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North Carolina... where art thou subs? - 7/25/2006 12:34:10 PM   
rangerphantom


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Status: offline 		I have been looking online, and descretly in my area and i have foud NOONE into this. If they are then they are hiding really well. IF anyone has some advice about how to find people or if you live in NC, PLEASE HELP ME!!

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RE: North Carolina... where art thou subs? - 7/25/2006 12:36:44 PM   
babygirl005


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Joined: 5/3/2005
Status: offline 		If you put your search setting on North Carolina, you will see quite a few subs/slaves here on Collarme. 

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RE: North Carolina... where art thou subs? - 7/25/2006 12:43:37 PM   
Elegant


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Status: offline 		Search harder. There are some fabulous groups in and around your area including Shelby, Hickory and the Triad. South Carolina has active groups also.

CAPEX (Charlotte Area Power Exchange) is a very active group: http://www.capex.info/

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RE: North Carolina... where art thou subs? - 7/25/2006 12:46:35 PM   
gypsyssoul


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From: Balti., Maryland, living in Summerville SC
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hello neighbor ...
:: giggles
maybe all the subs went ..
south ...
get it south carolina here ...
anyhow .. i was joking dont' hate
good luck and try changing your settings ..
all of us can't be in the south ??
 
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RE: North Carolina... where art thou subs? - 7/25/2006 1:22:48 PM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		Being from North Carolina myself.. an only say.. we're everywhere...LOL

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RE: North Carolina... where art thou subs? - 7/25/2006 2:17:47 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline 		Unfortunately, with you being 18, finding groups to participate in is very hard. I know of only two groups in the state that welcome 18-21. These groups are MAsT:Triad, NC (Masters And slaves Together) and TNG (The Next Generation) in Raleigh. You might have some luck at a fetish/goth night at a Purgatory show. If you would like contact info for either of the two real time groups, let me know. The Purgatory website is here: http://www.purgatory-theshow.com/

Also, if you want to attract serious subs/slaves, take some time and make a real effort to fill out your profile, including a picture.

Master Fire

< Message edited by MasterFireMaam -- 7/25/2006 2:18:46 PM >

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RE: North Carolina... where art thou subs? - 7/25/2006 5:54:24 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


Posts: 2464
Joined: 1/26/2006
From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		Theres alot in NC. Just have to look and be patient. We are here. I promise.

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RE: North Carolina... where art thou subs? - 7/26/2006 8:41:55 AM   
rangerphantom


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Status: offline 		Thanx you all for your advice!
PhAnToM

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RE: North Carolina... where art thou subs? - 7/26/2006 10:02:00 AM   
LotusSong


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Joined: 7/2/2006
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Status: offline 		A picture in your profile would help.  List something about yourself in your profile that would show why you would be a good master. You do have the age factor against you so you will need to give them something that shows some kind of credibility.  Sorry to say that, but it's a fact and I'm not known for my tact or PCness.  However, I am very sincere in trying to help. 

I know our youth is maturing earlier theses days, but I know I'd have a caution about someone who claims he is a Dom that pubed only 6 years ago.

Seriously, all kidding aside- where you will meet submissives is at munches.  Clubs can be a source for women mainly, guys have a rough time.
Do think it through. If you were a sub, what would attract you to you by reading what you have in your profile?  Talk yourself up.. treat it like a resume. 

Too much bravado will make you seem arrogant; too much humbleness will make you seem weak.  Just speak your heart. Tell them what you do know for sure, what you would like to learn and experience. I'm sure that there are other young people looking for a starting point and you can work together.  No one is born knowing this stuff.

My Slave had 6 years experience under his belt when he met me.  I was starting out.  HE knew what to look for and found me ...  we learned together... he advised me...not TAUGHT me     :)

Good luck to  you.

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RE: North Carolina... where art thou subs? - 7/27/2006 6:02:34 PM   
beenwhipped


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Status: offline 		there are quite a few subs round here. but, yes, you being 18 will make it harder because most of the physical groups require that you be 21+.

maybe you should try joining some of the mailing lists. another option if you can make it up to Raleigh a group called Dirge Factory has a event every 4th sunday in the month at a club called Undergound that you can get in. quite often you will see rope bondage (and Nef is good at what he does) and S&M (you will see me there taking my monthly punishment) with plenty of subs from the area hanging out www.dirge-factory.com its perfered that you go in fetish wear

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