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DaddySatyr -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 11:12:18 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

No he isnt a genius, using religious ideology to cut his chance of being tempted is simply an attempt to put women back in the kitchen. we wont go back to the fifties, or a religious doctrine designed to make women the fault of mens ignorance.



Wow! You almost sound angry, there.

I don't see it as an attempt to "put women back in the kitchen". In fact, on that thread, I made the point that he can work late with women, all the time because I haven't heard about any shortage of Secret Service agents and, ostensibly, if they're in a restaurant, they're not alone, either.

I would think the self-imposed edict actually only refers to "dinner" meetings in the office or someplace with that level of privacy; the key word being: "alone".

Either way, no one's going to hang a false accusation on him. Is that what's got you angry, maybe?







Lucylastic -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 12:51:02 PM)

of course you dont see it
LOL no one would expect you to.
you assume anger...project much?




bounty44 -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 1:35:30 PM)

to go from the wisdom of "I wont be alone with women in certain situations" to the feminazi hyperbole of "its an attempt to put women back in the kitchen" is a gross perversion of logic.




Lucylastic -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 1:38:12 PM)

And why you dont understand what feminism is.
I wouldnt expect you to see it either




bounty44 -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 1:39:23 PM)

I understand feminism very well, and feminazism too.

one doesn't "see it" because it doesn't exist except in your evangelical right wing as bogeyman delusion.




Lucylastic -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 1:40:47 PM)

no you dont




bounty44 -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:13:05 PM)

have said this before, and probably very specifically to you, outside of what little gets printed here on the screen, and extremely very little of that having anything to do with feminism, you have absolutely no idea what I know or really what I believe or what my experiences are.

that precludes you from being justified in saying "no you don't."

that that actually has to be pointed out to you goes a long way towards a critique on your ability to think.




MasterDrakk -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:22:03 PM)

but you pretend we cant see the stupid shit you post, post after post, day in, day out, in every post. so no one is precluded from knowing that you arent at all intelligent, you are not well read, you havent any facts at hand ever, and post and repost the same simpering slobbering doggerel from other imbeciles as your version of an origiinal pearl of great price.





Lucylastic -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:24:49 PM)

Because you put shit out like that
Your very posts tell me what you understand about feminism. a whole lot of bullshit is what it tells me.
let alone your attitude.

You can accuse me of being a feminazi, it wouldnt be the first time, but you call it wrongly every time, with hyperbole and bullshit.
I dont care to discuss it with you because you are incapable. Short of having to justify anything to anybody, justification or not is not a gauge on my ability to think.
You are a waste of time, except to point it out.




bounty44 -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:26:24 PM)

blah blah blah....sorry comrades. well, not really.




Lucylastic -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:29:30 PM)

blah blah bla nothingness again. from bounty.




bounty44 -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:32:27 PM)

already told you everything that needed to be said comrade---but to repeat something that apparently didn't sink in the first time---that you have to have that pointed out to you tells us something about your ability to think.

rail on...and find someone else for the senseless bickering.




Lucylastic -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:34:38 PM)


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ORIGINAL: bounty44

already told you everything that needed to be said comrade---but to repeat something that apparently didn't sink in the first time---that you have to have that pointed out to you tells us something about your ability to think.

rail on...

you dont get to decide whats needed to be said, scum on, scum




bounty44 -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:43:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr


FR:

I was thinking back to a thread, some time ago where people were pissing and moaning about Vice President Pence not being willing to eat dinner with anyone not his wife, when alone.

I forget the thread name and can't seem to find it, but I am almost positive that I (kind of) made this point, then.

Don't all the new allegations of sexual misconduct flying about, these days make Pence out to be a genius? I think it does. It's now been "established" that he's not alone with females as a rule so, even false accusations become tough to float.

I need to find that thread.



http://www.collarchat.com/m_5016868/mpage_1/tm.htm




bounty44 -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:44:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aylee

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

He is taking precautions because he fear he might be weak.



No. In private, that's what the HR Representative tells any man.

Dave Ramsey has similar personal protocols around women who aren't his wife, including refusing to be on an elevator alone with another woman. I don't blame him one bit. It's not Sharia - it's making yourself lawsuit and blackmail proof. Male doctors typically do the same with female patients as well.


The HR people want women back in the kitchen! barefoot and pregnant!

so do doctors!

so does aylee!




bounty44 -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:46:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: Aylee
No. In private, that's what the HR Representative tells any man.

Dave Ramsey has similar personal protocols around women who aren't his wife, including refusing to be on an elevator alone with another woman. I don't blame him one bit. It's not Sharia - it's making yourself lawsuit and blackmail proof. Male doctors typically do the same with female patients as well.

My x-boss who was male and married and American also practiced such protocol. Like no matter what, he will never be alone in his office with a female staff. He openly say, this is the policy to prevent any false "sexual harrassment" accusation. Obviously he has been burnt in the past.

So he announced the policy to let every female know, that if they have having a one on one with him, his PA will always have to be present too. No real one on one. No really private meetings with women.

And yes, this means male employees get private one on one with him, but not females.

But I don't begrudge that rule as he is protecting himself. One false sexual harassment accusation with police report would mess up his life alot.


greta's ex-boss wants women back in the kitchen! barefoot and pregnant! "bring me a beer woman!"




MasterDrakk -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:47:01 PM)

Well, they can just accuse him rightfully so of being a horor of a human being in all his other positions, and falsehoods.




bounty44 -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:50:25 PM)

go practice your impotence somewhere else mnottertroll.

"In Sleazy DC, Mike Pence's Respect For His Wife and Professional Women Should Be Applauded"

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Yesterday the Washington Post published a story about Vice President Mike Pence and his relationship with his wife, Karen Pence. The big headline? He won't eat alone with women who aren't his wife and will not attend parties serving alcohol without her.

"In 2002, Mike Pence told the Hill that he never eats alone with a woman other than his wife and that he won’t attend events featuring alcohol without her by his side, either," the Post reported.

Cue the meltdown. This, somehow, has been twisted as "extreme," with some on the left comparing his actions to Sharia Law. In actuality Pence is smart and does a service not only to his wife, but to professional women working inside the Beltway. His decision to err on the side of respect has certainly paid off.

Before becoming the governor of Indiana in 2013, Mike Pence served as a U.S. Congressman for over a decade. With his wife by his side and a clean personal record, his career has taken him all the way to the White House.

Washington D.C. is often a sleazy, filthy town. The stories you hear about smoky backrooms are true. Go to any D.C. restaurant at happy hour and you'll see scores of married men surrounded by and engaged inappropriately with younger women who are not their wives. This city is a place where a small, but vicious and significant population of men and women crave power. They will stop at almost nothing to get it, which includes breaking up marriages. There are 50,000 Ashley Madison accounts with a D.C. address, making the nation's capitol number four in the country for infidelity. Right across the river and bordering D.C. is Arlington, Virginia, which comes in at number five.

In 2001 Vanity Fair published a piece called Meanwhile on Capitol Hill, detailing this behavior from women and their male enablers on Capitol Hill .

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In the wake of the Clinton and Condit intern scandals, you’d think Washington men would be wary of chasing young women, even ones as charming and alluring as Diana. You’d be wrong.

The Capitol buildings ooze sexual tension. The excitement begins once you pass the security guards. The windowless white marble corridors are a labyrinth in which you are isolated from the outside world. A “bubble” is how Diana puts it.

In the corridors you can hear little pump heels tap-tapping for miles, so predators know when the prey is coming; suddenly a congressman swings out from his office, dressed and groomed like a James Bond villain, usually flanked by an assortment of aides, all clutching files with the congressional logos firmly facing out, to remind you you’re in the presence of power. The congressman stops and stares up, down. He takes his time.

“Hey,” he says in a soft drawl.

This happens again and again, even on the second floor of the Rayburn building, where Gary Condit’s office is located, a chair and a handful of media outside. But the office sits sepulchral and empty, its occupant has long since been moved to a secret location.

Diana gets checked out all the time. “It’s just blatant. They don’t make any effort about hiding it,” she says. “They’ll start out conversations in elevators in the morning: ‘How are you? Who do you work for? Oh, you’re new around here. What are you doing for lunch?’ It’s just very bizarre and very forward.”


Bill Clinton spent far too much time alone with women who were not his wife. Former Speaker Newt Gingrich is on wife No. 3 after spending ample time alone with other women in his office. Congressman Mark Sanford admitted to an affair in 2009 after visiting Argentina (where his now ex-wife did not live) enough times to spark suspicion. Biographer Paula Broadwell ended up cheating on her husband and two children with a married

General David Patraeus after intimate meetings over dinner.

The list goes on and on. Because of human nature, many long hours alone with the opposite sex leads to infidelity. We should accept this reality so we can avoid it.

And no, this isn't to say everyone living or working in Washington D.C. should be put into the same category as Newt Gingrich or Bill Clinton, but the point is that it exists and should be avoided at all costs. And by the way, it's never the men who suffer career consequences for this type of behavior--see Monica Lewinsky or Paula Broadwell, for reference.

With a huge target on his back, Pence made a decision to respect his wife and avoid even the appearance of scandal. In return, he inoculated himself against any hint of doubt arising if he were ever accused of having an affair by tabloids or even reputable newspapers. He does women working in his office a favor by not putting them into an awkward position like so many congressmen and D.C. types do.

"Hey, lets grab a drink tonight night and talk about work" and "Are you available for dinner Friday so we can go over some projects?" are typical lines fed to young women starting their careers by established men in DC with ulterior motives. The smart ones quickly realize after-hour dinner or drink meetings with the opposite sex oftentimes aren't really about work and that they should stick strictly to a booze-free lunch for professional meetings. Pence never put young women in the position to wonder what his motives were.

Men in general, but especially powerful men in public positions, should respect and learn from Pence's boundaries. This doesn't mean they have to make the same decisions about how to handle professional situations, but understanding why Pence behaves the way he does is helpful with navigation. He has enormous respect for his wife and the women he works with, which is why he chooses not to put any of them into a position that could be perceived as compromising.

Finally, finding a compatible, loving and respectful life-long partner is a miracle. Marriage should be aggressively guarded, especially in a society where divorce is rampant and infidelity is simply viewed as a "mistake" rather than a decision.

In Washington D.C., the stakes for marriage are high and tested often. Pence knows that and acts accordingly.


www.lucylovestownhall.com

Katie pavlich wants women back in the kitchen! er...wait...how does that work??




Lucylastic -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 2:57:21 PM)

And yet another piece of shit from the federalist./
All these voices worried about others morality, and feel just fine blaming women and "false accusers"
http://thefederalist.com/2017/11/28/justified-vote-morally-questionable-politician/
Why It’s Justified To Vote For A Morally Questionable Politician
Alabama Gov. Kay Ivey recently said she supports Senate candidate Roy Moore because “I believe in the Republican Party, what we stand for, and most important, we need to have a Republican in the United States Senate to vote on things like Supreme Court justices, other appointments the Senate has to confirm, and make major decisions.”

She said this despite admitting that the accusations of sexual abuse against Moore from 40 years ago have some credibility. Social conservatives’ response to Ivey has been harsh, as critics argue that putting Moore in the Senate for the greater political or judicial good is bad for the GOP and the country.

This complaint is nothing new, as it was fervently repeated after sexual misconduct accusations against Donald Trump surfaced just before the election. Many chose to vote for Trump because they considered his governing characteristics, which were more conservative and morally acceptable than Hillary Clinton’s, as more important than his personal moral failings—true or not.

Character Is Important, But Not the Only Consideration
This attitude has horrified certain social conservatives, and their concern is not completely unfounded. After all, a man’s morality matters in any form of leadership, a point Richard Nixon, ironically, made in an ad for Barry Goldwater’s presidential campaign: “With all the power that a president has, the most important thing to bear in mind is this: You must not give power to a man unless, above everything else, he has character. Character is the most important qualification the president of the United States can have.” Calvin Coolidge simply said, “Character is the only secure foundation of the state.”

Those of us who voted for Trump would agree. Character does matter, and when two people are running for office, you need to take into account the character of both candidates as well as their values regarding governance and policy, for these reflect character as well. When making a decision about a candidate, the fullness of the person needs to be taken into account, not just one aspect, failing, or virtue, but the whole of the man or woman—his or her complete character.

Unfortunately, many social conservatives, and Christians in particular, treat secular leaders as if they’re spiritual leaders, as if any stain on their character, fault from their distant past, or even theological apostasy disqualifies them from political leadership. They seem to fear that the personal sinfulness of a man will bring about the ruin of an entire party or nation. How many times have we heard that the “vulgar” Trump will singlehandedly destroy the GOP, as if he’s a divine prophet rebelling against God’s holy decrees?

By erecting this standard, these critics come dangerously close to confusing the secular and the sacred, the city of man and the city of God. I would like to address this point in particular, not whether someone should vote for Moore. That is a matter of personal conscience and evaluation of the information that has been presented at this late hour just prior to an election.

Political Leaders Are Not Religious Leaders
Most, if not all, of the commentary in the Old and New Testaments on purity in leadership refers to Israel and the church, i.e., the city of God. Christians are God’s covenant people and, as covenant holders, they are obligated not to be covenant-breakers. Covenantal leaders are obligated to be righteous so they don’t lead God’s flock astray. Their morality is of primary significance, and the lack of it will bring devastation to the entire community.

Political leaders, however, are not spiritual leaders with the same responsibilities, burdens, and covenantal obligations of leaders within Scripture. This doesn’t mean we can willy-nilly vote for immoral men, because there are consequences to these kinds of choices in everyday secular life. But the prophetic gloom and doom that often comes from Christians who treat politicians as if they’re God’s covenantal leaders is completely inappropriate.

At its extreme, this kind of thinking leads to Christians concluding that they can only do business with other Christians, only have Christian doctors, only watch Christian films and listen to Christian music, only have Christian instructors and teachers, and only associate with other Christians, including not spending time with their pagan relatives. They imagine themselves as the Israelites of old, who were to “separate themselves from the ungodly” or receive God’s severe judgment as a nation.

Such Christians fail to see God’s work in the city of man and how it is different from the city of God. God uses, in this secular sphere, all kinds of “immoral” men and women to bring about his purposes for his church. He is actually rather utilitarian and pragmatic regarding the secular world.

God Uses Evil Men to Carry Out His Purposes
Just go back to the Old Testament and see how he used secular leaders. God employed foreign kings to bring about his purposes of rebuilding the holy site of Jerusalem. For example, King Cyrus of Persia helped the Jews with royal decrees and financing to construct the temple, and later foreign armies defended them.

The stories of Esther, Daniel, and Joseph are all full of God’s power being exercised through political leaders, revealing the difference between the secular and the sacred. Esther even allowed a man who was falsely accused of rape to meet his death because that was best for the Jewish people. The man had never touched her, but she allowed him to be falsely accused of sexual abuse because it was politically expedient—and it saved her people from death.

The Scriptures reveal how God used all sorts of things to fulfill his plans, including directing a dumb “ass” to rebuke his servant Balaam to open his eyes to God’s truth. God forbade his people from forming unholy alliances and intermarrying with foreigners, because this was true spiritual corruption, but he used pagan authorities, armies, and even religious people from foreign lands to execute his will. In Joshua, God’s people worked with a prostitute, and lies were even justified.

Today, God uses the “ungodly” as doctors, lawyers, teachers, and politicians. To vote for, associate with, or even advocate for a person working in the secular arena who will bring about the “greater good” despite being personally immoral, pagan, or the member of some “unapproved” Christian sect (as the Catholics once were in America) is justified. To refuse to do so out of fear of God’s judgment on our nation is fusing the city of man and the city of God in a way that God didn’t even do.

It also ignores that God’s purposes are manifest through fallen men, whether they’re in the church or in the world. Think of all the secular leaders we’ve had in America and consider their fallenness. Read the histrionics of Christians in the days of Alexander Hamilton and Thomas Jefferson over the “evil” men who were infecting our “holy nation.” Have we declined because of these fallen, deeply flawed leaders? Did we suffer as a nation for putting a Catholic in the presidency with John F. Kennedy? Some purist Christians would say “Yes!” Are they right? Did we suffer as a nation because, theologically (and morally) speaking, JFK was “unfit” for the presidency? I’d say no.

Every Single Political Choice Is about Tradeoffs
If we fall into decline as a culture, it’s not simply because of the personal moral failings of the men at the helm. It’s because of their lack of wisdom in leading a country in freedom. If we fail as a nation, it will be because of a combination of things, from the personal moral and practical failings of citizens themselves to the political, philosophical, and economic failings of those making policy.

When faced with the choice of who was better for our nation, not simply who was the morally better person as reported in the news, my choice was clear.
I did not choose to vote for Trump in the primaries, because his political views were not best for our nation as a free republic. His moral failings in his private life had no bearing. I am too wise to the world to assume that any man who gets to this level is clean and pure. I did vote for him in the general because his political views were best for our nation compared to Hillary’s. I do not regret this decision. When faced with the choice of who was better for our nation, not simply who was the morally better person as reported in the news, my choice was clear.

Am I concerned when I hear people saying morality doesn’t matter at all, as if we could put a complete miscreant in office and not care? Absolutely. I agree with Coolidge. Character matters! We are still moral people, human beings made in God’s image, and we should want people in power and even our associations who are good, moral, and upstanding. We will all be better for it.

This is logical and morally consistent, and I recognize the slippery slope that can come of what I’m writing here—“Why not put the devil himself on the throne if he offers liberty?” some might ask. I, of course, am not saying that, and I’m not talking about putting evil men in positions of power. Again, character, on the whole, matters.

However, the issue of “moral aptitude” is not so black and white. People are multifaceted and complex. I’m not a fan of condemning a person for one failing or even a couple. There is more to us than the singleness of a part. I’m also not going to fall into the trap of treating individual politicians or secular groups as if they’re manifestations of the city of God on earth.

Context Is Very Important for Choices Like These
Our nation is not a moral collective bound to the promises and warnings of God. Those belong to the church. God often speaks in Scripture of a minor corruption infecting the whole, which is why he would punish whole families for the sin of a single man (consider the death of Achan), but this kind of collective judgment does not apply to the secular world today.

An individual’s immorality might or might not influence his political decisions; it depends on the morals we’re talking about.
Too many Christians who worry about God’s judgment on us for the “immoral” leader we have chosen to institute principles of freedom and moral policies stumble on just this point, because they fail to recognize that the city of man is not God’s collective on Earth. The city of God is. They are not one and the same.

This doesn’t mean the practical and political are not unassociated with the moral. Everything is “moral” in a sense, but we need to take a holistic (not a holy) look at the person we’re choosing as a secular leader. We also need to look at the moral context of the nation as a whole and the moral issues affecting society and not just an individual.

An individual’s immorality might or might not influence his political decisions; it depends on the morals we’re talking about. Will a congressman’s gluttony affect his economic policy? I don’t think so. Can the thief be trusted with top secrets and a nation’s wealth? No, not at all.

Will a serial liar deceive those who put him in office? Most likely. Will the porn-watching senator be influenced by his immorality to make bad foreign policy decisions? I don’t think so. Will a man’s sexual immorality influence his vote on abortion? Probably not. Call him a hypocrite, but I’d rather have a hypocrite who will stop the murder of millions of babies than a virginal man who leads countless to the slaughter.

That Doesn’t Mean Morality Doesn’t Matter
These immoralities don’t go without consequence, of course. They will degrade the man as an individual. This can affect him personally over the long run. It could, through consequences, impact his public decision-making or influence, ripping from him his moral authority.

It is just too simplistic to say, ‘An immoral man will lead to our national ruin.’
So, yes, there are effects of our personal moral choices in our public lives. But these are long and winding paths and more nuanced than we often make them out to be. It is just too simplistic to say, “An immoral man will lead to our national ruin.” If that’s the case, we would have been ruined long ago.

A man’s character is certainly a factor in the quality of his governance, but when the sins are personal and not public in nature, his governance can be directed by other virtues that still shine brightly despite other faults. A moral man can certainly be trusted to make moral decisions (though not always), but it does not follow that a sinner can never make a moral decision or be an effective leader. King David was an adulterer. Samson was a womanizer. Jonah was a coward. Peter denied Christ. All served God well.

Outside the realm of criminality and abuses of power that degrade the office and put the public at risk, a sinner can still serve and do great things. This is because God is ultimately in control, bringing about his purposes by his own righteous authority, and not the authority of fallen men.




blame it on god boys, or the wimmenz, you poor snowflakes.




bounty44 -> RE: More allegations of misconduct (11/28/2017 3:04:01 PM)

one last one from that thread:

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ORIGINAL: bounty44

im really puzzled by your seeming inability to see that emotional and physical fidelity to one's wife is consistent with not putting oneself into situations where something beyond a professional relationship would have the opportunity to develop.

yes, men are dogs, and in acknowledging that, or human nature in general, pence is acting wisely.

given the amount of false accusations that are out there too, and today's political climate, he's acting wisely in that regard also.

i once had an office that was off the main department office, so it was rather noisy. i was meeting with a female student and given the traffic in the main office, it was tough to hear and to concentrate. i asked her if she minded if i closed the door a little bit. she said no. weeks later, when the student was hacked off at me for something, she also said "ive since learned that what you did by closing the door that one day was sexual harassment."

its generally policy in male to female meetings in education/athletics where "power" is an issue, to either not meet alone, or at worst, leave the door open so as to invite public scrutiny.

and to see it only as that.


so wait---by virtue of apparently NOT WANTING WOMEN TO BE BACK IN THE KITCHEN, I let this female student in my office alone, and with the door closed, and later got accused of sexual harassment because of that.

damned if I do, damned if i don't. the right just cannot win with you can they comrades??




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