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Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 12:47:52 PM   
MIslostsoul


Posts: 43
Joined: 7/23/2006
Status: offline 		 i created a new profile to reflect my new status, which is that of a collard and owned slave. my profile says nothing insulting of anyone and only states what my purpose is in my Master's life.

Some of you will remember me i was orginally lostsoul.
a 18 year old Dominate female sends me a message saying that she hopes i find a female who kills me and spares what is left of "Our" good name.

Who are these children to be so rude and vile as to approach strangers and say things like this.
I do not know or have i ever seen this  "child" before.
It is extremely disturbing to see things like this.

I am not angry just concerned that with those like this there will be very bad incidents were someone will wind up hurt.
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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 12:50:17 PM   
MIslostsoul


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Status: offline 		Oh yes who is "OUR" any way? She is a Dominate and i am a slave so we are two entirely different classes all together.

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 12:51:00 PM   
Estring


Posts: 3314
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		I think it is very rare that online insults will lead to anything more. Just delete and forget. 

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 12:51:19 PM   
stef


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Joined: 1/26/2004
Status: offline 		Just block them and move on.  Why create more needless drama?

~stef

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 12:52:02 PM   
Cloudz


Posts: 836
Joined: 9/13/2005
Status: offline 		Let it go...the insults are only as powerful as you let them be.

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 12:52:43 PM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		Did you report the email to the mods?

Other than ignore it, there's not much else one can do online.

I'm sorry you got this email. Some folks just love to insult others probably because they lack self-esteem and these small bites make them feel good for a few seconds. Some folks want to get a fight going.

Ignore them both if you can. That prevents the second group from getting what they want and you can't stop the first cause they all ready got their few seconds of pathetic joy.


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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 12:55:05 PM   
gooddogbenji


Posts: 5094
Joined: 11/15/2005
From: Toronto
Status: offline 		I LOVE INSULTING STRANGERS!!!

But seriously, block, delete.

Yours,


benji

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 12:57:57 PM   
crouchingtigress


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From: Maui
Status: offline 		c'mon that is just silly!!! people like that need to eat more cakes.... 

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 1:00:43 PM   
gypsyssoul


Posts: 127
Joined: 5/19/2006
From: Balti., Maryland, living in Summerville SC
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some people have to hurt . .. to make up for their own short cummings
.. i get alot of hate mail for being wiccan
but the truth is .. just click ignore and delete ..
most don't have the courage to continue the hate
they just vent .. rant .. blow steam and die ..
like a little bubble full of smoke
 
i wish you the best ..
and congrates on being happy
~~blessings


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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 1:01:52 PM   
thetammyjo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

c'mon that is just silly!!! people like that need to eat more cakes....


Too warm here for cake, I'd take ice cream myself.

But then I don't need either cause I don't go around randomly insulting folks.

Or maybe I eat enough cake and ice cream all ready.

Hmmm....mmmmm....

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And my LJ where I post fiction in progress if you "friend" me at http://thetammyjo.livejournal.com/

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 1:03:52 PM   
MIslostsoul


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Status: offline 		Yes i did all of the above but she is local to me and now W/we have to be careful when at munches just in case she sees me in public. I have seen things like this happen in California when i lived there.

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 1:04:28 PM   
angelic


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Status: offline 		~fast reply~ i agree with reporting it.  Regardless of who or what says that sort of thing, o/l or r/l, it is STILL disturbing.  (Just my opinion of course). 

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 1:06:52 PM   
babygirl005


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MIslostsoul

Yes i did all of the above but she is local to me and now W/we have to be careful when at munches just in case she sees me in public. I have seen things like this happen in California when i lived there.


When I see posts like this, I wonder what world are they living in? It's like a bad soap opera.
Estring

< Message edited by babygirl005 -- 7/25/2006 1:10:00 PM >

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 1:08:59 PM   
thetammyjo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MIslostsoul

Yes i did all of the above but she is local to me and now W/we have to be careful when at munches just in case she sees me in public. I have seen things like this happen in California when i lived there.


You could follow up on what Crouchtigress said and get her a piece of cake and offer it to her when you see her with a nice comment about how you think she may need this. Then just ignore her after that.

Opps, I think I just suggested a nasty thing to do.

Just ignore her. Ask your owner to get between her and you if you run into her and both of you ignore her.

If you even see her. I'd be surprised if someone that nasty lasted long in a community -- or she'd become the leader of some tiny group of her own.

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Love, Peace, Hugs, Kisses, Whips & Chains,

TammyJo

Check out my website at http://www.thetammyjo.com Or www.tammyjoeckhart.com

And my LJ where I post fiction in progress if you "friend" me at http://thetammyjo.livejournal.com/

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 1:10:48 PM   
angelic


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Status: offline 		ok wait... now i am confused... she is or is not a stranger?

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 1:13:27 PM   
KennelDeSade2


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Status: offline 		The only opinions that matter, are those of the people you respect.  The rest, ignore and block.

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 1:16:23 PM   
crouchingtigress


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Joined: 3/19/2006
From: Maui
Status: offline 		and maybe that is why you are so smart!

quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

c'mon that is just silly!!! people like that need to eat more cakes....


Too warm here for cake, I'd take ice cream myself.

But then I don't need either cause I don't go around randomly insulting folks.

Or maybe I eat enough cake and ice cream all ready.

Hmmm....mmmmm....


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This is him

"Its none of my buisness what other people think of me."




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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 1:35:08 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KennelDeSade2

The only opinions that matter, are those of the people you respect.  The rest, ignore and block.
I have to agree with Kennel on this..I understand your concerns as far as meeting in meatlife..but believe me cowards like that 99.99% of the time can only be brave enough to approach in the shadows of the internet not in a face to face confrontation....be well ...Tempting

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 1:51:35 PM   
MIslostsoul


Posts: 43
Joined: 7/23/2006
Status: offline 		I know of her but we have never met in person. This is the first time she has contacted me on here. I asked others from our local community about her and was told that she is a bit cracked. She has caused trouble in munches before so it just makes me very leary.

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RE: Being insulted by strangers on this site - 7/25/2006 2:06:17 PM   
Alumbrado


Posts: 5560
Status: offline 		There is something seriously out of kilter if the community lets an 18 year troublemaker old go around spouting off about wanting people dead because of their lifestyle choices. 

If she is playing a more convoluted game than that, then welcome to the wonderful world of people in 'communities'.  And the sooner you learn to ignore them, the easier you will have it. 

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