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RE: Police, Threats, Stalking... - 8/1/2006 10:22:40 PM

Dauric

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ORIGINAL: amayos

Define Safe Sane and Consensual.

A peppy mantra—or a signed agreement, for that matter—is no replacement for sound judgement, good instinct, shrewd contingencies and a broader understanding of human nature.

I'll say that SSC represents a wonderful ideal to live by, even if it's functionally flawed: being unsafe, insane, and nonconsenting is certanly a bad idea.

That said, contracts... They're in the 'nilla world too, called "pre-nuptual agreements" and they usually are one of the bigger warning signs that a relationship will end badly. Best way to avoid the problem is to not get in to it in the first place. Get to know the person, ask questions and get answers. Psychos are candy sprinkles on both sides of the Chocolate-Vanilla swirl.

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RE: Police, Threats, Stalking... - 8/1/2006 11:40:00 PM

jezabelKH

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like the sprinkles comment, will pass that on to "A" and "b"

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RE: Police, Threats, Stalking... - 8/2/2006 1:32:54 AM

meatcleaver

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People usually get what they deserve. The amount of people that get fucked over in BDSM, it really doesn't surprise me when problems arise.

SSC only works if both sides adhere to it but if one person has multiple agendas going, then what can be expected but problems? Hell, I've seen it on the threads were people talk about playing both ends against the middle. If they anger someone, it is their own fault. Saying they are being stalked might well be a convenience to present themselves as a victim rather than being guilty of dispicable behaviour themselves.

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