

"And?" is quite likely as is me giving her a hug, teasing her and getting her even more turned on..... then slapping her arse and sending her off to do what I told her to do in the first place and hurry up about it else there might not be time do do something about the fact *I* am horny and then I definatly won't be pleased


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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/25/2006 5:41:25 AM   
KatyLied


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You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"


I wouldn't do that.  I don't necessarily think my Dom would get angry, but he'd probably just do a ::shrug:: and say "get to work."  What is the purpose of being controlled if you are going to try to get out of it?  There are times when I've requested dispensation, but I've always had (in my opinion) a valid excuse, or I've asked for extra time to get something done.  But I don't abuse it by asking very often.  To me that would dimish the power exchange.


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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/25/2006 5:42:58 AM   
amoretta


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Status: offline 		Thank you for pointing this out!! Just a little point here.. chores are tiring.. sex can be very tiring. While I don't think its appropriate to try to manipulate one's way out of an order, I simply want to do a public service annoucement that after a long day of following orders, sometimes we get a little tired and chore-like sex.. not so nice. *sweet pout*

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/25/2006 5:55:25 AM   
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  1. "Good I'lll call a press conference...."
  2. "Be sure you make an appointmet with Big Hairy!"


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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/25/2006 6:04:04 AM   
nephandi


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i would not do this, i might pout over a chore i did not like, but i would not try to manipulate my way out of it.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/25/2006 7:21:44 AM   
Taylore


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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"

How often does your sub try to use sex to get out of doing a chour or an order that you the Dom had just given? After a good and long scene with sex, it's normally to late to clean house and such which would put chours off for another day. Where does ones Will Power stand when he faces the choice of getting laid or having the living room and kitchen looking neat?  

Quite frankly, if Master tells me to do something, I get up and do it. It matters not if I want something else at that time or not  In addition to this, if I have chores to do, I do them, no matter what time of day/night it is; and no matter how exhausted I may be.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/25/2006 9:32:19 AM   
afeathr


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"

How often does your sub try to use sex to get out of doing a chour or an order that you the Dom had just given? After a good and long scene with sex, it's normally to late to clean house and such which would put chours off for another day. Where does ones Will Power stand when he faces the choice of getting laid or having the living room and kitchen looking neat?  


As a sub, it's her responsibility to make sure that *your* desires are met before her's.  Personally, I *loved* IronBear's response... that's something that Sir would probably say to me in response to such a statement, swiftly followed by 10 swats with the slapper!  But, back to the question... will power is really what Domination is about, to me.  If Sir were to give in every time I made a request then I would begin to see that as a "topping from the bottom" sort of situation where I can rule the roost and he is just there to push me around when I want... I am a sub... I desire, more than anything else, to please Sir in everyway.  If that means that I do chores instead of getting sex, so be it.  The three rules that we live by are: We do what He wants, when He wants and how He wants.  Though I get input and have a say in some things... in the end it's *always* HIS decision as to what we do.

If you think that the only time you will get sex is when she says that she is horny, then maybe you need to 'use her' a bit more when she's not and see what happens.  This is about *you,* not her.  And, if you want to have sex AND have the house clean, then you use her and have her clean the house *quietly* when you are done.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/25/2006 1:01:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"

How often does your sub try to use sex to get out of doing a chour or an order that you the Dom had just given? After a good and long scene with sex, it's normally to late to clean house and such which would put chours off for another day. Where does ones Will Power stand when he faces the choice of getting laid or having the living room and kitchen looking neat?  


I can't really imagine using I'm horny as a way to get out of a chore or an order.  That really just seems silly and a sure fire way to annoy someone.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/25/2006 1:14:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"



Nobrainer! 
Sounds like a near perfect situation... simply have her start her nude chores on all fours... violla! ... Now Daddy has the best of both worlds!   

Next question...


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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 7/25/2006 3:34:12 PM   
SavageEu


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Status: offline 		I have thought about that as well. I can almost see it
Me: "Have you done the dishes? "
Pet: "Well no.. but I can think of something else we could do!"
Me: *Look of very unhappy*
Pet: *pouts off to start dishes*
Me: "Take off your underwear"
Pet: *Pet complies*
*sound of certain battery operated device being switched on behind her and moving lower as I stand behind her*
Me: "You had better not drop a single dish"

Ok so the situation has an upside atleast.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/16/2007 8:18:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		i think that i would try to use it ... once ... and it would not work so ... i would get over it ... i thinks its sort of funny

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/16/2007 8:39:36 PM   
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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/16/2007 9:15:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"



Oh my Daddy loves it when I do that! He does not have chores for me to do really, he just loves me to be horny and verbal about it... he has a housekeeper after all (clue, it isn't me)

Seriously, I have never used sex to get out of doing something, I tend to enjoy getting him things and doing things for him without being asked.

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