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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 1:13:03 PM   
puella


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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 1:13:52 PM   
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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 1:16:48 PM   
puella


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Status: offline 		Aww benji!

I'll get you some fresh cookies and milk, doll!

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 1:22:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have personally done Interrogations involving a cold metal stool with the TENs unit on his balls.I  also put them in the jail cell standing using the TENs again plus having them completely attached to the wall so they can only squirm,the heat lamp was on and he was blasted with Ice water every now and then.Of course there was nipple clamps,and cock bondage so the balls were nice and tight.
I admit it wasnt that extreme,but is was something that harriet had to have,not because I said so but because he craved it...please Miss no holds barred...so I gave it to him.he loved it all except...the TENs unit,just the sight of it makes him squirm is discomfort
now...lmfao.

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If you try a taste and dont like dont try it again.If its not visually appealing walk away.

Thats the great thing about America...we can make our own choices.

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 1:25:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: puella

Are we officially hijacking this poor bastard's thread?


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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 1:40:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		What's offensive about it? The name? Well as long as the Mods don't care why should we? I mean I've seen names like shiteater and pissdrinker which bother me more. Though I have to admit when I first saw her introduction here I was kinda taken aback for a moment, but soon recovered and went about my business.
Is it the content? I don't see anything offensive about that either, she's not saying anything that some other Dom/me hasn't said in a profile. If someone's got a fantasy thing for Eva, well I say as long as its consenual why should I care?

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 1:57:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Go ahead, but there is no need to call me a bastard. That's just rude, at least everyone else made valid points.

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 2:00:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		oops sorry i did not realize you were still here.......so since you are can i ask how you are feeling about it all? has the thread offered anything helpful?


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ORIGINAL: rick19

Go ahead, but there is no need to call me a bastard. That's just rude, at least everyone else made valid points.


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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 2:00:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think it was meant facetiously, implying that us hijacking your thread made you a "poor, helpless bastard," (when attacked by hijackers like us veterans, everyone is helpless) not that you are a actually a bastard.

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 2:08:10 PM   
puella


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Status: offline 		Hrmmm... I think I have a bit more insight as to why you overreacted....

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 2:08:41 PM   
rick19


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Status: offline 		It did. Looking back, I shouldn't have posted this, but I had to get it off my chest. The Dommes were at MF were acting like it was OK, and there is a lot one-sided sexism on that site. If that would have been a man who took a master name from a serial killer, those same Dommes would flame away. It just makes me mad how so many people are in this to abuse men/women, thats what I seem to be getting from my interactive dealing with the scene (I'm new)

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 2:11:44 PM   
puella


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Status: offline 		Maybe its the site you have a problem with then, and not Frau Eva?

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 2:21:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Herrin Eva, please.

And perhaps, to make this thread more productive than any other I have ever posted in, if you learn to accept that others have different kinks, and all you can do is find someone who shares your own, then we have come a long way.

If you're offended by something, only you will care.  And you will always find something to be offended by.

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 2:28:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: rick19

If that would have been a man who took a master name from a serial killer, those same Dommes would flame away.

Eva Braun wasn't a serial killer, she was a girlfriend.

So, .....if a male Dom wants to name himself after a serial killer's girlfriend....oh well.

I'm not an advocate of Eva Braun's. I just think you're making this into something it's not.

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It just makes me mad how so many people are in this to abuse men/women, thats what I seem to be getting from my interactive dealing with the scene (I'm new)
That's a mighty big jump.

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 4:47:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: rick19

It did. Looking back, I shouldn't have posted this, but I had to get it off my chest. The Dommes were at MF were acting like it was OK, and there is a lot one-sided sexism on that site. If that would have been a man who took a master name from a serial killer, those same Dommes would flame away. It just makes me mad how so many people are in this to abuse men/women, thats what I seem to be getting from my interactive dealing with the scene (I'm new)

I think you're overreacting AND a wee bit delusional.  Her choice of a stupid business stage name and taking on a "personna" for the purpose of business is not ABUSE.  You're trolling on female pro domination sites (that's what Max Fisch is) and that's what you're going to get.  If you can't stand the heat, go live in Alaska.

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 5:20:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd ask yourself why you are reacting so strongly to it?

She has written it to gain a reaction from those reading it.  She probably wants to have her audience feel annoyed and frustrated by her, because that frustration also shows that they are impotent to do anything about what she's posted.  In essence she has already done what she's set out to do.

The thing that you have to remember about it is that it is an ad to attract someone with a very particular fetish.  If that isn't you then pass on by.  Would you be so horrified if she was posting about pissing in someones mouth?  Or would you be able to realise that a post like that would be written for a specific reason, ie: to raise interest in someone who shares that fetish.

Forced Fem and Sissification are quite standard fetishes within the kink community, as much as you might not understand that... there are people out there who get off on being spoken to like that and who would love to meet someone like her.

Perhaps they would be as offended and horrified by your fetishes as you are by theirs?

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 5:35:44 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: rick19

It just makes me mad how so many people are in this to abuse men/women, thats what I seem to be getting from my interactive dealing with the scene (I'm new)


Alot of things that might look like abuse at first glance, turn out to be something else when you get to know the people involved. People that are truly abusive (not honoring limits, lying about their partner, or other nasty stuff) are not popular in the bdsm world.

Are your perceptions of bdsm mostly from online interactions or have you gone to any local munches or get togethers?

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/25/2006 5:41:04 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		Well noone said dominants were subtle. Its a bit much for me but I know of some that would find this attractive. So whatever floats your boat.

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RE: Am I overreacting to this? - 7/27/2006 7:13:01 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: rick19
.... It just makes me mad how so many people are in this to abuse men/women, thats what I seem to be getting from my interactive dealing with the scene (I'm new)


Hmmmm... I'm a sadist.  I rather enjoy inflicting pain on other people.  Pain both physical and emotional.  As in beating, shocking, cutting, piercing, humiliating, etcetera.

To someone outside looking in, it probably appears to be abusive.  To those standing on the inside, it looks like fun and I have lots of repeat victi.. uh... er.. volunteers!  PARTNERS!  Yeah... play partners!

*WEG*

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