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Leonidas -> RE: Just Stewing... (12/9/2004 9:24:58 AM)
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FelinePersuasion Said:
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And E string If all you can see is my my god she's fat NEXT, like most guys here. you'll be passing up who could very well be exactly what you need weight issues aside. Apearance is NEVER an indication about how good a sub she could be for you. What she can do and can offer is on the inside NOT in the aperance.
A certain amount of what men find asthetically pleasing in the female form is cultual bias, but more and more, behavioral scientists are coming to understand that to a certain degree the preference for a woman that appears to be fit and nubile is "hard-wired" in men, and as much to do with how we evolved as a species as the dictates of Vogue magazine. I'm going to have to differ with you here, Feline. If the way the woman looks (or could look with proper training) is not sexually interesting to EString, she's probably not the right sub for him, all her other attributes aside. Trying to shame EString into going along with that notion is just counterproductive. If he did go along, he'd just end up with a sub with which he was less than satisfied, and the sub would end up in the humilliating position of watching his eyes wander whenever a woman he did find physicallly interesting came into view.
Suleiman Said:
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That, actually, is my point exactly. It IS a form of extreme body mod, but more often than not the twits who make these demands(not all, but far FAR too many) do not take that into consideration. There are serious health and lifestyle factors involved in losing (and not regaining) even a few pounds, much less the several inches that would normally garner a comment like this.
I couldn't agree with you more. I have never, ever, put a slave on a diet. I change how they eat, and live. I just got back from supervising my slave in her morning physical training. I'll be supervising her again when she does her cardio tonight. She eats 5 times a day, in small portions only whole, unprocessed foods that are exactly balanced for ratios of protein/fat/carbs. She drinks lots of water, and no sugary drinks. She has the occasional treat, but only when she eats it from my hand. This isn't a diet. It's how she will be living from now on. It's what is natural for human beings, and so she'll start looking like a natural human being before long, rather than someone who is being feed-lotted by the processed food industry.
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*Note to Suleiman.. A while ago I read an article in Consumers' Report about weight loss. They said that losing weight was as big a health risk as being overweight. (as someone who has lost a significant amount of weight 3 times in my life, this troubles me) They noted that some people died after losing a lot of weight. They suggested that if one was overweight, they should not yo-yo, but to exercise and be fit at whatever weight they were.
Losing weight (if you are carrying too much) is never unhealthy. It's the things that people do to lose weight (usually in the attempt at a "quick fix") that are unhealthy. The lose/gain cycle that you have been through is especially hard on the body. If you lose by starving yourself, you'll lose muscle mass (and possibly even organ tissue) along with the fat. If you then gain weight again without exercising, do you think the muscle comes back? Nope. Everytime you gain/lose your ratio of fat to lean tips a little more toward fat.
I'm sorry, but "exercise and be fit at whatever weight you are" is just an appologist rationalization for getting a little more exercise, but still eating poorly. If you exercise and eat properly (forever, not just for a few weeks), your body will gradually reach an optimal composition (fat/muscle ratio) based on your genetics. Some women are genetically disposed to be heavy, but for the vast majority of north american women, that's not the case. The "horomone imbalances" that many blame weight issues upon aren't genetically predetermined, they're the result of a sedintary life and a poor diet. On the subject, something that you won't find in a "get fit" book for women, but which is very relevant, are your hormone levels. Regular, vigorous sexual use, and regular orgasm (given to you by a man, self-diddling doesn't count) will do more to balance you than what the pharmacutical giants are pushing this week. Give it a try, you may prefer it.
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