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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/23/2006 3:07:33 PM   
joyinslavery


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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/23/2006 4:26:57 PM   
LTRsubNW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: babyboyk

i was wondering what the worst thing a Dom/me can do to His/Her sub/slave. for me, i hate the cane, but, i have learnt to respect it, as i know ill get it , if i missbehave badly. just wondering what other peoples thoughts are on this topic.
babyboyk



I've found that the worst thing a Domme can do to a sub is to say:

"Don't come back"

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/23/2006 6:20:26 PM   
Donnalee


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quote:

Mercnbeth...
1.  Lack of respect:
rationalizing the disrespect of their sub/slave by playing the "because I am the Dom/me" card.


A close second is rationalizing the lack of common curtesy for the same reason.

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/23/2006 6:52:48 PM   
LadyDiamond


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Status: offline 		The worst things that can be done to me that I've learned about myself so far are.
1) Not being honest (nothing like finding out about the wife, girlfriend or kids until later)
2) Being ignored
3) Being abandoned (This is a very big one for me)

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/23/2006 7:20:29 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Turns out, I come up with these things on my own.....  someone recently told me I'm a switch...  LOL

Yours,


benji


No, no, no!  You need to read the whole sentence.  What you were told is that you NEED a switch(ing).

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/24/2006 5:48:59 PM   
xhoneyx


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Status: offline 		i think the worst thing someone can do to me is be disappointed in me..

i can tell in their demeanor, facial expressions and body language..it makes me feel as though all vibrancy and life has been sucked out of the moment..

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/24/2006 6:27:03 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		I keep seeing this thread pop up and it disturbs me every time it does.  I would much rather focus on all the wonderful things Master does.  I don't know why the title of this thread rubs me so wrong, but it does.

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/24/2006 7:43:00 PM   
bluessss


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Status: offline 		The worst thing my ex-dom did to me was to not think about or even consider my needs before, during or after a session.  If it happened only once I could understand.  But  for it to happen several times was just selfish of him. As soon as he would cum session ended and there I was left hanging.  LOL and aftercare.   Only once in the time we were meeting did I ever receive aftercare.  How can a "dom" act like this but tell you what a good girl you were and that you turned him on like no other sub?  Is this common????  If it is that's very sad.

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/25/2006 4:11:34 PM   
millisande


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The worst thing that Master could do to this one would be to release her from His collar.
Short of that, Ignoring herfor and extended period of time. Or, on the same level, whip her far past her pain/pleasure threshhold(which is rather low), for an extended period of time. Generally, He uses the later of those two methods.

With all respect, and in hopes that this is pleasing to the Free,
bina, of Wolf


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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/25/2006 5:49:49 PM   
maledave777


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Status: offline 		I feel the worst is either getting yell at or being ignored.

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/26/2006 2:07:07 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		greetings littleone
 
also watch out for you some of the world famous have been let go in the vanilla ways.
watch out always try to protect you heart i love a man once and i swore he would never leave me i thougth his love was all, if the sun had fallen from the sky it did not matter i knew he would be there to help me, i trust him with my life, the sun set and rasied with him smiling at me i was so in love i can not explain my wonder and lust for him i would sit at his feet and wonder " why does this man love me i was younger and so naive but i love him so much. my tale of cautious is one that is real. we were speaking of marriage i was his fcaniie and then i became pregant oh to me i was so happy but then time move i did not see what was before my eyes then he would act different strange i was showing he did not like to touch me i was in shock i did not know but he had done the same thing to another woman. he left me without a word we pick names for the baby and he took me shopping for clothes. i do know he love me he was not man nor mature enough to handle a baby but he was jealous so much so that i thought he would ijure. i will tell you little one you love that person so and know he will not leave you but always proect and watch out for you first it is something many woman slave or submissive or vanilla should always do know what is in the bank if you can know what he has if you can it is something many of the submissive and slave do not understand.
 
littleone i still love this man after all of the years that pass. he did come back but was so mean i had to protect my son's emotional mind he wanted to do it harm some woman will forget the child just to have the man not me my child always comes first he lose the war when he try to mind fuck my son hurtful but never again
 
so my tale is watch out for you
 
mons

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/26/2006 11:18:07 AM   
Steelriven


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Status: offline 		Dishonesty... Ignore me, up and dissapear. Become un accepting of who I am. As far as punishment/diclipline? Extream pain, or degradtion.

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/26/2006 11:45:15 AM   
Steelriven


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Status: offline 		Hmm and this is why our exes are our exes I suppose hehe. My ex did the same thing to me.

quote:

ORIGINAL: bluessss

The worst thing my ex-dom did to me was to not think about or even consider my needs before, during or after a session.  If it happened only once I could understand.  But  for it to happen several times was just selfish of him. As soon as he would cum session ended and there I was left hanging.  LOL and aftercare.   Only once in the time we were meeting did I ever receive aftercare.  How can a "dom" act like this but tell you what a good girl you were and that you turned him on like no other sub?  Is this common????  If it is that's very sad.

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/26/2006 1:14:08 PM   
DivaDuchess


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Status: offline 		I've had slaves tell me when I give them that LOOK and then turn away.  I don't do that often, only when the offense is very bad.  My goal is not to injure permanently and psychological harm does a great deal more than a bruise that will heal.

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/28/2006 1:08:06 PM   
midnyt


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Status: offline 		when Master lets me know i have dissapointed him, and when i am ignored. this kills me. i will even cry. it hurts me that i have upset Him. thank goodness it doesnt happen often.

< Message edited by midnyt -- 8/28/2006 1:09:38 PM >

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/28/2006 1:11:37 PM   
MissUnleaded


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Neglect/ignoring.

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 8/30/2006 9:17:59 AM   
babyboyk


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Status: offline 		for me, the worst thing that can happen, is to be ignored-that goes the same in every day life as well

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 9/1/2006 3:35:03 AM   
youngslavegirl82


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From: Norway
Status: offline 		The worst thing for her is if Master ignores her and keeps silent  because she has done something to displease Him. It has not happened often, but she hates it when it happens.

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 9/3/2006 1:22:33 AM   
slave4Darby3d


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Status: offline 		the worst is a trifecta:  leave me, send me away or lie to me.

your results may vary...

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RE: worst thing your Dom/me can do - 9/3/2006 11:07:23 PM   
kamini


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Status: offline 		ignornance and lies are the worse thing,  when they start doing this, bin them and move on.

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