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babyboyk -> worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 9:37:38 AM)

i was wondering what the worst thing a Dom/me can do to His/Her sub/slave. for me, i hate the cane, but, i have learnt to respect it, as i know ill get it , if i missbehave badly. just wondering what other peoples thoughts are on this topic.
babyboyk




txpet -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 9:41:03 AM)

For me the worst thing is being ignored




sweetnurseBBW -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 9:52:30 AM)

To lie. If you are talking about punishment, that would be to be ignored for me also.




Sparr0w -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 9:58:52 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: babyboyk

i was wondering what the worst thing a Dom/me can do to His/Her sub/slave. for me, i hate the cane, but, i have learnt to respect it, as i know ill get it , if i missbehave badly. just wondering what other peoples thoughts are on this topic.
babyboyk


Being ignored without reason




juliaoceania -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 10:53:15 AM)

Telling me I have disappointed him is the worst discipline he could give me. He doesn't punish me, he disciplines me.




lanwolf -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 10:55:53 AM)

The worst thing would be getting sent to the corner and ignored.




LaTigresse -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 11:06:53 AM)

Very cool thread, I am interested to see if my thoughts will be similar.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 11:07:04 AM)

If you're talking punishment, the most common "worst" ones are being ignored or knowing you've disappointed- whether those are the most effective punishments is another question altogether.

These threads all asked the same question:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_43928/mpage_1/key_worst%252Cpunishment/tm.htm#43928
Punishment

http://www.collarchat.com/m_60633/mpage_1/key_worst%252Cpunishment/tm.htm#60633
Physical punishment?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_486353/mpage_1/key_worst%252Cpunishment/tm.htm#486353
worst corporal punishment




Mercnbeth -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 11:27:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: babyboyk

...i was wondering what the worst thing a Dom/me can do to His/Her sub/slave....
 
the absolute worst is a toss-up between these two:
 
1.  Lack of respect:
rationalizing the disrespect of their sub/slave by playing the "because I am the Dom/me" card.
 
2.  Lack of Integrity:
misrepresenting themselves or their intentions thereby leading/fooling the sub/slave to believe that the relationship is something that it really isn't--either in the beginning or as time has gone by.
 
this slave doesn't consider punishment or discipline in degrees of "best" or "worst" in that Master is the one who chooses the implement and the method "best" for the situation that needs to be addressed.




crouchingtigress -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 12:18:14 PM)

having angry outbursts and worse blaming the sub
 
not living up to his end of the bargain lapsing financially or emotionally or structurally
 
not being consistent, setting a rule and not following up
 
not holding the slave accountable for errors and missjudgemnts
 
not being honest.
 









hisforever -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 12:20:16 PM)

Not keeping to his word.




kittensmailbox -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 12:40:18 PM)

Die




gooddogbenji -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 12:57:31 PM)

Murder-suicide, in my opinion, although if it's a quick death for the slave, it's not that bad either. Perhaps a slow, painful poisoning after shooting herself?  Something like that...

Yours,


benji




SpankMuhButt -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 1:05:28 PM)

Becomming not so important any longer and being put on the back burner. it sucks




SusanofO -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 1:24:17 PM)

benji, you've been reading too many posts penned by Sadists, LOL! [:D]

- Susan




gooddogbenji -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 1:35:48 PM)

Turns out, I come up with these things on my own.....  someone recently told me I'm a switch...  LOL

Yours,


benji




SusanofO -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 1:49:41 PM)

benji:Uh oh. The world is truly in trouble now![:D]  [;)]Or - maybe just really lucky?! 

- Susan




MasterRobsalayna -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 3:30:30 PM)

1.  Not being honest with alayna, which to alayna's knowledge hasn't happened.
2.  Taking Himself away from alayna - being ignored.  Aweful, painful.




littleone35 -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 3:31:56 PM)

The worst thing he could do would be to release me.  He said that is never gonna happen so i do not worry about it.

Matt's littleoone




tangria -> RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do (7/26/2006 3:54:54 PM)

the worst thing---lie........or not keep a promise or be true to your word----all the same thing really in my eyes. because for me trust is the be-all and end-all in a relationship and once it is breached, the seeds of discontent and uneasiness take root. lieing usually has signalled the beginning of the end in most of my relationships.




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