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respectmen -> RE: Don't They Enjoy It? (3/25/2017 2:46:40 PM)
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You can feel that way if you like. If the receiver of the email doesn't feel that it's ok, the email still isn't going to get answered. That's not a gender thing. It's an individual preference thing.
The receiver also misses out in an opportunity that could have been a winner if they didn't have a bug up their ass.
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I don't know if you keep missing this on purpose because you think it fits your agenda or not. Especially with the problems the site has had recently, hiding a person's profile would also mean missing the friendly exchanges that people want to have with forum participants through email. It shouldn't be a case of a person having to sacrifice those emails just to prevent the emails they don't want. You wouldn't suggest that people shut down their yahoo email just because they didn't want to receive/respond to spam, would you?
I don't know if you miss this on purpose or not but when your profile is hidden, that doesn't stop you from emailing others. When you do email others while hidden, they can email you back.
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You've banged on about this long enough, too. The only person who keeps saying that 99% of male subs are evil is you. What people did say on the thread that was linked elsewhere was that 99% of the cold messaging/first contact emails that people get were not from people the receivers saw as potential partners. Not because of your constant groaning about how Domme women see most men as not good enough, but because of very logical factors like location, age, marital status, and so on. Having kink X in common doesn't supersede those factors for most people.
A quick example where I remember the most.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_5008409/mpage_6/tm.htm
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I never said that I don't get any quality messages. I said that it's maybe one percent, which is one out of every hundred. My experience is very similar to that of most other women on these sites, whether Domme or sub. I have been here since last summer.
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She didn't say 99 percent but most...which is nearly as bad and which is the opinion for many others on here.
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Actually it is bullshit. It doesn't matter what you label yourself as, you'll get the same crap messages from ALL labeled men when you are a woman. I'm a switch, I have always stated that I am not looking, when I had my playmate it clearly stated I didn't play with others, I clearly state now that I don't want the messages, and yet I get them from Doms, subs, and slaves that are all the same crap that has been mentioned. It's just the theme that changes. Get on your knees, bitch ... Dom, or I'm a Dom, but I'd be your sub if you'd do XYZ to me. Hi Mistress, I love XYZ, I want, I want IIIIIIIIIIIIIII, ... sub. I'd let you nail my balls to the table, I'll suck your toes, I love high heels, will you walk on my back? ... slave. Even though I've also very specifically stated that even if I were to be looking, I wouldn't want ANY of them, because I'd want another switch, just like me. The shear fact is that many men see a FEMALE on these sites and instantly think with their dicks. All they see us as is the fetish delivery system, no matter who we are, or in most cases what we actually want. It's all about them. Then you get other men in here constantly bleating on about how bad women are. If they had to put up with the crap we do, they may just realise why.
You do get some really polite men, and I had a Dom mail me the other day just to say he hoped I enjoyed the forums, and that he thought I wore a collar well. These though are far and few between the rest of the dross. Again, I'm not looking, so I dread to think what the inboxes of those that are look like.
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I said that 99 percent of messages I get are crap, same as most other women. To be fair, maybe it's more like 98 percent.
I could pick out many more posts in different threads and posts that indicate most men or the vast majority of men being terrible people. But it would be too time consuming to dig them all up.
seekingOwnertoo
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Respectman ... your logic and reasoning totally escape me. I have no idea what a job or profession has to do with a man desiring a fetish delivery system.
I'm sorry that you're too dumb to notice the obvious which has been thoroughly explained. I will write this in crayon for you.
Both a pro domme and a male looking for a fetish deliver system are treating others less than human.
People excuse the pro dommes for doing so but not men looking for a fetish delivery system.
The reason why, pro dommes do it for money. My response, so what? Men do it for pleasure. How does doing it for money make it a justification over doing it for pleasure?
I know this is a random analogy. Anyway, using this same ridiculous so called logic, we can compare two people doing some type of ill to another...like walking up to somebody and punching them in the face. One person does it for money, the other does it for pleasure. So should we give the person who does it for money a pass simply because they are doing it for money? How is that any better than doing it for pleasure? See how that makes absolutely no sense but people try to make it seem that it does make sense when comparing pro dommes to men who want a fetish delivery system?
Both people are treating the other less than human and one gets excused because they are doing it for money.
My whole point is that both parties should be excused as they are just as entitled to be here compared to everyone else. My problem is that people are always sticking up and protecting pro dommes in these forums while totally slamming men who want a fetish deliver system and why? Because they aren't treating women as people, as human beings...the exact thing that pro dommes are doing.
It's either you're too dumb to understand or you'll be intellectually dishonest and make feeble excuses for the hypocrisy like many others have in here.
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