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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/16/2007 9:58:36 PM

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"If you're a good girl I might use you when you're done with what i just told you".

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/16/2007 10:10:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"

How often does your sub try to use sex to get out of doing a chour or an order that you the Dom had just given? After a good and long scene with sex, it's normally to late to clean house and such which would put chours off for another day. Where does ones Will Power stand when he faces the choice of getting laid or having the living room and kitchen looking neat?

I'm a Pirate, I don't care if she is horny, I'll steal her booty. I don't understand why a sub would think that just because they are horny, I would react. I take it when I want it. Sounds like topping from the bottom.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/16/2007 10:12:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"

How often does your sub try to use sex to get out of doing a chour or an order that you the Dom had just given? After a good and long scene with sex, it's normally to late to clean house and such which would put chours off for another day. Where does ones Will Power stand when he faces the choice of getting laid or having the living room and kitchen looking neat?

well, since sex is not a part of my submission, i do not see this as being a problem.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/17/2007 5:46:38 AM

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Of course if she's working all day, keeping her place and yours clean, she won't be interested in sex afterwards, assuming it isn't too late because sleep deprivation impacts her ability to make a living. Now if you prefer climbing on top of someone who's falling asleep and makes it clear that she doesn't enjoy sex with you, go to it. The Man prefers an actively involved partner in bed, one who squirms at his every touch.

Oh and chores here are not all my responsibility. The work is evenly caused, it is handled by whoever can do it better and/or who has the energy after a long day.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/17/2007 7:57:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"

How often does your sub try to use sex to get out of doing a chour or an order that you the Dom had just given? After a good and long scene with sex, it's normally to late to clean house and such which would put chours off for another day. Where does ones Will Power stand when he faces the choice of getting laid or having the living room and kitchen looking neat?

in the past, if I had tried this ploy, I would have been shown the door.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/17/2007 9:21:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: studrottweiler

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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"

How often does your sub try to use sex to get out of doing a chour or an order that you the Dom had just given? After a good and long scene with sex, it's normally to late to clean house and such which would put chours off for another day. Where does ones Will Power stand when he faces the choice of getting laid or having the living room and kitchen looking neat?

I'm a Pirate, I don't care if she is horny, I'll steal her booty. I don't understand why a sub would think that just because they are horny, I would react. I take it when I want it. Sounds like topping from the bottom.

sounds just like my Master (well, except the pirate part, lol). He couldn't really care less whether or not i'm horny at a particular moment...he takes me when he wants me, period. not to mention that any trick or manipulation on my part to get out of doing something expected and commanded of me would only result in a swift, painful punishment.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/17/2007 9:25:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"

Seriously, I have never used sex to get out of doing something, I tend to enjoy getting him things and doing things for him without being asked.

Yeah... this is how things are here. I do the dishes with free will

But if we were in that "Daddy, I'm horny" dilema, He would probably know that I'm not horny at all, and that I'm just trying to get the dishes out of my way. With that in mind, He would pull my hair, make me kneel, kiss me gently, and slide a "hand under my skirt", just to push me away 5 seconds later and say: "There, Is that better, little girl?"

I would end up doing the dishes in complete horniness.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/17/2007 9:44:53 PM

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well.....if presented with this scenario by my pet...I would spank her, and slide my fingers under her....and that would make everything more fun, lol....Im sure she would be eager to finish those chores, dishes or whatever in a rush

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/18/2007 6:25:41 AM

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If i wasnt horny, i'd most likely stand there looking at him and Master would most likely completely ignore me. Granted i would not lie so boldface and if i were to say it - it would be playful. (in which i'd still be ignored - or he'd start counting)

If i was horny - i would most likely "trying" to be all over him and he would probably look down at me with a distant cold stare and ask me if it was done yet. If he was in a really good mood, he might chuckle out the word "good" and if i didnt move he would start counting. If he was in a super happy mood, he might let me sit there and rub on him for awhile making myself hornier and then tell me to get it done.

Either way, i dont win.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 1/18/2007 8:34:57 AM

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I don't see myself in a million years saying this to my Master. Even if i was. I can only speculate on his reaction but my guess would be he might slap my face and tell me, "bitch, i didn't ask if you were horny, i told you to do the dishes - or whatever."

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 2/1/2007 3:50:42 PM

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Responding with "And?" is good, but the most likely response for me is to just say, "Good. come over here." Then insert a toy (buttplug, vibrator) or apply a clamp, and a good slap on the ass to get her started. Add a command that she is not to cum until after the chores are finished. Once she's finished, only then will she find out if I'm horny.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 2/1/2007 8:58:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"

How often does your sub try to use sex to get out of doing a chour or an order that you the Dom had just given? After a good and long scene with sex, it's normally to late to clean house and such which would put chours off for another day. Where does ones Will Power stand when he faces the choice of getting laid or having the living room and kitchen looking neat?

Meh. I'm frequently horny. More often then he is really. He does make allowances because my sex drive is so overactive, but the allowances are generally that he will finger me quickly and (with my head clear) I head off to go do whatever needs doing.

Now, if he gave me a direct order and I responded with "I'm horny" he'd probably say something along the lines "How is that stopping you?" Then, if I was a good girl and there was time later, he would do the things that make me unhorny! And there would be peace and joy throughout the land...

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 2/2/2007 10:55:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

You give an order and your sub replies "Daddy, I'm horny"

How often does your sub try to use sex to get out of doing a chour or an order that you the Dom had just given? After a good and long scene with sex, it's normally to late to clean house and such which would put chours off for another day. Where does ones Will Power stand when he faces the choice of getting laid or having the living room and kitchen looking neat?

Haven't we seen this question before??

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 2/5/2007 1:15:27 PM

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if the DOM agreed and let me skip the chores...i might begin to wander who was really in charge.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 2/5/2007 6:42:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

Of course if she's working all day, keeping her place and yours clean, she won't be interested in sex afterwards, assuming it isn't too late because sleep deprivation impacts her ability to make a living.

Really? Wow, then my slave, who works all day, keeps house & home, and has a tremendous sex drive every night, must be doing something fundamentally wrong. Thanks for the tip!

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 2/6/2007 6:59:29 AM

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It's probably something that would never come out of my mouth. I'm pretty sure even if it did, he would just say, "What's your point?" and push me in the direction of the sink. If he happened to be around while I was washing the dishes, the conversation might have a few suggestions about what could happen after the dishes were done. But I would continue doing whatever it is he asked me to do until he decided it's not what I should be doing anymore.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 2/6/2007 1:15:25 PM

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Being just a TAD sadistic, I would likely explore "hands on" the extent of her horniness, before chuckling and sending her off to get her work done.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 2/12/2007 7:04:25 PM

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If my sub tried to use sex to get away with something (the idea of JC doing that is humorous, though), then I'd probably give her enough of what she wanted to drive her crazy and leave her on the brink, tied in the dark for a little while to re-evaluate her methods.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 2/12/2007 8:34:46 PM

Celeste43

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ORIGINAL: Adrenochrome

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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

Of course if she's working all day, keeping her place and yours clean, she won't be interested in sex afterwards, assuming it isn't too late because sleep deprivation impacts her ability to make a living.

Really? Wow, then my slave, who works all day, keeps house & home, and has a tremendous sex drive every night, must be doing something fundamentally wrong. Thanks for the tip!

Really? She's working 8 hours a day, doing three hours of housework at her house and at yours, and driving an hour between them and still has energy and time? Amazing. Wonder how she invented a 30 hour day.

Either you didn't read my post clearly or you deliberately twisted my words. I said her place AND yours.

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RE: Subs, SEX, chours, and SEX! - 2/13/2007 1:35:58 AM

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*sound of certain battery operated device being switched on behind her and moving lower as I stand behind her*
Me: "You had better not drop a single dish"

Ok so the situation has an upside atleast.

That is by far my most creative favorite. I would simply let her change her clothes into the french maid costume, or 'chastise' her by making her wear NO CLOTHES at all, open the blinds and shades, and see how long it took her to get through the chore. If I were humored by her sincerity I might videotape it for posterity. Sometimes the pussy gets wet and not from the dishwater splashing about. So yes, I would give a concession, but she would be put on a rolling boil by the time she finished. Then I would play her hormones even further until she begged. But the chore would be done, and I will have maintained control throughout.

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