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Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 7/29/2006 4:58:04 PM

popeye1250

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Do you choose the clothes that your sub or slaves wears?
If so, why?
I like to buy my subs lingerie and other clothing items. I just like it when she wears things I got for her.
That's not to say that she'd have to get rid of her own things or anything like that.
I like her to be well dressed at all times unless I want her otherwise.
And I like to choose which outfits she'll be wearing for the day or to go out to a movie, show or dinner for the evening.
How about you?

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 7/29/2006 6:12:57 PM

SirDarkside357

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When a slave enters my family, she is trained in my ways....this includes how I like her to dress.....once she is trained, I do not always pick her outfits , though I do at times(just cause i want to), I expect her to know what i would like and usually she does....if not I discuss it with her and she will learn..... I don't pick each outfit each time because I like the enjoyment of a surprise once in a while.

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 7/29/2006 6:21:00 PM

LuckyAlbatross

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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250
Do you choose the clothes that your sub or slaves wears?

Sometimes.

quote:

If so, why?

I have an excellect memory of their wardrobes and usually have better sense of styling than they do.

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And I like to choose which outfits she'll be wearing for the day or to go out to a movie, show or dinner for the evening.
How about you?

It can be fun for an occasional use- or interesting if used as humiliation. But I've yet to meet a dominant who had the time, patience, energy AND desire to learn my wardrobe as well as I do to be able to choose a good clothing selection for me on a daily basis, not to mention that again I have much better sense of styling than a large majority of them.

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 7/29/2006 7:00:29 PM

Littlepita

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I choose from my wardrobe that has already been approved by him what I wear most days. But, whenever I need help or he wants to pick he does. It is so much fun to have a man who takes real interest in what I wear and how I look in it. I just love making myself look my best for him and seeing true appreciation for my efforts.

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 7/29/2006 7:41:11 PM

TemptingNviceSub

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Humm..I guess that as far as dressing me goes , I could accept a Dominant doing so..however..there would be a small reluctance on my part for I know what generally suits me best..and frankly I have not run across any man, Dominant or no that strikes me as being particularly fashion savvy.....be well..Tempting

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 7/29/2006 9:43:13 PM

SavageEu

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I look forward to dressing my sub at times. Not an everyday thing I think, especially if she has a job or school, but some days I might like to see her greet me at the door in a nice upscale dress, or 'sophisticated school girl' outfit. I guess it would be more like me playing dressup with a living doll than an everyday process.

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 7/29/2006 11:50:34 PM

amayos

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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Do you choose the clothes that your sub or slave wears?
If so, why?

I like her to be well dressed at all times unless I want her otherwise.
And I like to choose which outfits she'll be wearing for the day or to go out to a movie, show or dinner for the evening.
How about you?

Cloths Do but Cheat and Cozen Us

Away with silks, away with lawn,
I'll have no scenes or curtains drawn;
Give me my mistress as she is,
Dress'd in her nak't simplicities:
For as my heart e'en so my eye
Is won with flesh, not drapery.

—Robert Herrick
(1591–1674)

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 7/30/2006 12:11:32 AM

ownedgirlie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: amayos

Cloths Do but Cheat and Cozen Us

Away with silks, away with lawn,
I'll have no scenes or curtains drawn;
Give me my mistress as she is,
Dress'd in her nak't simplicities:
For as my heart e'en so my eye
Is won with flesh, not drapery.

—Robert Herrick
(1591–1674)

Nice.

You do manage find them for the occasion!

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 7/30/2006 2:01:55 AM

Estring

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My slave usually picks out her own clothing with my likes in mind. She knows a hell of a lot more about fashion than I do, so I let her decide. But, if I don't like what she has chosen, I will make her change. I have not had to tell her to change too often. More often I have to tell her to take her panties off before we go out. The panties look good, but without them looks better.

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 7/30/2006 6:31:12 PM

popeye1250

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L.A., it would be more of my "Approval" of her daily wardrobe.
What do I know about women's "fashions", I'm a guy.
If I tried something like that she'd probably have "shirts" that say "State of Maine" on the back of them.

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 7/31/2006 4:02:08 AM

Rogueswitch

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I choose what my sub wears occasionally eg if were going to a bdsm party or such . But i like some freedom because its nice to see them try and impress me if i let them do it themselves (Written by Rogues Dom)

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 8/7/2006 10:14:38 PM

KnightinBlack

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I have my own personal tastes..... Frankly? I LOVE taking my subbie (well if I had one) shopping... Watching her try on all those cute outfits?

Then the flip side... I come home after a hard day at work, and I find her lounging on the sofa in something very appealing? Something she has gone and done of her own accord..... Makes me crack a HUGE smile..... That, to me, means she was thnking of me.... Whcih, is the best kind of servitude...

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 8/7/2006 10:23:11 PM

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 8/7/2006 10:27:00 PM

enigmabrat

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HMM I always thaught adults could dress themselvs

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 8/8/2006 12:12:32 AM

Needleddtits

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Do you choose the clothes that your sub or slaves wears?

Your sub wears clothes? Is there a need for them?

hehehe

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 8/8/2006 7:40:41 PM

FelinePersuasion

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I'm naked allday everyday unless there is a need to put something on. I choose to be so tho , nobody chooses my nudity

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 8/8/2006 7:53:21 PM

Tangler

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Dawn knows what I like to see her in. She picks those items and wears them. Every so often I will tell her to wear a certain item, but usually it is her choice, unless I tell her to change.

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 8/8/2006 10:37:54 PM

KnightofMists

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No..and Yes....

I don't decide what they will wear on a given day or go with them showing to choose what they will buy. However, I will do it on occassion when it pleases me to do so.

A twist thou... How many have their slaves put their clothes out etc.?

I like to give my girls opportunities to contribute to my goals as well ways that give me pleasure. One of the things that my girls do... (alandra mostly ... but kyra everytime we are together)... is put my clothes out for the day. I get up.. go have my shower and my clothes are always out on a freshly made bed (an unmade bed is a peeve of mine). I care about how I dress... and I incorporate my desire to dress well into a way that my girls can please me and feel they have contributed to my goal in looking well. However, on the rare occassions I will dictate what I want to wear or change what they have choosen. Another reason... is just Time... If I can delegate a task that will save me time and maximize my time for other more pleasurable or neccessary activities... I will do it.

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 8/8/2006 10:44:23 PM

MrrPete

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I'm not into micro-managing a sub.

As far as what she wears most of the time will be her choice.
There are times, however, that I will tell her what I want her
to wear or what not to wear.

Yes, I will correct a poor choice.

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RE: Clothing Choices for your sub or slave. - 8/8/2006 10:46:41 PM

Homestead

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So that means she can't wear the Barney cosume to the wedding reception?

Pity...........

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