freedomdwarf1
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ORIGINAL: tamaka quote:
ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote:
Most people have more character and integrity than you. They absolutely don't. That remark missed by a mile, tamaka. So you're saying Peon that the whole of the bdsm community is just out to get their rocks off and don't care about the welfare of those they engage with? And they don't have any deeper relationships than just playing with each other. Actually, tamaka, unless people are emotionally involved with those they kink with, most people are in it for shits and giggles and nothing more. Seriously..... they aren't. And no, not the whole of the BDSM community; that would be a stupid sweeping statement to make. But I can tell you that the majority are in it for no more than just fun and games. Not everyone uses BDSM for deep and meaningful relationships. That doesn't mean they care any less for each other while they play either. But equally well, it's not all serious set-in-stone style of living like a marriage could be. If that's how you perceive it to be, that's on you. Most other people treat it somewhat differently and you need to accept that.
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