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Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off for Y... - 4/13/2004 5:11:43 PM   
knees2you


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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 4/13/2004 5:24:30 PM   
LadyBeckett


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Status: offline 		A one sentence email (generally short) that begins with "Hey...". That pretty much speaks for itself.

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 4/13/2004 8:11:23 PM   
MizSuz


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ORIGINAL: knees2you

Dommes or Domms what was the worst turn off for You, when You recieved a subs/slave first e-mail





They usually read "44 year old mwm into xdressing and dildo training. very oral. Im me."

Or someone who simply sends their picture. Nothing else. No text, no introduction, no name...just their pic (the pics are usually fairly good looking).

Leaves me cold.

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 4/13/2004 8:45:04 PM   
MistressKiss


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Status: offline 		I HATE emails that are desparate to meet...right now...today or tomorrow. Too much too soon, if you ask me. I also hate it, HAAAATEEEE IT, when a male tells me in the first few emails how great he is at giving oral sex. Guess, what...I'm not that INTO oral sex performed on me. So there. Of course the old standards like "I'm told I am good in bed" or "I'm told I am good looking" .. pppuullleeeeeeaseeeeeeeeeeeee

People like to talk about themselves usually. Show an interest in ME and what is going on in my life, not what is "up" between your legs.




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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 4/14/2004 8:20:11 AM   
topcat


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I don't know if it's so much a turn off, But I get very annoyed by eMails that are not merely poorly spelled, by those that are so poorly written that I am not sure hwhat the subject is. The sort that seem to be a drunken stream-of-conciuosness that never quite gell into a discernable statement.

It's not as common as the usual poorly spelt, bad grammar annoyance sort, but it has happened more than once. Makes it difficult to reply.

stay warm,
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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/6/2004 9:29:42 AM   
knees2you


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Status: offline 		Sounds like that not alot of Dommes or Domms
have had really bad first letters sent to them, Which is Good~

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/6/2004 3:29:18 PM   
SternMistress


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Status: offline 		Here's a fine example of what not to do...

From: [email protected] - Not really the email address, but it fits well, methinks.
Date: Thu, May 6, 2004 6:54 am
To: [email protected]
Priority: Normal

hey bitch
can u handle 50yo wm
good shape
make me your pussyboy

Needless to say, it wasn't from anyone here.
One can only ROFLMAO.

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/6/2004 5:21:43 PM   
GoddessMarissa


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Status: offline 		I had someone here send me something on the lines of, can you be my bitch and show and show me how worthless I am. My reply was, you really are worthless.

< Message edited by GoddessMarissa -- 5/7/2004 12:07:12 AM >

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/7/2004 12:13:45 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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Status: offline 		How about: Hey! Here's my yahoo messenger id (ID given) you can catch me online right now...let's chat!
Or this: If you ever want a nice thick dick, I'm the one for you
My favorite: You should scale down your desires. yada yada, and more I wouldn't even dignify by repeating. (This from a supposed sub seeking his dream, but sounding more like he wants a little kinky sex now and then in the bedroom.)
Ah well, it takes all kinds! I just have to keep sorting through it all!

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/7/2004 12:23:05 PM   
Sinergy


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Status: offline 		People seeking a dominate male followed by a long stream of sexual or BDSM things they want from me.

Im always thinking "I have never heard of a verb describing a noun."

Quickly followed by

"I want dinner and a movie before I will put out?"

While I am a very giving person, if the big head is not engaged by the person, Mr. Tiny will not be allowed out to play.

And yes, I know that calling it Mr. Tiny is not a big selling point for a guy, but perjorative names remind me too much of what I do for a living and I have to call it something.

Sinergy

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/7/2004 2:36:49 PM   
GoddessLexy


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The Ones that get to Me are the ones who BRAG about what they can Do for you Sexually and bragging about what a catch they are .Im thinking if your such a good catch you wouldnt be here LAME ASS..


Oh theres the one that say IM VERY VERY ORAL ha


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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/7/2004 3:38:47 PM   
DivanDaddy


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Status: offline 		We prefer to not receive emails from any potential play partners. We have since only taken referralls from those we know, as most we have come into contact with have turned out to be complete flakes, poseurs and have hidden agendas. This may sound cruel, but we have been in this lifestyle long enough to know exactly what we are seeking and when it indeed smells like a rat...

Diva
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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/7/2004 7:09:29 PM   
January


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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

And yes, I know that calling it Mr. Tiny is not a big selling point for a guy, but perjorative names remind me too much of what I do for a living and I have to call it something.


Sinergy,

You cannot leave us "hanging"! What on earth is your job?

January

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/7/2004 8:51:22 PM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		Lexy, very very oral could just mean they talk alot.

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/7/2004 9:05:15 PM   
edendream


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Status: offline 		LOL, good question...I received one two word email from a male sub - all he said was " nice rack" in response to my profile pic; boy, did I email him back quickly so we could play (not). I also dislike emails in which the sub male lists ALL his favorite activities right off the bat, and then tells me that he will do WHATEVER I want..right... but most guys make an effort to be nice and intelligent

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/7/2004 10:32:38 PM   
Sinergy


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Sinergy,

You cannot leave us "hanging"! What on earth is your job?

January


I thought I had explained that, but here goes.

I am a male assailant teaching full-contact women's self defense. I put on a big padded suit, am mean and nasty to people to create the adrenal response, and then when they are angry we teach them to fight back tooth and nail. So we are teaching the Limbic system to fight, which is the only part of the brain available when adrenalin shuts down higher functions.

http://www.impactpersonalsafety.com

People ask me why Im so nice and calm all the time, and I reply that I get to cleanse my raging bile duct at work.

Sinergy

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/9/2004 12:18:48 AM   
GoddessDustyGold


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ORIGINAL: Estring

Lexy, very very oral could just mean they talk alot.


I love it!!! That gave Me a good laugh!! So true!

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/9/2004 8:27:23 AM   
rain


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sinergy

People ask me why Im so nice and calm all the time, and I reply that I get to cleanse my raging bile duct at work.

Sinergy



Sounds very Zen! Wish i could say i get to do the same, but i'm in social work....so, while i get the verbal abuse, i have to contain my emotions....fortunately, i do have more creative ways of "cleansing my raging bile"!!

Cheers,

rain

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 5/9/2004 3:34:02 PM   
MsNikki13


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Status: offline 		I have to agree with other writers on here who have said emails that start with Hey... or one sentance emails. But more than that, I am tired of emails that use the words... "i want..." I mean, I'm Domme, I don't really care what you want. Phrases like, "i seek...", or "i hope to... " work so much better.

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RE: Mistresses, and Domms what was the worst turn off f... - 6/7/2004 7:55:49 PM   
knees2you


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Status: offline 		Well I sure know "what not" to say If i'm introducing myself
to a Domme he he he~

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