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Nature or Necessity

It originated as my Nature to be so.

77% (7)

It originated out of Necessity.

22% (2)

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(last vote on : 7/29/2006 11:05:02 PM)
(Poll ended: 7/30/2006 9:00:00 AM)

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Nature or Necessity - 7/29/2006 1:01:14 PM

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Your Bi-sexuality: Was it born of your nature or out of necessity?

This is tough one.. it might take some soul searching. (Maybe.. maybe not :)

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RE: Nature or Necessity - 7/29/2006 1:04:30 PM

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Your Bi-sexuality: Was it born of your nature or out of necessity?

This is tough one.. it might take some soul searching. (Maybe.. maybe not :)

What prompted this question was a program I saw on old age. It says that with the woman living longer than men, older women will more than likely turn to other women for comfort and companionship in their later years.

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RE: Nature or Necessity - 7/29/2006 1:23:39 PM

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Your Bi-sexuality: Was it born of your nature or out of necessity?

This is tough one.. it might take some soul searching. (Maybe.. maybe not :)

I would have to say my Buy-Sexuality was because the marriage and devorce was costly.

So out of necessity.

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What prompted this question was a program I saw on old age. It says that with the woman living longer than men, older women will more than likely turn to other women for comfort and companionship in their later years.

The show I saw on this didn't really state there was sex involved, it was more about the day to day living and companionship from that.

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RE: Nature or Necessity - 7/29/2006 2:00:33 PM

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I know my answer, it is nature for me. How to put it into words for someone else to understand. It's like, why is the grass green, or why do dogs bark, it's just the way it is.

I have always had that attraction. I did not go out looking for it, I did not do it because I couldn't get a man. My first time with a girl was when I was 13, we played around. No, we didn't do the down and dirty, but we knew there was an attraction there already. The same with boys, I always had crushes on my boy friends. I didn't seperate them, I just was attracted to who I was, male or female, it didn't matter to me.

I know that each one offers me something different. With a woman, I get a different sort of emotional love. We show our feelings more, we are more nurturing, more soft, share our deepest thoughts. To kiss a woman, to me, is a connection like no other. Having sex with them, is more of an emotional experience also. There is a deep longing there, a rush, a connection on a higher level. To feel the shake of her body when she orgasms, it reaches into you, and you can almost feel it with her.

With a man, I get something totally different. They are more unemotional, yet they make me feel protected, safe, cared for. It's a different type of love, most often times a silent love. Men aren't as vocal, but they can convey to you what they feel, with little touches here and there. When I kiss a man, it's different, it's harder, it's a more magnetic sort of feel. It can be very soft, but it's more hard, more demanding. When I have sex with a man, I get a different type of fulfillment. It's more primal, it's the weight of him, the feel of him thrusting, then the cumming and the total spilling of himself into me. It makes me feel complete, like I he has given a part of himself to me always.

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RE: Nature or Necessity - 7/29/2006 6:05:43 PM

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I guess I have to choose nature for the fact that I evolved.

I guess my webbed fins grew into feet.

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RE: Nature or Necessity - 7/29/2006 6:26:11 PM

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Necessity . . .

Since I am attracted to both men and women, and I like to be with both men and women, I suppose that it is necessary for my to be bi-sexual.

Was I born this way. . . I believe so, I do not remember going to any brain-washing ceremonies that said that I needed to be this way. Also, who in their right mind would CHOOSE to be bi? Really, I mean. . . not only do we not fit into straight society, the homosexual society is not really thrilled with us either.

Bi's are marginalized all the way around.

So be it, I say. Love me or do not. Like me or do not. Accept me or do not. Your choice.

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RE: Nature or Necessity - 7/29/2006 9:52:31 PM

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Do you think people adapt bisexuality as a way to expand their options?

Say one is a sub looking for a master and striking out, then says.. hey..why not? Being guys are apparently interested in bi-females.

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RE: Nature or Necessity - 7/29/2006 10:07:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: LaMalinche

Necessity . . .

Since I am attracted to both men and women, and I like to be with both men and women, I suppose that it is necessary for my to be bi-sexual.

Was I born this way. . .

I'd say "nature" then in your case. "Necessity" would be a councious attempt to be so to get some kind of intamacy.

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