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marieToo -> RE: Web sites and the life style (7/31/2006 6:52:21 PM)
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ORIGINAL: RLowner
I have to ask why so many feel that it is necessary to post a naked or near naked photo for all to see. I have always been under the impression that this life is not of SEX and NUDITY but is of the desire between a Master and his. Those desires are what makes them both fulfilled not what some book says you have to act as. I often wonder if the life is becomeing nothing but a way to bring self gradification to some and to others a way to lure ones into a abusive relation under cover of saying it is the way the life is. You see so many saying I posted a photo and if you want to talk to me you have to post one as well. To me that smacks of a player using the life to gain access to someone naked photos to steal and post on some other porn site. I have seen this life style go down hill over the past few years as the internet has become more avaible. I wonder if this site charged for access if we would have so many players. Is the real meaning of the site lost by the players and ones seeking porn. Just look at the adds this and other sites use and I have to say I think a lot of those photos are fake. I live in a smaller comunity and I have never seen any of the photos of the girls that it uses walking down the street in real life. IN fact one of the towns it uses does not even have a store in it or a gas station only a stop sign but there are over 30 photos from that location, hard to believe. Or is the whole life style becomeing nothing more than a way to have kink in your sex life, you find more and more I want to be controlled in the bed room but vanilla outside of it. To me you can't have it both ways and achieve the same effect. But then again I have my own opinion and not that of others.
I do agree with the naked photo thing. I personally find it tasteless and rather classless to post a picture for all the world to see that shows a see through top, or fully naked., or half naked or whatever. Im not a prude and have myself shared naked photos and other photos of myself that I would consider highly personal. But I would never post something like that as part of an 'introduction' in my profile. But then, thats just me. I dont feel strongly about those who choose to show themselves naked for all to see, I just find it kind of "cheap". Though I love nudes with regards to artwork and have one hanging over my bed. So maybe that makes me a hypocrite. I just dont think a profile on a website is the appropriate place to display personal nudity. By the same token, Im not one to tell the world, by way of laundry list my sexual likes/dislikes. I also find that to be highly personal information that the public doesnt need to be privy to. I am more than willing to share these things, but only with someone who actually matters.
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