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Misstoyou -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 1:05:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MmakeMme

Creativity and self-assuredness.



In my experience, creativity and confidence works for submissive men as well (fondly thinking of both my submissive and my puppy at the moment, [8D], but for different reasons. lol)




akisha -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 1:13:51 PM)

I agree with LA, kissing is the main thing. Big or small equipment if you can't kiss i'm not usually interested enough to continue.

Though I must say until I was 25 i really didn't know that 5" was considered average, or that most guys weren't 8" and above. I thought the littler gentlemen were a rarity.

To say the least I was a lil suprised. Though I've learned with age and maturity that there is a lot more to a man then just that *S*  Men have hands and imaginations  whoopieee!! *weg*




MistressOfGa -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 1:17:38 PM)

Akisha
I agree, I LOVE to kiss and to be kissed. The other thing I get turned on by is laughter. There is nothing like being tickled or tickeling to get the juices flowing <s> I also enjoy "rough housing" with pup, although I am the one that normally gets hurt lol hmm...sometimes wonder about that!




DoctorDubious -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 1:43:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa


Not a rant,  just curious as to what sexual attribute  <if any> impresses you most about a potential?



Passion.
Passivity.
Obedience.
Enthusiasm.
Kinkiness.
Lust.

And a sense of humor
about the absurd but profound
nature of love in all its many disguises.

DD




WhipTheHip -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 1:52:24 PM)

Hi Ga,
 
> Why do some men assume that most women want a huge cock?
 
You are making a mistake.  No man assumes most women are looking
for a guy with a huge cock.   But the truth is many females do seek out
guys with big cocks. So if a guy writes, he has 10 inches then he is hoping
that that is what you are looking for, that you like and crave what he has. 
 
I suppose most guys with 10 inch cocks would taut that feature.  
Just because you have little interest in it, does not mean no female
desires it.  It would be just a like a female who wrote she had double Ds. 
Now, I like breasts on the smaller side.  But if some female wrote me
she had double Ds, I wouldn't assume she thought I liked double Ds. I
would think she is tauting what a lot of men find attractive.
 
> Now, you can impress me by telling me you can lick pussy for hours,
> THAT would be impressive <s>
 
I'm not submissive, but I enjoy forcing females to orgasm till it hurts.
I lick pussy all night and day and night till all strength is drained from
their body, and their neither regions are so sore and sensitive, that
any further contact would literially drive them insane.
 
My first two loves, Eva and Stephanie, had been strictly
gay till they met me.  I had never dated a female before
in my life, let alone have a physical encounter with one. 
I had never sexually touched a female in my life. Eva 
and Stephanie lived in a room in a hotel I managed.
Eva was an exotic dancer.  It turns out a lot of exotic
dancers are gay.  She liked looking at the other dancers,
and hated the guys. Eva looked and acted very fem, but
sometimes acted a little tomboyish herself.   She also
had this thing about acting like an innocent little girl. 
When she danced, she danced like she was embarrassed. 
Naturally, she didn't like intercourse.  How we got
together is a long story, but the three of us lived together,
and she taught me how to satisfy her.  Soon, Stephanie
wanted me to do her, too. They eventually each preferred
me doing them, than them doing each other.  Though as
I did each of them, they would kiss and play with each
other.  As things progressed, they both fell in love with
me. Then they started fighting with each other--not over
me--but over everything else.  Gay female lovers always
seem to fight with each other.  Eva kicked Stephanie out.
At this point I had very little say in things.  After Eva
kicked Stephanie out, Eva and I lived together for many
years, till she got heavily into cocaine, and became totally
psychotic. When she started to throw coke bottles at
me for no reason, I had to end things even though I
loved her.  At the time, I didn't realize that the coke
was the cause of her crazy behavior.  She was 
also somewhat bipolar, but it was really the coke
that made her psychotic.  Even in her manic phase
she was never totally psychotic.  At the time, I knew
nothing about how drugs effect people, or anything
about mental illness.  Just prior to managing the
hotel I had been studying religion several years in
something akin to a monestary when I became an
atheist.
 
I never used drugs. Eva was strong-willed but sexually
very submissive, and liked me to hold her hands
over head.  I had never read or seen anything about
bdsm in my life, but did the whole bdsm thing with her.
I would rip or cut her clothes off, tie her up and flog her,
and she loved it.  But I knew nothing about D/s.  Bdsm
just came out of me naturally.  There was one time she
wanted to tie me up and whip me, and I let her, and
she went wild.   We both did a lot of things that a lot
people in the bdsm community do, without either of us
ever having been taught or exposed to it.
 
Gay females say no one knows who to pleasure a female
like another female, so I found it a boost to my ego, that
Eva and Stephanie each preferred me to go down on them
than each of them.
 
Best regards,
Michael
 
 




Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 2:00:05 PM)

Give me a devious, wicked mind anyday. ::melt::

Once that's established, I'm drawn to a man's hands. Big, strong...well-kept. They can tell you a lot about a man since they are definitely one of his most flexible tools. [8D]

A nice set of lips with a ready smile, and healthy teeth...another turn-on.




losttreasure -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 2:16:28 PM)

Well, I wouldn't even consider them a potential if they didn't have the mental abilities that I desire, and while I can appreciate physical attributes, I can't say that I've ever been truly impressed by any.

What I've been genuinely blown away by is emotional aptitude... when a man knows to wrap me in his arms, entwine his fingers in my hair, and devour me with a kiss... when he understands that I really just need a gentle hug of reassurance.... or when he senses that I need unwaivering guidance and steadfast leadership... all intuitively or instinctively. Well, that's an attribute that I find dead sexy and that just makes me melt into a puddle of goo. ;)




MmakeMme -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 2:17:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DoctorDubious

Passion.
Passivity.
Obedience.
Enthusiasm.
Kinkiness.
Lust.

And a sense of humor
about the absurd but profound
nature of love in all its many disguises.

DD


~ polite applause ~

And a hearty hi-ho Silver to those of you who including kissing. It's an art form.




Siean -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 2:23:20 PM)

Greetings Mistress of Ga,

The first thing that lures me into a submissive is thier eyes. peircing eyes that seem to sense what my body and soul needs. Then it would be thier mind. They have to be intellegent, quick witted, and able to have log discussions with me about whatever seems to fascinate me that day/week/month/year.

Physically other than the eyes, I look for an all around package. I am an admitted ass man [:D] So shapely legs ending in a tight ass are great for me. But they must be in good shape as I expect my subs to be able to keep up with me.

Sie




WhipTheHip -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 2:24:15 PM)

Women say they like a guy with a good mind, but mathematicians and physicists always (there are exceptions to every rule) have a hard time getting dates. 




MistressOfGa -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 2:30:36 PM)

Michael,
I have enjoyed your writing and welcome to the forums. But....

quote:

You are making a mistake.  No man assumes most women are looking for a guy with a huge cock.  

It astounds me that you feel you can speak for ALL men here. You are making an absolute statement and to tell me that I am making a mistake is a mistake on your part. It is MY findings that SOME men (as I posted) assume that MOST women prefer a huge cock. Notice that I did not say ALL men assume that ALL women prefer a huge cock.
 
quote:

Gay female lovers always seem to fight with each other.

Again with the most generalized statements. You may know ALL of the gay women in the world, so maybe you are an expert on this type of behavior between gay women, but I have known quite a few gay women in my lifetime, my sister being one of them, and I have not found that they fight with each other any more or less than most het. couples.
 
I think you will learn alot if you try to stay away from absolute statements. Those tend to hit on the nerves of some, like me, for instance. Before you tell me I am mistaken in what I have written, be sure you have some empirical data to back up your statements, other than your own experiences, which is all I was posting from. My own experience.




MHOO314 -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 2:30:45 PM)

Tall with great eyes, a dashing smile and a great sense of humor.




SusanofO -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 2:35:34 PM)

I know people may think this is corny, but their voice. It doesn't really matter if it's Tenor or Bass, but some elusive quality in some people's voices just sends chills up my spine I cannot explain.

Eyes are next for me (piercing, yet there's a glimmer in them that lets me know someone has some love and affection to offer), and then...well, the list gets long (but none of it is really a requirement of mine).

Except for what losttreaure said (she is right. At least, I agree with what she said - it's number one with me, too).

- Susan 




Inhibitor -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 3:04:13 PM)

It's all in the details...curves between collarbone and shoulder, the arc of a calf, that place just under the elbow where the arm gets slightly thicker and then gradates into wrist....

My favorite, though, is movement and composure, odd as that may sound. Someone who can pull off a slow, light touch and have me pinned half a second later with grace is like opiate. [:)]

Oh, and WhiptheHip - I've dated a pure mathematician, and my current s.o. is a computer geek and language expert. Some of us do our part. ^ ^




cuddleheart50 -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 3:22:06 PM)

The ability to suck tongue really well.
A great sense of humor( cause I'm so goofy all the time)
nice ass
Confidence
Beautiful eyes
Great smile






Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 4:42:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Inhibitor

Oh, and WhiptheHip - I've dated a pure mathematician, and my current s.o. is a computer geek and language expert. Some of us do our part. ^ ^



LOL My ex is a statistician, and a computer geek. Big brains is sexy!! [:D]




cloudboy -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 5:13:48 PM)


I am glad to see that the ladies here who have posted are not cock-obsessed.

I've always kind of wondered what happened to ladies when they discovered a guy's cock was TOO BIG.

Needless to say I've never inspired such a feeling.




SusanofO -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 5:40:40 PM)

cloudboy: I am not sure why some men feel women are obssessed with this. I have heard from women who have indeed experienced "too big" and it sounded like they felt it to be extremely painful to me.

- Susan




breathless1 -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 5:51:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Why do some men assume that most women want a huge cock? I just received email from a submissive who informed me that he has 10 inches of cock, guarenteed to satisfy me. Yeah? Well guess what? I can't stand large cocks, so that didn't impress me at all. Now, you can impress me by telling me you can lick pussy for hours, THAT would be impressive <s>
 
Not a rant,  just curious as to what sexual attribute  <if any> impresses you most about a potential?


the biggest sexual attribute of all.....His mind.

                                                    breathless one




cuddleheart50 -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 5:56:18 PM)

There is anywhere from 3 1/2 to 4 1/2 inches from the outside of the vagina to the cervix...how much more would you need???




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